Hello! I am an 18 year old boy and this year I am 12th grade. Since the ball is coming in a few months, I decided to invite a girl. We haven't talked much with her. Because I fell in love with her and you wait all summer to invite her and I made a surprise. While she was out of her classroom because she was in the next class, I put a rose with candy and a card in my bag that said, "Do you want to be my prom lady?" Of course I wrote who it was from. I waited all day for an answer from her. I was so happy because I had never had a boyfriend and I was glad that I took the first step, which was to overcome my fear of inviting her. The next day, before the first class, I was with my friends in her class. When I left the room, she stopped me and said she wanted to tell me her answer. Of course she tried not to hurt me and said she had a gentleman. I listened to her, smiled and said that there was no problem and that everything was fine. Yes but no. I was sad all day. I tried to pretend that everything was really fine. I had talked to my classmates for advice on what to do and they all told me not to hurry, but I was very impatient. After he cut me off, they still had a chance to get something between us or it was simply impossible. Even though she cut me off, I can't stop thinking about her. Please give me some advice. Thanks for your attention! Even though she cut me off, I can't stop thinking about her. Please give me some advice. Thanks for your attention! Even though she cut me off, I can't stop thinking about her. Please give me some advice. Thanks for your attention!
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Well, how can I tell you ... sometimes a dump lasts for YEARS, the two can go through several relationships until they finally get together, and you want something like that to be sucked for a day, even for a few hours? How do you imagine this job - you click your fingers and already "have a boyfriend"? !! I have no doubt that this is so, because your writing is full of clichés: "I took the first step", "I overcame my fear of inviting her", "she tried not to hurt me" - these are all clichés that you heard / read somewhere (maybe on this site as well), but it is obvious that you have no idea what it is really about ... So if you ask me - at the moment GIVE UP, but completely. He makes no more hints or words ... because stubbornness repulses and even frightens, disgusts. You can possibly act only after a few months, but for the prom directly forget it! "Crazy in love" was ... No matter how much you think you are in love, in 2-3 years you will forget her, even if you see her every day. If you don't see it at all - and even faster.
You can then study in different cities or countries. And with the fact that you want her for the prom, she may not have thought at all that you want her to be your boyfriend. And her boyfriend may be her boyfriend. I don't think whatever she does this year, she won't want you. So this year watch your studies and graduation, leave her.
It is good that you are good, you have a heart and you can love. Don't listen to number 1. Feelings like love are unknown to him. In my opinion, there are two options: 1. She already has a boyfriend, but that does not mean that she is her boyfriend. Maybe she was just afraid of not being alone at the ball and invited an acquaintance. 2. Maybe she just doesn't like you and lied to you that she already has a boyfriend to get out of the situation. Whatever it is, you can't understand, at least for now. Treat her naturally, as if you didn't invite her. Be kind when she is around you, and if she has sympathy, she will show it to you. Success! F, 22