Hello :) I am a 16 year old boy and I have never had a girlfriend. I didn't like girls, no girl showed interest in me. I don't want advice like: "get more open"; "to go out" ; "to communicate with people" and so on. (because I have real friends, but I have never had a girlfriend, I will hardly have one in the near future.) Let me tell you about myself - medium height, thin, with long hair to the shoulders (I suffer a lot of disabilities from many people for that, but ... I don't care what they think, I like it a lot), I'm excellent, with not a great sense of humor. I am not an athlete and now I do not do sports (I used to dance, but due to health problems I gave up.) I have been studying Russian for 2 years, I will start going to computer science classes with friends soon. I don't like parties at all, I don't like to drink (I haven't gotten drunk so far, I just don't like the taste of alcohol, a lot), I listen to different music - from Celtic, instrumental ... to metal. I hate chalga and Serbian! This is me. I'm not the typical boy, because most people do other things than me. I'm happy with the current situation, and very much, but sometimes I feel lonely (on the part of friends, everything is very well, I'm talking about someone to hug, to share with, to go out just the two of us, to watch a movie together, to kiss ...) I do not find such a person. * _ * I will hardly find it soon, because the truth is that I haven't liked a girl for about a year or so (I'm not gay, just nobody catches my eye). In general, the girls around me are the same (not like the same people, but the same characters - arrogant, open ...) I would like to find someone nice, beautiful, funny, who is himself and speaks normally, without offending (jokingly nicknamed) the person next to him (not that it is offensive, we joke like that with friends), but to joke with me in other ways;), polite , cultural, which not only excites my body, but also excites my mind. I know I'm picky and I know the saying - "who chooses - masturbates", but I'd rather find such a person than to act wrong (I'm young and I can try, but yes, I'm stubborn: P and no: D). I have no experience in relationships, I have never had one, I have never kissed anyone. I would like to ask what type of boys / girls do you like, and what would you like the boy / girl to do for you and with you, what do you get from such a relationship with someone, and is it worth the effort to be with the person you are with? you like or is everything just unnecessary? (In principle, I can answer some of the questions myself, but only to some extent) :)
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I don't find it obligatory to have a girlfriend at 16. Nor does it mean that you won't have one in the future. I don't know where this nonsense got into your head. At this age, there are usually a few boys and girls who are more liked. , walking, open, etc. Gradually everything falls into place. The only advice I can give you is to be yourself, but not to be from mixed companies and from common entertainment. That is, be more active. Also, if you like one, try to make friends with her - conversations, an invitation to the cinema, etc. and it will be understood whether you have intrigued her. Good luck! Life is in front of you!
I can say that I am a very courted girl. I have never lacked male attention. I'm arrogant and open, but also, like you, I don't go to parties, I don't drink alcohol, I don't listen to chalga and Serbian, I think they totally simplify and brainwash them. No matter how many admirers there are around me, I am looking for a man: kind, but at the same time masculine, not under a slipper, to offer to take me to the theater, to the opera, for a walk, for a hike in the mountains, not for a chalgoteka. I choose - I masturbate, it's true, but I prefer to masturbate, before some peasant gets drunk and throws napkins on my head. Maybe, to be honest, just because I'm different I'm interesting to a lot of men and they want me for a lot more than one night. Not that I'm not beautiful (as you can see, I'm not modest), but to keep a man, you have to have a mind in your head. So it is with me. In order for me to be interested, a man must be DIFFERENT, just like you, not another complex son of an uncle's coin, who thinks that God has grabbed the raincoat and breaks the stands and is trying to impress me by paying my bill in a mess. establishment. Be what you are, the result will surprise you! This way you will find the most suitable one!
You seem quite pretentious to me, at the same time, you list some interests, but not qualities. You always expect that a girl has to fall from somewhere to cover your claims, and nothing is expected of you except to be there. You judge others from the other side without trying to get to know them and see their true nature. You are young now and you have time to find a serious relationship, but not to miss an experience that will be invaluable for you to make things happen one day.
I was going to tell you you were great until I read * metal *. It is written with Ъ - metal. Make a difference!
People post topics for two reasons: for advice or to answer a specific question. I'll start with the advice. Author, you are young, your whole life is in front of you, and behind every turn there is a strange bird that does not fit into the 21st century. You weren't lucky enough to find a good girl, or you didn't notice it was right behind you. As a matter of fact, most people say they want someone different, but they keep looking at the same people. No way. Pay attention to those you seem to have never noticed in the hallway, give them a chance and you will see that they are not what they looked like from the side. Now for your questions. , and is it worth your effort to be with the person you like / love, or is everything just unnecessary? I like normal guys. Decent. Who do not worry about themselves and do so, which they like openly. The person next to me must be with me first of all, to know that I have a shoulder to lean on, I don't need a hand to hold me all the way, but someone who lets me fall alone and then helps me. to become. My friend has some trouble letting me beat my head against the wall, he's angry, but no matter how angry he is with me, he doesn't let me. From this connection I receive a number of lessons every day. I learned patience, understanding ... how to argue with a wooden philosopher and how not to be like that myself. I learned what it's like to be with someone in every sense of the word. The efforts I make are worthwhile, not because everything is successful and with every compromise I solve a global problem, but because the one against me also makes an effort. In my opinion, this is how the meaning of compromises is measured - if you make them yourself, it's not worth it, if it's mutual, even if the scandals continue, it's worth it. Not that our relationship is special, different and we walk in pink clouds, between the rainbows, but we feel good. We fight while lying in our arms. We don't talk, but we defend each other and stay together, even though we are angry. When love is real, you see the meaning of all nonsense and you don't care at all that there are some problems. Don't aim at the girl of your dreams, my friend is not what I imagined the ideal boy to be, but we feel good together and I find it meaningful to stay together every day. This is not a little. When love is real, you see the meaning of all nonsense and you don't care at all that there are some problems. Don't aim at the girl of your dreams, my friend is not what I imagined the ideal boy to be, but we feel good together and I find it meaningful to stay together every day. This is not a little. When love is real, you see the meaning of all nonsense and you don't care at all that there are some problems. Don't aim at the girl of your dreams, my friend is not what I imagined the perfect boy to be, but we feel good together and I find it meaningful to stay together every day. This is not a little.