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Love. When The Feelings Die Down And The Habit Comes

By r_e_l_a_x October 06, 2020 5 answers Last updated October 06, 2020

Hello, let me share my story last night, we talked all night with my boyfriend (about our 2-year relationship) and she told me that lately things have become a habit and she has gradually lost her feelings for me, and in the beginning she was madly in love with me. . Things are definitely reinforced by the fact that she met a boy from work 2 days ago over coffee, and there she felt a new thrill, which is why she wants us to part. We talked all night, I suggested many options to go somewhere, to diversify things, to start again, to look for another kind of solution. And so far I have not doubted for a moment that it could happen, and that my dearest being would be so cold to me. How feelings are lost and I have no answer, how it happens where they go, how they evaporate, and we have so many things in common. However, he did not refuse me to talk at length and extensively on the subject, we never had quarrels or quarrels to remember, everything was perfect, but obviously not for both of us. We have traveled to many places together in Bulgaria and we felt happy even at sea last month and last year 2 times. And suddenly now I am left, the slap that took me just made my life collapse and now I do not know where to go. But that's the way it is in love, and it's not just there that you can never be 100% sure of anything. And yet it is supreme to love and be loved! I have never felt so weak, helpless and hurt, last time it cost me almost a year to forget my previous girlfriend. Apparently it will be more now, because it is certainly very difficult for me. everything was perfect, but obviously not for both of us. We have traveled to many places together in Bulgaria and we felt happy even at sea last month and last year 2 times. And suddenly now I am left, the slap that took me just made my life collapse and now I do not know where to go. But that's the way it is in love, and it's not just there that you can never be 100% sure of anything. And yet it is supreme to love and be loved! I have never felt so weak, helpless and hurt, last time it cost me almost a year to forget my previous girlfriend. Apparently it will be more now, because it is certainly very difficult for me. everything was perfect, but obviously not for both of us. We have traveled to many places together in Bulgaria and we felt happy even at sea last month and last year 2 times. And suddenly now I am left, the slap that took me just made my life collapse and now I do not know where to go. But that's the way it is in love, and it's not just there that you can never be 100% sure of anything. And yet it is supreme to love and be loved! I have never felt so weak, helpless and hurt, last time it cost me almost a year to forget my previous girlfriend. Apparently it will be more now, because it is certainly very difficult for me. the slap that took me away just made my life fall apart and now I don't know where to go. But that's the way it is in love, and it's not just there that you can never be 100% sure of anything. And yet it is supreme to love and be loved! I have never felt so weak, helpless and hurt, last time it cost me almost a year to forget my previous girlfriend. Apparently it will be more now, because it is certainly very difficult for me. the slap that took me away just made my life fall apart and now I don't know where to go. But that's the way it is in love, and it's not just there that you can never be 100% sure of anything. And yet it is supreme to love and be loved! I have never felt so weak, helpless and hurt, last time it cost me almost a year to forget my previous girlfriend. Apparently it will be more now, because it is certainly very difficult for me.

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assassinscreed_us answered · October 06, 2020

   He's writing to a girl who had the same thing happen to him last summer. But I was the one who left my boyfriend ... I was supposedly in love with a colleague from work, I had a friend of 2 years like you, but I dumped him because of a man I didn't even know. Anyway, at one point I was disappointed in this man, but I didn't want to go back to my ex because I thought it was all over. But instead of telling me to fuck me and keep living my life, he didn't stop fighting for me, even when I was with my colleague. Now we are together again and everything is wonderful, so my advice is if you really love her do not give up on her, and if she has really sincere feelings for you sooner or later she will realize that you are the person for her, if not then it should have happened. I wish you success!!!

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_kitty_kittyxx answered · October 06, 2020

   Love ends when you stop thinking of your girlfriend as unique. When you stop making those small but significant gestures, like at the beginning of your relationship, to win it. When compromises can no longer be made and the relationship itself does not develop. Then love becomes a habit. I'm sorry you broke up with your girlfriend, maybe now you'll meet someone better. Success.

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venusmagic answered · October 06, 2020

   Hello! The same thing happened to me and we broke up about 2 weeks ago. The same reason and the same things - again after a two-year relationship. She was no longer in love with me to see you, but only there. I told her that I didn't like that option and that's it. It hurts like hell because I love her madly, I wonder why, but it's true. The solution? There is no such thing, and even if you engage in other relationships, it will not pass quickly. Yes, time heals, but still time is different.

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ParamourLisa answered · October 06, 2020

   Here is proof that love lasts about 2-3 years, so consume it fully!

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katyperry4u answered · October 06, 2020

   Hello. I just want to tell you that beauty does not happen by force. You can't make someone love you if they want to and if they don't have a thrill. Let her go - she's obviously not yours, everyone has a choice after all, and she's obviously already done. Let her go - to find out if she really wants to do something different with her life. So, if she comes back one day, you'll know she's forever. Everyone has the right to choose, and you can't stop someone from leaving. I know it's really hard, the same thing happened to me. However, I did not want to fight, because I know that if we are really destined to spend our lives together, there is no way this will not happen. Patience is required. Lots of patience even. Sometimes separation has a positive effect on people, I would even say it is necessary to really understand if there are feelings and how big they are. Dova is proof of both sides. Wait and you will find out if it is really worth being with this person or it is better to move on, because somewhere there is a person who is destined to be for you and SUCCESS is waiting for you!