Hello, I want to share and also warn about women at work! The story unfolds in my current job. When I did, everything was fine, but what happened. I have two colleagues who are my leaders. I have never tried or had dumps in previous works. One day I had a few beers and decided to try flirting with one of them. I would never do it sober, but in this state I gained courage and took action. I knew nothing would happen, but we talked and I told her I liked her and things like that. He refused, as I expected, and that was it. I had the impression that he was the right person, but what turned out. In the days that followed, she had apparently told all her colleagues in detail about my experience. I've heard jokes like - where you work, you don't get that job. I forgot to say - she is married and middle-aged. The interesting thing in this case is that through me he made a very honest and respectable. She turned out to be a slut and an intriguer. She slept with 3 or 4 colleagues from the company. This is very clear, but not commented at all. Last sleeps with a boss who is the right hand of the big owner. Now, she almost made me a maniac and harass her, and that's not the case. Be very careful! Just looks and others, and they can slander you. Isn't it hypocritical, mean and nasty! Please comment on what to do and your opinion! Thanks in advance! Be very careful! Just looks and others, and they can slander you. Isn't it hypocritical, mean and nasty! Please comment on what to do and your opinion! Thanks in advance! Be very careful! Just looks and others, and they can slander you. Isn't it hypocritical, mean and nasty! Please comment on what to do and your opinion! Thanks in advance!
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Now, however, the whole whiner on the site will accuse you of being guilty and why you did such bad things auuuuuuuuuuuuu, you filthy bastard ... Brother, you tried to make her succeed, you failed, all this ... a big leek. Don't care what the moral jokers on this site tell you. Your colleague is a lowly auruk <- if true, what you say about her. And unfortunately, obviously if you write here you are a decent person and you just wanted to be intimate (which is not bad), but now, because you are a decent and cool person, your colleague in question will try to make you useless just to be clear the overall and the image among colleagues.
You stand and wait to be fired :)
But what do you care? Have you committed a crime? And what not to take out at work, see that the boss sleeps with the whole chicken coop full of committed women.
I wonder how men cling to the most shiny tight babes at work, then sleep with the boss. This has been happening for 100 years and is a classic in the genre. Why didn't you choose the modest one, with the glasses. Believe me, it will only be yours and there will be no headaches and intrigues.
Don't talk to her.
You described it very well and you seem to have given the answer yourself.
Look now - it can be anything, but you are responsible only for yourself and if you want not to fall into such situations in the future, you already know what NOT to do. I hope you learned your lesson. And now it remains to learn another lesson - other people's transgressions (in this case those of the lady) do not justify YOUR actions. Others do what they know, but you are responsible for yourself and your own actions. F - 30 years
It is normal to tell. Almost anyone would do it. Unless he feels close to you in some way and doesn't want you to feel humiliated afterwards. You pretend to be crazy - say "are you normal, if I was sober, I would never talk nonsense to her ... Actually, she's not my type at all"!
I have had a problem with approximately middle-aged women in 2 jobs! It seems that few men did not have, just rude behavior, not related to sexual innuendo, just like that, especially if they see someone under 30 and they are 15 or so and absolutely rude and arrogant behavior. Often women are even more settled than men at work and in general my opinion is that young women (and men) have a much better character and straightforward than 40-year-old flag bearers! One literally behaved like an owner from the owner (was she his cousin, I still wonder)
To me, you're both a jerk. She sleeps with the boss, you wanted to sleep with her ... weird at all. One wonders, from so many dumps, if you have time to work. So there is nothing to whine about, as the real difference between you and her is that she refused you and you stayed dry. But if she had agreed, you would have been exactly the same. So I don't understand how you can consider yourself a victim in this case when you really wanted to do the same thing she does to the boss. Well, you better find a new job and another smart one. As banal as it is, "where you get your bread, you don't get that job!" Is pretty wise advice. And you can see why. Even if she had curled up, gossip and intrigue would have started in your address, so that's it. You wouldn't be happy again. And it's even worse if things get worse and then get worse at some point, It is very difficult to work with an ex-lover and pretend that you are just colleagues and there has never been anything. It is not by chance that there is something called personal life and something called professional life, and it is not good at all to mix the two, because sooner or later gossip, tossing and turning, and finally you can get out of work.