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Love After 40 - 50?

By alinochkax120 September 14, 2020 6 answers Last updated September 14, 2020

Have you ever fallen in love later? I'm not talking about people telling how they fell in love with their wife again, but about a new, true, shaking love. How is it different from the one you experienced when you were young, is it calmer?

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kikiplumpass answered · September 14, 2020

   All sensations are many times stronger, conscious and intense, including pain and frustration. But it's worth it, it's still love.

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_bblanc answered · September 14, 2020

   Very nice topic, I know a couple of 44 - in love and happy, living together. Another at 62 and 65 - fell in love at this age with each other as teenagers, they just want to be healthy to be together. As they say in a Bulgarian song - the first love is not important, but the last.

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showerbuddy1 answered · September 14, 2020

   We are a classic case. We met when I was 42 and he was 33. We fell in love catastrophically. God has led us through many trials. We fought with public opinion, with the attitude of our relatives and most of all - with ourselves, this was the biggest battle. At one point we had decided to separate - we still had families, although we were not happy with our husbands, nor were they happy with us. It turned out to be impossible. We both got sick for no physiological reason. The strangest thing was that our symptoms were the same: we could not eat, we suffered from insomnia and our hair began to fall out. Finally we jumped into the deep. We got divorced, we got married, and we haven't spent a day away from each other since. Five years already. Today we are even more in love than in the months after our first meeting. This is Love, which I have only read about in the books - full spiritual recognition, full physical conformity. My heart aches at the thought of how many years we have lost living without each other, but I know that's how it should have been - to meet late to realize the great gift that fate gives us, and to appreciate and cherish our happiness . I'll just say - to understand how strong the feeling is between us - that I often lie down at night without sleeping in the dark, it makes me sleepy, but I don't want to fall asleep, because that means not feeling his body touching me for a few hours. ; early in the morning, if I open my eyes, I see my husband sitting on the bed with a cup of coffee - he just looks at me, he wants to look at me as long as possible before he goes to work. Do not be afraid of love, no matter when, how and where it comes to you! And be worthy of it: protect it, preserve it.

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karen_soler answered · September 14, 2020

   Yes, but these things rarely happen

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plantifullybased answered · September 14, 2020

   My mother got married for the second time at the age of 47, her husband is 53, they are very happy. My mother says that a second marriage is a grace. You already know what you can and should not compromise on. You already know who you are and you do not identify with the opinion of your partner.

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denizshares answered · September 14, 2020

   Number 3 very nice story, be happy for many years!