Something happened to me that I had never experienced before and did not think would happen to me. I fell in love with a man I had never seen face to face, everything was going well, I liked the way we talked and heard each other, but suddenly everything changed. As far as I understand, his ex-girlfriend seems to want him back, and I really care about him again and we would see each other soon. I want advice on whether to fight for it or swallow everything I feel and leave things like that. Separately, he somehow became alienated and is no longer the same. I just want to see if your decision and answers match what I think. Thanks in advance!
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The same thing happened to me ... it's better not to deal with it if that's the case.
It's best to see him, so you won't blame yourself all your life for not doing it and that's how you'll find out if he's really attracted to you live !!! :))) Good luck!
Leave it! Even more so when his feelings change ... it just doesn't make sense.
Hello. I had a similar relationship with a man about 2 years ago. He lived in America. We fell in love without seeing each other, but after about 2 months of explanations by email and phone and about 10 text messages a day, about 2-3 weeks before he returned to BG to see me, he changed. As far as he had told me, he had a girlfriend, but a month before we met, he broke up with her, and a year before he hadn't seen her because she had returned here. Otherwise, it was explained to me, he was in love, 2 hours of phone calls, dozens of text messages ... So I set the line that it was not true, I heard wedding bells. About a week before he came here for the holidays, he stopped calling me, I went crazy, I wondered what was going on. A few days after my arrival he called me and we saw each other. It was awful. He was such a cold and estranged man ... I couldn't believe it was the man, who explained to me for days and hours on the phone. The next day I called to see him, but he wouldn't pick me up. Then he got up and behaved badly, said he couldn't get out and I'll see you the next day. The next day, however, I cut it off and that was the end of it. I soon found out that he was married and had a child. I assume that he returned to his ex and that before returning to BG he renewed his relationship with her, but he did not tell me. I don't even care what happens to him. I hope I was useful to you with my story. Don't worry, I forgot it for a week. When there is no physical contact it is easier. I wish you all right. The next day, however, I cut it off and that was the end of it. I soon found out that he was married and had a child. I assume that he returned to his ex and that before returning to BG he renewed his relationship with her, but he did not tell me. I don't even care what happens to him. I hope I was useful to you with my story. Don't worry, I forgot it for a week. When there is no physical contact it is easier. I wish you all right. The next day, however, I cut it off and that was the end of it. I soon found out that he was married and had a child. I assume that he returned to his ex and that before returning to BG he renewed his relationship with her, but he did not tell me. I don't even care what happens to him. I hope I was useful to you with my story. Don't worry, I forgot it for a week. When there is no physical contact it is easier. I wish you all right.
Naturally, the connection with live contact has more chances. I suppose this is the reason to return to the old relationship. You don't lose anything if you meet and an unobtrusive attitude will only help you find your way.
I hope I'm not a bad prophet, but it seems to me that such a relationship has no future. If you meet live, you are more likely to be disappointed in each other and you will probably not continue dating. Virtually a relationship can be anything, but many details come to light that one cannot easily remove. In spite of everything, I wish you success.