Hello, I want to tell you my story. Let it be a lesson for young people, not that I'm old, I'm 29 years old, but for teenagers at 17, 18 years old. I do and take that I got married at 17 and a half. And for a friend of mine who claimed to love me, and I had no feelings for him. He was just a friend to me. But I was deluding myself into thinking that he loved me and that everything would be fine. So I lived for 6 years without a purpose in life, without love, without anything to make me happy. Finally, I met him. He is my great love. I was still married to the other. We started dating secretly. He was the man who opened my eyes to the world, made me feel happy to live, and to have met him at all. Our love was very stormy, very searing, and love at first sight. He is three years younger, but that doesn't matter. My husband understood and I had to choose the right solution. Whether to be with the person I love or to live in old age without love. I chose the first, although it was very difficult, I felt guilty that I had to leave it. But I'm not sorry, I'm very happy now, we've been living together for two years and everything is ok.
We make plans for a baby. I want to tell young people and everyone in general that love is the holiest feeling in life and we should not deny it, no matter what it costs us. I was married for 6 years, because of my people and parents, so as not to embarrass them. Now I am not interested in human opinion at all. The important thing is to be happy and to love each other. So dear people do not marry without love! This is what I want to share,
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Hi, I would like to share that I got married too early and I am very sorry about that. However, I have a child and because of him I live with my husband, whom I do not love. My life is not easy at all, but I am patient and I do not know how long it will be like that. I'm so glad you're happy because I'm not. If you want to read the story "where to go" on this site, this is my confession.
And have you thought about how he feels at the moment, just don't say that you don't care, if so you are a whore and you will never change!
HELLO, I CAN TELL YOU THAT I FULLY SUPPORT YOU! I ALSO LIVE WITH MY HUSBAND, WHOM I DON'T LOVE, WHICH IS AWFUL! BUT BECAUSE OF THE CHILD I SUFFER! I HOPE I HAVE YOUR LUCK ONCE AND I WISH YOU A LOT OF HAPPINESS!
Thanks for the support. I know there are many people like me, whether men or women, so I decided to share. I was lucky I couldn't get pregnant from him and we didn't have children. Otherwise, maybe to this day I would be with him because of the child. That's why I wrote as a lesson for young people, I hope they read here too, not to hurry to get married at 18, to wait to meet the man and then do it. And at 2 I want to say that my husband was not a flower to smell. I did not go into details about him. It's the kind of men who push every woman in front of my eyes like it's normal. But his parachute does not open and to this day he is alone without a girlfriend, for this very reason. He's 36. Does that tell you anything? I dare say honestly and responsibly that I'm not a whore, and I've never been, that's how things turned out. And he deserved it.
I admire your courage, well done. And I have been living with my husband without love for 17 years. I loved him very much in the beginning, I gave everything for him, but he never appreciated him and I was always indebted to him, I was always guilty before him and I had to apologize for my every action. So the years passed, the children grew up and I ignored the fact that I was neglected, humiliated and insulted, I thought that this is love, that this is how everyone lives. Until I met him. He turned my life upside down, made me feel the most loved, respected and beautiful woman in the world. We have been in a relationship for 4 years now and I am very happy when he is with me. After each of our meetings I feel charged with positive energy, filled with love for the world, I feel understood and supported. We just can't do without each other. We hear each other every hour and write messages to each other all the time, when one has to be away from the city for a few hours and the other feels very unhappy and lonely, then the phones overheat. We just have to have a constant connection with each other, otherwise one of us feels inferior. This is when you find your other half then you are finished, then you are whole. Now I want to leave my husband and live together, he has provided everything for the case, left his wife to give me a home for me and my children, but I do not I am gaining courage to leave my husband. I think about the children, the people, the friends, the relatives who will reproach me, and only I know how I feel with him at home and what psychological harassment I endure during these years.