My husband and I have been together for almost 7 years. 2 hours while we were boyfriends and 2 years. from our family life everything was ok. He started working for a company as a manager and a few months later he was appointed secretary. Since then, my life has become hell. every night he started to be late at first for 30-40 minutes and then for hours. Family life was getting boring. He came home angry, didn't have dinner, didn't even want to talk to me. One night my girlfriend and I went out to a restaurant and we went to our childhood favorite, where I saw him and his mistress hugging and kissing. He didn't say a word when he saw me and she said I wasn't his wife and he said he wasn't married. We are now in the process of divorce
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A piece of advice from a woman who has been lied to in a similar way. Gather your strength, I understand that you have already taken the first step and kick it out of your life. Do you have children? If it gets more complicated. But don't take it home again. Kick him. I know it's a hell of a lot, one that it hurts you to lie, another that women in such a situation feel some kind of unjustified shame from relatives and friends, that they failed in their marriage, that maybe something was not enough to keep the man to himself. This is not so. I'm sure of that. There are just men who do not feel like leaving their wives, because it is very convenient for someone to look after them and serve them, while at the same time the good moments, restaurants, trips are for the bitches around. Gather strength and divorce. Don't be lenient if he wants to come back to you. From experience I tell you that such a person does not change. Sooner or later it continues. Good luck!!!
I had a similar marriage. But I found the strength and left him. Because he never told me to leave. But with my behavior he showed that I was superfluous. Which was much more offensive to me. We broke up. I raised our child on my own, which he hardly cares about. It is good that his parents are paying child support. The bad thing is that I have a strong distrust of people and for 14 years now I have not allowed anyone near me because I am afraid that it could be worse. But I'm not sorry I left him. I advise you to do the same, it is less offensive!
Do not forgive this neglect, because it will happen again.
But if he doesn't want an open conversation, keep his dignity.