Hello, gentlemen ... and curious ladies! I am interested in your opinion on the following issue. What would you think of a young girl, good-looking, tastefully dressed, smelling of good perfume, well-groomed, moving in intellectual circles (university), but always alone? Never in company and not talking to anyone. Would you talk to the lady if you liked her, or would you find her too powdery and conceited? Do you avoid such women, if so, why? The same girl, 23
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With this description, I will think she is free and if I like her, I will try to talk to her. If I like her intellect, it will be a pleasure to develop communication.
Men in general rarely talk to women out of nowhere, as it takes a lot of courage. I've done it, but I've tried to get one of my friends, and they still don't want to. It should be borne in mind that the chance of a man talking to you in this way is extremely small, but there are still ways to increase this chance. If you are in a large group of people, 3 in this case is also a lot, or you are with a boy who is just your friend, your chances are greatly reduced. It's hard enough to talk to a girl, let alone a whole group. In general, if your goal is to be talked about, think about how to be more accessible.
intellectual circles - university ... This can only pass for a person who has not been to university ... Otherwise, in principle, women are much more social animals than men, and depend a lot on the environment to form an opinion about themselves and the rest. I had one such acquaintance, stranger than the others at the university ... it turned out that she had a friend and another environment. So that's what I'd think ... He's just not looking for anything in the middle of the university. I don't believe that a woman can really be an outsider, like in the sense of a man, for example, and I doubt that you are interested in the opinion of such men, but rather in the "popular". In my opinion, a very social man would be embarrassed to "kill" an outsider, because it damages his prestige in the group. It's just that the "cool" are looking for the "cool" and part of the image is the company you move with. And outsiders don't care, but nobody cares about them.
I would talk to her, but somehow I have strong doubts about how long the conversation will last. Even the little written shows overpopulation and conceit.
No. I personally would not think anything. I would think it was different (from her hypocrisy, the "herd") if I talked to her, but if it's convenient. I respect people who have run away from the "herd" who manage on their own. Remember that if a "man" who thinks you're STRANGE ever shows up, get rid of him right away. You don't need stopped-thinking people. Look for people who think like you or over you.
Who told you that others see you the way you are described?