Love In The Workplace

   YOUR DEAR JUDGE, BUT I WOULD STAY WITH YOUR FRIEND IN YOUR PLACE AFTER HE IS MARRIED AND HAS A CHILD YOU HAVE NO PLACE THERE, HE ONLY WANTS SEX FROM YOU.

   Are you waiting for someone to give you an excuse for infidelity? Life is yours - live it as you want, but think about the consequences! Everyone is responsible for their actions, whether they like it or not, they are yours!

   I know there is a thrill and you want to do it, but I would advise you not to do it. You remember that he, as the boss, will fuck you once or twice and then dump you like a used handkerchief. You don't want to feel that way, do you? If you have decided to try something different from your friend, you better do it outside of your work / I mean not with one of your bosses or colleagues /. Then you will feel bad. But in the end, the choice is yours. If you think you can fuck without putting anything in, that's fine, but if you stumble then you'll lick your wounds and there's no one to help you. You will be left alone with the pain and the insult.

   9 months ago, I was so hesitant: should I start a relationship with the boss or not? Well, I started it because I wanted it very much, the first few times it was supreme, I didn't feel bad in front of my friend because he deserved it ... But lately things have changed a bit, we've thinned out meetings, like a slave. place his attitude changed and I realized that I was not his only mistress. But there is nothing I can change or reverse. Now that I think about it, I wouldn't do such a thing another time with my employer. So think very carefully before you take the last step towards it. Then things get much different and more complicated. Good luck, I hope you make the right decision!

   You will be very wrong, as I was once wrong ...

   I tried and it's a lot. cool, but there is no emotional connection between us, only sex. I don't mind having good sex with the boss. We both have a family. After sex with the boss during the day at work in the evening, I want my husband even more. The thrill is unique.

   In Bulgaria, unfortunately, most male employers allow themselves a little more than normal relationships in the workplace. When they hire a woman "on board", they start to try in a friendly way after a while, if it happens and the number passes, it would be good. Then it passes and they start behaving differently than in the beginning. If you give in now you will see the difference. Men get fed up with the other and then turn their backs. I have an old story told regularly by my mother: "Where you live and work, don't go wild, because things can get more serious and problems inevitably come." Don't waste your good relationship for one. . . . , you have it at home.

   Do it because if you don't try it, you can always regret it. And I did, except my boss had no family and fell in love with me. But there is nothing between us anymore. The thrill disappeared from me. We are friends now. I don't see what's bothering you. Abstain from the fact that he is your boss and be discreet. It is!

   There are companies that have looked like brothels, when a new babe comes to work and they all try one by one to see if the number works. The bad thing is that after sex women become attached - this is how female nature is structured. Supposedly only for sex, however, feelings interfere - it is inevitable, unless the colleague / boss is not very bad in bed. Men's passion is easier and they are already looking for something new. You will be the victim, there is no doubt about that.

   From the author: I know that I will suffer, but I already have the feelings. And every time I tell myself that I will end, but ..... I can't. He is so kind to me. He is very gentle and I don't know how far he will go ....

   So for a moment of pleasure you are able to destroy the relationship with a friend who cares about you? Think hard - not everyone can forgive. I think that official relations should remain OFFICIAL, and personal - only personal. It would be a mistake to allow intimacy in the workplace. After all, we are people, we have a will, we have a mind, we also have feelings .... Which will prevail over MIND or FEELINGS? You choose.

   Knock it out a few times and ask for a raise.

   Leave immediately, I've been through this and believe me it's not worth it .....

   Hi, I'm one of the women who messed with my boss. The experience is great, but then you feel robbed and unhappy. I have been meeting with him secretly for more than 6 months, for the simple reason that we are both married. When we are together, everything is more than wonderful, but then thousands of questions start running through your head. It hurts when you can't be together on holidays.

   And I am in this situation recently, he is married with a child, it is very clear to me that he will not leave them for me and I will not allow him, it is very strange, in the evening you looked at each other naked, and the next day you make sure nothing happened ..... I don't know how things will turn out.

   It's hell and I've been in the same situation as you for 1 week and now I'm wondering what will happen and his wife began to feel - he works with us, he can't help but feel. Whether we will lose our job and dignity or we will be fine for a long time with the boss who gives us everything and wants us to be "good", I do not know, but everyone tells me that the first thesis is the most likely. Something good that has just begun can end at any moment in the most painful way for us. Where we take our bread, other things are not taken out ... but we women too ... let them pamper us a little and come on .. we have licked And the boss is a boss, he is married, he loves his child and respects his wife ... .. is financially independent, satisfies all your whims and we are one of them unfortunately: (((

   Do you disrespect your friend so much that you are able to cheat on him with a married man? If you clung to him, you would oppose the caresses of your boss and let him know that you have a friend whom you caress and love. to someone else.

   From the Author: I want to say that I have not been with my friend for a long time, but the reason is not the boss, and the circumstances require it !!! As nasty as it was, life is so harsh that it happens that you break up even with the person you loved the most in the world.

   And what happened to the boss?

   What about the boss? "It's long over ..."

   At your request or at his request?

   In my opinion, of course, he still hints at the most convenient moment.

   Hasn't he turned another one already? Such a boss does not stand on dry land. Look around.

   Well, the problem is his, with whom he wants to fuck with him. No need to look around ...

   But did your boss fuck well or are you not happy. If you haven't been, write to me at [email protected] You won't be dissatisfied :)

   Hello! And I have the same (I don't know if I should call it) problem. I worked with the man / he was a deputy. a boss here / who is now courting me and while we were here together at work, there are sparks, because we have known him for a long time, but we both skillfully hid, although we felt that there was an attraction between us. So since he was transferred to another institution, with which we are more or less one, he began to share his feelings with me and so it all started as a joke with text messages and innocent jokes. So far, there has only been one kiss between us, but he insists on seeing me somewhere else. We are both married, he even for the second time, but in my family sex has not been going for a long time. We love each other, but there is a problem. I want to do it, but I, like you, still wonder if I'm going to dive deep or stay ashore,

   Don't, after you say that you have feelings - it will get even worse !!! He has NO feelings for you !! There won't be !! He will never leave his wife and child, and he shouldn't. You are judgmental about your relationship - if you have feelings for someone else - end it - it's not worth it. But after sex with the boss it will be even harder for you to forget it, and it will be necessary! If you ask me, look for a new job, break up with your friend, stop this drama and start fresh!

   I think life is too short to miss any opportunities that can bring us emotional satisfaction, I know what you're talking about because I'm in the same situation and it's hard for me to control myself ... The difference is that my I don't see him as a boss often / he is a foreigner, gentle, and he is not my direct boss, my boss's boss :) / but I knew that I liked him too. We just saw each other outside working hours, where there were no curious employees to see us. We had a great weekend, and I don't know if I'll ever forget it, but it was worth it. I am still intoxicated by the experience, which exceeded all my expectations :)) I want to see him again but I would not look for him and I would not answer his calls.

   he told you so directly that he only wanted sex, that he had nowhere else to go! stay on your ass if you really care about your boyfriend and don't bother with the boss in question. if he starts to bother you too much, you can always file a complaint against him! at least you'll put him in an awkward position, if nothing else. look at your boyfriend and don't think about married men! there is no use of them !!!

   Don't read :) The chick has fucked her boss for a long time, and apparently he dumped her, and she's not with her boyfriend anymore ...