hello people .... i have the following problem: a few weeks ago i met some very cool people, we went out a few times and everything was great. With one of the boys, I'll call him boy X, we liked each other and went out a few times just the two of us, but after a while he pulled away. Soon after, one of his friends started writing to me and sharing personal things with me. Send me a picture of a chat with an "X" that says I'm a decent girl but it won't work out between us. A few minutes after this message I received a snap from "X" in which it was written that a good friend of his falls for a girl he has sympathy for and feelings begin to appear ... There is no doubt that this is not just a coincidence .. I do not know what to I do .. Both boys are very decent and I don't want anyone to be hurt in the end. Give me advice .. Girl at 15
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I hate love triangles for just that. In the end, someone always feels fucked up and others think they are guilty. Some questions, quarrels and unnecessary dramas begin. Behave normally, live your life and go with the flow. Time will show you who has what feelings for you and what you should do. For now, try to be more distant from the circus. It will take a week or two for one of you if nothing happens.
'A few minutes after that message I received a snap from' X 'which said that a good friend of his fell in love with a girl he sympathizes with and feelings start to appear' You can just ask "X" in plain text if this is about you (possibly with ";)", to be more funny ...). Because there is a good chance that the girl is not you, but someone else who discussed in the same conversation OR (more likely) someone else who discussed with ANOTHER friend ("X" has more than one friend I guess: D). If this is the last option, there is no triangle at all - the friend of "X" falls for you, the photo is his way to show you that you are wasting your time with "X", because with "X" nothing will come out. that if "X" admits that he has sympathy for someone ... and it's not you ... so he almost tells you that it won't work out between you ... in other words, his "friend zone" ... If your "X" friend is nice to you, go with him. Apparently the "X" will not be hurt by this.
Step back. They will remain friends, and you will be labeled Easy. First, don't you think that they can both play a game to see what their goods are? Which friend will send chats to his friend?
Qui triangles are chasing you, they just want to have you both at the same time and now they are trying to settle things, they are preparing.
The teenage years are crazy