I'm a man of about 30 and I'm 100% straight, but too many people decide otherwise. By no means do I look gay, nor my physique, nor my behavior, my voice, my style, anything! However, I always get pedals and many people around me have realized that they think I'm gay. I have always ignored such things and thought that the problem was in other people. This summer, however, a girl came to work as the client I liked. We talked, then we went out and she acted like she liked me, but when I tried to kiss her one night she pushed me away and later told me that she thought I was gay almost until the last moment and I look like in an unharvested vineyard and I don't know how to I react. Then I thought that there must be some problem with me, but as I said in my appearance and behavior, there is nothing gay. A colleague once asked me directly, “You are beautiful, you are not shy, why don't you have a girlfriend, not to be gay ”? I don't play leagues in each and it has happened to me several times not to respond to a girl's hints but the reason was purely and simply that I don't like it and this is completely normal and it is ridiculous for someone to decide such a thing.
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Someone announced something to someone else and that's where it started
I have a friend who will also be 30 soon and has the same problem. (It would be a great coincidence that you are my friend.) For several years I was convinced that he was gay, until he said that he liked girls and was looking for a wife. He is a bit extravagant in his clothes, his voice and gestures are slightly gay, in my opinion, and other people who know him. However, he himself does not seem to suspect that he looks like that from the side and likes women. Unfortunately, with the women he tried to take down, he kept hitting a rock, and I understand why. He's great as a friend, but I couldn't take him as a man. I think there are some people who are in this situation. Are you sure you can tell for sure that there is nothing gay about you? Ask a trusted friend to tell you the truth. You may not like it, but it is preferable to the unknown.
You better ask the people around you. Someone will always be able to answer why you look gay, how people decide it for you. It may be something in your manners, maybe your style of dress, maybe someone has rumored or others are drawing quick conclusions because you are not talking about previous relationships and women. The latter, by the way, is very likely. I remember a few people who were "victims" of such a quick classification. Somehow, you haven't seen him with a woman, he hasn't talked about women - he must be gay.
Well, it has happened to me and the reasons are similar to yours - they tell me that I was nice and I do not pay attention to them when they turn to me. It happened that girls showed me that they liked me. and I don't do anything because I don't like them.
In the past, women liked boys with gay hairstyles, clothes and manners and fucked them. I'm referring to 2007-2010, I had friends who were doing hellishly weird hairstyles with britons with some shorts wearing some things, like kyuchekinis dancing at the discos and I tell you, all the girls were theirs! Now, however, many gays, real gays, are starting to look more and more like men, to have quite a masculine look, beard, vision, train and so on, and it is already hellishly difficult to distinguish a gay from normal boys. There are always and will be boys with a gentler appearance and a rougher one. And I thought that they would like me too, if I was more gentle, as my friends were and I looked, I dressed like that and did such hairstyles, but alas, they didn't like me! Now I have a beard, tattoos, a more masculine look and I see that they like me a thousand times more than before