Hello ... For the first time I share here and in general in a similar forum .. I will drive essentially directly to the problem. We have been writing to a 29-year-old boy for 5 months ... I fell in love with him almost immediately .... Everything became serious .. We talked on the phone .. We constantly exchanged photos ... we knew each other very well, although not live we saw each other ... we loved each other ... we knew it and we said it to each other ....
After a while we found differences between us and we realized that we can't be together ... We agreed to remain just friends .. After we continued to communicate this, but only as friends and nothing more. But it is difficult for me to remain friends with a person I love ... It is simply impossible after all the words and plans we made ... One night I wrote to him that this is not reasonable and we cannot forget in this way .. .. and I blocked it ... It's been a long time but I can't forget it ... You might say it's weird because everything was virtual, but I loved it and that's a fact !! I still love him and I can't recover ... From morning till night I think only about him and I have no appetite .. I lost a lot of weight ... it hurts a lot when I think about him ... I don't have any strength anymore ... I want to I forget it, but I can't ... I know I have to forget it urgently because I'm already worried about myself ... I have a palpitation and no appetite ....
Tell me no, time will help ... Tell me a method or way to rip it out of my head and bring back my old way of life ... Thanks in advance and I apologize to those who will think that the story is a little crazy because I love a person I have not seen .... but it has already happened and you have to believe that i love him and it hurts me .... You might say it's weird because everything was virtual, but I loved it and that's a fact. !! I still love him and I can't recover ... From morning till night I think only about him and I have no appetite .. I lost a lot of weight ... it hurts a lot when I think about him ... I don't have any strength anymore ... I want to I forget it, but I can't ... I know I have to forget it urgently because I'm already worried about myself ... I have a palpitation and no appetite .... Tell me no, time will help ... Tell me a method or way to rip it out of my head and bring back my old way of life ... Thanks in advance and I apologize to those who will think that the story is a little crazy because I love a person I have not seen .... but it has already happened and you have to believe that i love him and it hurts me ....
You might say it's weird because everything was virtual, but I loved it and that's a fact. !! I still love him and I can't recover ... From morning till night I think only about him and I have no appetite .. I lost a lot of weight ... it hurts a lot when I think about him ... I don't have any strength anymore ... I want to I forget it, but I can't ... I know I have to forget it urgently because I'm already worried about myself ... I have palpitation and no appetite...
Tell me no, time will help ... Tell me a method or way to rip it out of my head and bring back my old way of life ... Thanks in advance and I apologize to those who will think that the story is a little crazy because I love a person I have not seen .... but it has already happened and you have to believe that i love him and it hurts me ....
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Yes, time will cure you, but it's a little strange to me how a 29-year-old woman who is mature and experienced has fallen into such a situation? It is most likely even that the man is engaged or has written to many other women. In general, I advise you to forget about it, and in the future - online contact and dating - YES, but look within the first 2-3 weeks to establish real contact with the person, because often online people are just different, and there are people, who are just looking for attention but have no real interest in a romantic relationship. Now tighten up - you will recover and then you will laugh at yourself, because you will realize that this was not real love.
The person has been committed it is clear, but you can forget it by thinking about other things - hobbies, learning, work, character development, friends
One, she did not write how old she is. From the reactions, however, I judge that she is about 15 intellectually, but who knows how old she is physically ... Author, grow up! You too idealized this internet prince of yours. In fact, to really understand what a person is like, you have to live with him for at least a year. And to suffer for someone you haven't even had coffee with is just very, very stupid.
Wait, wait ... I didn't understand - you sent each other photos, but you fell in love with a person you didn't see? Otherwise, I would advise you to fill this "gap" and clog this pain through someone else. Use someone, meet them and flirt with them. If you do not want to use anyone, I advise you to indulge in sports. Run, enroll in a boxing school, for example, martial arts, go shoot in a shooting range or read and relax. :) You will see that after a few months of distraction you will not miss it at all. I say it from personal experience! :) Come on success. :)
You do it yourself. It hurts, you have a palpitation and you have no appetite not because it is not for you but because you neglect your heart. It tells you one thing, but you don't listen to it and you do some things and try to forget it. Instead of running away from love and blocking it - better talk to him, ask his forgiveness and be together. I don't understand women like you - why you run away from your happiness and then wonder that you feel bad.
I know this may sound cliché, but the old love is forgotten with a new one :) A year had passed since I broke up with my boyfriend, and I was still crying every night. Then, quite unexpectedly, the man appeared who made my smile wake up from this one-year dream. Of course, at first it will be difficult for you to trust someone else, but if this person really wants to be with you, he will do everything possible to do so, no matter how long it will take you.
I know this may sound cliché, but the old love is forgotten with a new one :) A year had passed since I broke up with my boyfriend, and I was still crying every night. Then, quite unexpectedly, the man appeared who made my smile wake up from this one-year dream. Of course, at first it will be difficult for you to trust someone else, but if this person really wants to be with you, he will do everything possible to do so, no matter how long it will take you.
He's 29 ... I'm 21 ... I know it sounds weird to fall in love with someone you haven't seen ... but here it is .. !!! I really love him ... maybe because we shared our whole lives ... or from the thrill that is no more ... I don't know how I loved him ... and I don't know how to forget him ...
Number 1, not the woman but the man is 29! Eh, how can you not read! Author, it is NOT possible to write separately! You will forget it in time, as long as it shakes.
I am sending you this letter with a wish that everything written in it come true. This is a Chinese teaching. With money you can buy a house, but not a home. You can buy a bed, but not sleep. You can buy a watch, but not time. You can buy a book, but not knowledge. You can buy a position, but not respect. You can pay for a doctor, but not for health. You can buy a life, but not a soul. You can buy sex, but not love. You can buy everything material, but not spirituality. Chinese teaching brings good luck, because sending positive energy through good wishes is the best way to help your neighbor. The beginning is in China. This teaching has already traveled the world 8 times. But this time, it will bring happiness to you too. Once you receive this letter, you will be happy. This is not a joke! Your luck will smile! Forward this letter online or by mail to people in need of happiness. Don't send money because happiness is not bought with money. Do not keep the letter for more than 96 hours. You must have sent it by then. In 1997 the letter was received by a young man. He promised to send it, but postponed it for later. Which means he kept the letter for more than 96 hours. He later forwarded it as he had promised. And he succeeded - he happily married his beloved wife and he had many beautiful children. And so he continued the chain of happiness. Remember, do not send money and do not sign the letter. Send only 20 copies and wait to see what happens to you in a few days. The teaching was created by a Chinese monk from Shao Lin Monastery, where the wisdom of the world is gathered. I'm sending it to you, because you have a duty to help it go around the globe. Send 20 copies to your relatives, acquaintances and friends, and even to strangers. In a few days you will receive good news, or you will be pleasantly surprised. This is the truth, even if you are not superstitious. This was sent to you for luck. Thanks to someone who wants to help you "
You've lost weight, what are you complaining about?
Hello! I know what's wrong with you, believe me. And I'm in love with a man we've been dating for a long time, but it's even more complicated for me because he has a girlfriend, but it doesn't matter now. Why don't you talk to someone close to you - a friend, a friend? Try to move forward in some way by meeting new people and distracting yourself in different ways. I am sure that if you go out with your girlfriend and have fun, you will forget him and find another person :) Good luck! I'm sure you're strong and you can handle it
You've been filming a lot (no hate)
You can't forget it, right away, you'll need time. Try to connect with other guys if you want each week with a different one. I know, this is not for everyone but if you can meet different guys. You don't have to do anything with them, just for company.
You still had to see each other live. Photos are one live, another is photos.
Admit everything to him, no matter what his answer is. Thanks to the boy for the friendly attitude and contact after the separation, it is obvious that he is not someone with a rural mentality. But just because he's looking for you doesn't necessarily mean that he has any feelings, maybe it's an attachment, which is normal. Most people are like that, it is difficult to give up love completely, but even if you have to forget it, after meeting another and falling in love again, you will have only good memories. Go to the meeting and try whatever happens, better than torturing your heart unnecessarily. You should know that we are all given this chance that you have now, for example, there are people who will cross you out forever. Success!