I have a problem showing my love for the girl I'm dating. To say it many times is that it is important to me, that I like it very much ... but the problem is that I don't know how to show it with actions. I'm very good in words, but when I have to do something to show it to her, I don't succeed at all, and I think that if I don't start showing them, she will leave me. Give some advice on how to act :)
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Make gifts and surprises with occasion and without occasion, drive / send her to them after a meeting, get her, give her your jacket when it's cold, umbrella when it's raining, help her as much as you can. Just be a gentleman and he won't leave you.
Be punctual for meetings, listen to her, look for her, just to ask her how she is or wish her "Good night", take an interest in her and her interests, remember what she likes and what she doesn't. I am a woman of 30 and this attitude of a man impresses me. Not various gifts, ladles and slimes.
Hug her, kiss her, not only on the mouth, but also on the cheek and forehead, for example. She also makes some small gestures, like bringing her candy, letting her eat something from your fork. Protect her and respond when needed. Well, such spontaneous manifestations of attention and care for me have always been the most pleasant signs of love. Try.
Love comes from within. It cannot be imitated or shown by force. If you have a problem showing love, then you don't really feel it. In today's relationships there is a pressure to say it, to show it, which is wonderful in principle, but not after adding that today's relationships are not based on love. The vast majority are based on "fuck me" / "I'm cooler with a boyfriend" / "money" / "comfort" or my personal favorite - "I'm just bored and I want to play with someone". Grow up. USA
Number 2, 3 and 4 three said it. There is nothing to add. Indeed, cavalier attitude, tenderness and care can captivate a woman's heart. Every hug, caress, kiss speaks much more than any words. All the small gestures also make a big impression - a cup of hot coffee in the morning, a message for good night or good morning, a flower, your favorite chocolate, walking hand in hand, etc ... I hope you got the idea. Good luck and I hope you appreciate it! I wish you good health, love and happiness!