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Love Or Loneliness !?

By divergent_couple_69 July 18, 2020 4 answers Last updated July 18, 2020

I accidentally found the site and I really hope for advice or opinion! Thanks in advance!

 

Divorced alone since 2002 with a daughter of 13 years. All this time after the divorce, I thought it would be best for her not to have another man at home, and so it was, keeping in touch with a married man. The condition between us was that he did not even think about divorce, I did not want such a thing to happen. My child grew up and I began to feel more and more alone and to think of a person to be with me all the time, even though in the man I am with, I am convinced that he truly loves me, but I know we have no future together and we have to separate, and I know I have to take the step!

 

I met a man, free and without commitments, but almost nothing happened between us. Now I am alone, I am constantly in different sites, I try to talk to more people, to move things around me, but there is no change. I ask myself and this is constantly in my head - how long will I be alone?

 

I don't want anything in this world, except love and understanding, but I don't know how and what to do ???

Answers 4

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naughtysextime answered · July 18, 2020
HELLO! HE WHO HAS NOT FEELED LONELINESS HAS NOT UNDERSTANDED ANYTHING FROM LIFE. I WOULD LIKE TO GIVE YOU SOME ADVICE NOW, Alas ... AND I AM WITH A 9-YEAR-OLD CHILD AND AWFULLY LONELY AND THE FOREIGN MEN ONLY WANT TO HAVE A SINGLE WAY. I RECENTLY FOUND THE MAN OF MY DREAMS ... WE SEE MYSELF OFTEN, IT'S GOOD WHEN WE ARE TOGETHER, WE LOVE EACH OTHER, BUT IN THE EVENING HE GOES HOME WITH HIS WIFE ...... I AM NOT THE ONE WHO CAN GIVE YOU ADVICE, BUT IF IN SOME WAY YOU CAN MAKE YOUR HEART LOVE SUCH AS IN YOUR SITUATION, YOU WILL BE MOST. I ALL THINK I'M NOT SO STRONG. SUCCESS I HOPE YOU WILL FIND LOVE SOON IN THE MOST SUITABLE TRUE MAN FOR YOU
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chanelbaby16 answered · July 18, 2020
Regarding your comment on the topic, can I have a question? Do you feel loved, satisfied and happy to be with a married man? He then goes home, perhaps, to his wife? Apparently this warms you up and that's enough for you .. Think about whether you need only this for the rest of your life. Everyone chooses with whom.
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yuricute answered · July 18, 2020
Hi, I'm not the one who will give you some wise advice to start your life clean, but I could at least express an opinion. I am 24 years old and no doubt you have seen much more than the good and the bad side of life, but I also have something to say. Sure, there are serious men on these dating sites who are there to find something meaningful in their lives in the face of a woman, but believe me, I've talked to and met so many of them (not just my peers, and much older) that I can say that they are not looking for anything more than sex and then practice hurdles. Some of these men are my friends, and I've definitely always been interested to hear their version of things. So I had to give advice .... I don't think you should rape the situation. Yes, you are divorced, alone, with a 13-year-old child, but things get better when they are casual. If you focus all your life force in the search for a life partner, you will not find anyone. Maybe you look at things badly, go out, take a walk, call friends, go somewhere to have fun and I'm sure that somewhere out there in the flow of people and in the fast-paced world, you'll find a gentleman with a capital "G" . Because when you turn your back on everything for just one purpose - you are more likely to miss the right result. I hope you don't find my opinion on the matter too presumptuous, but in the end you live your life and you will decide whether to give any meaning to my words here, if not, just ignore them. I wish you success in love and life. :)
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fetishslaveslut answered · July 18, 2020
I want to support number 2 ... well done ... she is absolutely right, today to meet a real man is ... a miracle.
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