Hello! I don't want to burden anyone, but I have a frantic need to share. I consider myself one of the most unhappy people in the world. I don't find meaning, I don't know how to live, I can't find myself. I have been paralyzed in bed for over 20 years. I somehow endured this, despite the cruel negatives of this fact, but ... For a short period of time I lost my sister, my mother and my father forever. My niece and I stayed together - she took care of me - in a different form. I live in hell. Grief ruins me. I don't know what to do, I really don't know.
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I'm sorry about what happened to you. Losing your parents is a normal part of life. Unfortunately, for some people, this happens earlier, as it does for me. Be thankful that you have a niece who takes care of you. You have to find meaning for yourself in something. Even if you are physically limited, use the internet to communicate and make new friends. You can also find a hobby, such as creating something. Do not isolate yourself from the world and do not let grief ruin you. Everything passes - both bad and good. And for you the sun will rise again, just look at life more positively.
I am very sorry for the misfortunes that happened to you! Sooner or later everyone loses their loved ones in one way or another ... the bad thing about you is that you lost them at the same time ... I know it will sound nasty .. but you better lose them as in life than they bury you as their child ...: / personally I pray to God not to cause this to my parents because it is much scarier ... Now! I know you must be quite desperate, but I am of the opinion that if you start meditating and shake off these negative emotions for at least 30 minutes a day, you have a very real chance to seriously improve your condition! If you read a little on the net you will see that the network is full of cases of cured people in a very serious condition! But you know it's not a day, darling! Be strong! Pay for all the negativity that has attracted these circumstances. And load yourself with serious patience! I know you know it, but your situation with this paralysis is quite difficult, but it is not impossible to recover at all! Day after day! Repeat to yourself that you are healing more and more every day! Success! : *
What happened to you in bed.
I'm sorry for what you went through. Do not stop looking for treatment - abroad, alternatively, whatever.
Thank you, good people, for the encouraging words! №1, sorry for your loss. №2, you are right. My sister died, my mother couldn't stand it and left a year after her. №3, I got sick. From the Council of Ministers. Thank you again.
I don't know what I could write to a person who's been paralyzed for more than 20 years. whoever has gone through it could say something really meaningful. But on the other hand, I will still try, because once you post a topic, then you want to get some feedback from some people ... So I think you are a really strong person after so long you still have a desire for anything. either, even if you post a topic on this site - I probably wouldn't do that in your place, and I would certainly have given up my life without losing my loved ones. I also have no experience (yet) with the grief of a very close person, so I can't say anything useful here either, but indeed this is forthcoming to almost every man at some point in his life. Apart from telling you not to give up, which sounds ridiculous coming out of a person like me, you can find various things on the Internet to immerse yourself in ... to read some books or just watch some videos. Or why not try to write for yourself - about your experience during all these years, about your feelings, your experiences ... it can become a really interesting book; or to learn a foreign language. In general, when you think about it, the Internet is a mega blessing, especially for a person who for some reason is not able to move. Or why not try to write for yourself - about your experience during all these years, about your feelings, your experiences ... it can become a really interesting book; or to learn a foreign language. In general, when you think about it, the Internet is a mega blessing, especially for a person who for some reason is not able to move. Or why not try to write for yourself - about your experience during all these years, about your feelings, your experiences ... it can become a really interesting book; or to learn a foreign language. In general, when you think about it, the Internet is a mega blessing, especially for a person who for some reason is not able to move.
Honey, I admired your strength. I imagine how hard it is for you. But to pass these trials is because it is God's providence. I know it is not easy to accept, but we are a little on earth and learning lessons here. As for MS, I've heard that it responds well to a certain type of diet. There was an article in Magazine 8 some time ago about a man who overcame multiple sclerosis. Believe even in the darkest hours.
Hello! For starters - watch the movie Outpost - it is unique and will help you a lot in your difficult situation. (It's also on You Tube, here's a link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=29xuxhFueJg) The best thing you can do in your situation is to turn with all your soul and heart to God. To share your problems and pains with him, to pray. And may your prayers be addressed both to Lord Jesus Christ and to the Most Holy Mother of God, who is our Heavenly intercessor, protector and comforter. Buy an Orthodox prayer book - there are wonderful prayers in it, just in case. Start reading the New Testament (from the Bible) and there you will see described the most important events in the earthly life of the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will find and know the Truth. If you are already an Orthodox Christian, start leading a church and spiritual life (according to your strengths and abilities). And gradually you will understand and realize the true meaning of earthly life, and you will learn to trust God and with his help to overcome all difficulties, problems and trials. It is a long and difficult process, but with God's help everything can be achieved. May God caress, comfort, strengthen, help, protect and defend you!
Thanks for the moral support, good people!