Hello, I have a person who is close to my heart. I love him very much and I know that he loves me and cares for me. We fought and got along a lot. This man and I were together for 5 years, but we broke up and he started a relationship with another. She ruined him and all her friends, and I warned him about that. They were together for 1 year and he was terribly sorry about it and told me it countless times. He looked for me again after her. We got closer again. We went out, we traveled, we had fun together ... until a new star appeared. No one gives them more than a month and everyone is very disappointed with it. I don't know what to do now. He wants me to be a part of his life despite her and claims that he cares a lot about me and loves me, that I am part of his family. Please help me and give me advice. I love it very much and I don't want to lose it. He is looking for me and wants to see me.
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I'm sorry, but I won't tell you what you want to hear. I don't know this type of people who have changed. My father was like that. My mother has been waiting for him for 15 years for his mind to come, and he is here with her, now with the second one. He ruined his life by waiting. My father's second wife didn't dig in either, even after my father finally left my mother and went to see her. He made her a child and started with his numbers again. I had a boyfriend who dumped me so I could go back to my ex. Which is something like your friend. Well, they spent two or three months and he started again. I have seen countless more such cases. Look, the problem here is not just love. This type of toxic relationship can be terribly addictive. But they are not life sentences. As much as it hurts, break all contact with him. I know that when you love someone, you can't imagine another relationship. It is not necessary, just do not be afraid to be alone and rub the crunch in life. Do what you love, see friends. It will affect you well. Also think about changing your place of residence, to break away from everything that reminds you of it. It is a good idea to consider visiting a psychologist. Apparently because of some pattern in your head they attract this type of men and you can't tear yourself away. Yes, one must follow one's heart, but not put one's brain aside. If something is obviously toxic and not working, break it, no matter how much you love, no matter how much it hurts. The rest is endless agony. It is a good idea to consider visiting a psychologist. Apparently because of some pattern in your head they attract this type of men and you can't tear yourself away. Yes, one must follow one's heart, but not put one's brain aside. If something is obviously toxic and not working, break it, no matter how much you love, no matter how much it hurts. The rest is endless agony. It is a good idea to consider visiting a psychologist. Apparently because of some pattern in your head they attract this type of men and you can't tear yourself away. Yes, one must follow one's heart, but not leave one's brain aside. If something is obviously toxic and not working, break it, no matter how much you love, no matter how much it hurts. The rest is endless agony.
I am a man, but in this case I will avoid male solidarity and I will tell you to abandon him in any case. Have a little dignity, don't be humiliated to chase him, and let him walk with various shawls. It will not change, just after such failed connections will come back to you for sure.
Thanks, you are very right. I did not despair. I go out with friends and have fun. I care about him a lot, but I forbade myself to get depressed because of him and it works for now. I had a relationship after this man, but it failed for other reasons. Time will tell what will happen. For now, I try to live happily and have a good attitude towards others.
"I do not know what to do now. He wants me to be a part of his life despite her" - uses you under Article 64, ie, temporarily replacing, as a lifeline for him, so he keeps you in reserve. If you have dignity, do not deal with scum, they remain so for life. Apparently he fucks well, that's why you want him, but the fucking is in time, then comes the disappointment.
Hello. I want to tell you that to fall in love, to love someone is to take a huge risk, if it turns out to be unshared, it is possible that it will make you sleepy. maybe if I were younger I would have experienced it more easily), besides I am an emotional and sensitive person, but I burdened my life because I decided to take this risk. I know of such women who have experienced some love dramas that do not look good, at the expense of others who do not put it on or have been lucky, nerves and mental anguish result in many health problems, diseases, etc. I cannot blame this man, in the end it is his decision how he will He certainly internally guessed what he would do to me, the fact that he did it tells me that he did not love me,because when you love someone you want to see him happy. I should be glad that he has already done this with another, it was his happiness, but separately it turns out so I was the backup option. I forgave a long time but I can not forgive to myself, how I let it happen to me. They say that these are the lessons of life, but I do not want them because I have not seen from this area anything good and positive for myself, I did not want to choose such a solution. that a person is in love with you you will make a choice that will determine your life but not only because a relationship is created by two, there are always consequences for someone, positive or negative.I have forgiven for a long time but I can't forgive myself, how I let it happen to me. They say that these are the lessons of life, but I don't want them because I haven't seen anything good and positive for myself from this area, no I wanted to choose such a solution. When you see that a person is in love with you, you will make a choice that will determine your life, but not only because a relationship is created by two, there are always consequences for someone, positive or negative.I have forgiven for a long time but I can't forgive myself, how I let it happen to me. They say that these are the lessons of life, but I don't want them because I haven't seen anything good and positive for myself from this area, no I wanted to choose such a solution. When you see that a person is in love with you, you will make a choice that will determine your life, but not only because a relationship is created by two, there are always consequences for someone, positive or negative.there are always consequences for someone, positive or negative.there are always consequences for someone, positive or negative.
I am the author. I am 30 years old. I can not take it anymore. We fought today. Like last time, he threw me out of his life now. I'm very sick. Why people are like that. You give of yourself for them, you help them, you understand them and when you need them you are gone. I will miss him very much, but no one has the right to humiliate me. I apologize for bothering strangers with my problems. I want to be gone.