I have been in a relationship for 8 months. We love each other very much and we have had good and good memories. At the beginning he was more gentle, but after we decided to get married and our families met, he started to be very jealous of me, to get involved in everything. At the very least, nothing does anything. I am constantly stressed, waiting for him to leave me. But I know something I can't do without him. We have tried to end this relationship several times, but we cannot. Because I know he loves me very much. I don't know how I will cope, I no longer have the strength. He is terribly jealous. He blames me for things I didn't do, thinking I could have done them. Love it. Help me!
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Hello dear. Jealousy is a terrible disease - deadly to love .... As far as I understand this jealousy is not caused by love, but by a sense of ownership. Whatever it costs you, make him realize that he will lose you if he continues like this. Do not be silent and resign yourself for fear that you will lose your love, because it will go away anyway if he does not realize. To love does not mean to restrict the freedom of the beloved. If he cannot understand it, then he is not able to love as much as you need .... Love is a wonderful feeling, it should not be killed with jealousy. Remember that no matter how much you love - your freedom is more important, it's just that people are arranged that way. If you love each other, you don't need "cells". It is not necessary to "take off", but it is very important to know that you have the freedom to do so. Remember the story "
If he's jealous, he doesn't love you. This will certainly not change, the jealous do not change. Think again if you want to stay with him and endure this.
It was the same with me and my "friend". This is almost 100% like our relationship, with the difference that we both waited too long. We felt the end but did not make any decision. I think it's better to stop with him here. With ice it will be difficult. He dumped me 6 weeks before the wedding, now he is not asleep - he is similar for the fifth time in a row and for the last time (twice this year). And what am I doing - I'm writing you these words and 10 cm away from me hangs a white dress. I even keep the wedding invitations. It took me 3 months to forget it, it is very difficult but you will overcome it. From the abandoned bride, remember that "Time heals."
4. HELLO! I THINK YOU HAVE TO TAKE OUT AND LEAVE HIM A LITTLE ALONE WITHOUT THREATENING THAT YOU WILL LEAVE HIM AND DON'T SEE ANYONE ELSE DURING THIS TIME. HE HAS TO UNDERSTAND HIS MISTAKE AND SEE WHAT HE HAS LOST. THEN HE WILL SURELY ASK YOU TO RETURN TO HIM AND EVERYTHING WILL BE OK, AT LEAST I THINK. GOOD LUCK!!!
And I think, forget the quarrels for a moment, if you do something super romantic for him (and not just once) and show him that he is the only one! I'm jealous too, but something nice comforts me!
Hello, this person will be jealous of you for the rest of his life, run away until you have a child, because then it becomes very complicated and you will regret that you did not leave him when you could. Not worth it.