What does it really mean to love someone ... To give and not want something in return. What happens if you start to feel that the person on the other side is starting to use you and at the same time you have such strong feelings for him that you can't just leave?
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I know from experience that you will stay with this person and after a while when the love evaporates, you will leave him. Then you will bitterly regret wasting your time with him.
I am wondering the same thing ?
And what causes these "very strong feelings" other than the desire to be used? And what is "use" about when you "don't want anything in return"? You don't seem to be completely honest or at least you are not completely aware of yourself and your priorities ...
Well, you start to remember that you have principles and you act, you don't let yourself be used for a long time and you stop doing that.
There is no "you can't". It is a matter of desire and decision. Holly
It feels better to respect yourself than to love someone who doesn't respond to you with the same, so just leave
I know this feeling. I have experienced it more than once, including in my current relationship, but this time I had experience and I was able to stop using it in its infancy and show the person that nothing real is built that way. One way to find out if he's only with you for a specific benefit is to turn off the tap and watch his reactions, and then show that you need something. If you want, leave an e-mail for contact or share specifically what it is about.
Yes, you give without asking for anything in return. And even though you don't want to, you get a lot. And when the other person starts using you, then love is one-sided, on the other hand there is interest. And when in this situation you can't just leave and let yourself be used, then you're just a piece. I don't wish it on anyone. But
Well, you're just not for each other. Rosiros 49
who uses, in my opinion, one day falls into his own trap, in fairy tales the fox always remains deceived in the end and the one who gives, and he is given one day! good luck, and listen to your heart for everything, maybe it won't let you down ..