Meeting Women

   I like active men. I have received invitations and messages from unknown men on Facebook, I have not accepted them, regardless of whether they were beautiful or not. I do not reply to messages either. New acquaintances most often in the work environment. It happens to me that strangers talk to me, I didn't pay attention to them. It depends on the situation. It happened to me to sit most calmly, there were a lot of people around me, a nice man passed by, he was looking at me quite intently. Five minutes later I turned around and saw someone walking towards me. It never occurred to me that he would come to me. He greeted me, I explained to him that I understood the language, but it was harder for me to speak, only then did I greet him. And he sat down next to me without asking, which was not pleasant for me, but our conversation started and I didn't mind afterwards. It turned out to be the same one staring at me. A man we went to school with, we didn't even greet each other, we didn't talk to each other, we weren't in the same company, he followed me on instagram, I also liked a photo, a few months later he wrote to me on Facebook to wish me a happy Easter. I answered simply. And it's weird to me. I have lived in two European countries and in one I am impressed that men are not very active, they expect women to be more active in May. In the other, men are more active, which I like more. I would not communicate with everyone, live or on Facebook, of course, I have to like it, I prefer live contact. expect women to be more active in May. In the other, men are more active, which I like more. I would not communicate with everyone, live or on Facebook, of course, I have to like it, I prefer live contact. expect women to be more active in May. In the other, men are more active, which I like more. I would not communicate with everyone, live or on Facebook, of course, I have to like it, I prefer live contact.

   I look at Facebook and the like as a waste of time and it is the last place where I will look for men for anything. Dating and judgment - only live. And with single men, they may be divorced, but without children.

   Some time ago I had Facebook and they wrote me all kinds. In the end, I found that in order to pay attention to someone on Facebook, I had to find him very attractive physically. Because these are a lot of people I don't know at all, I can't be sure what they really are, and if I'm going to waste my time writing to one of them, at least I know I like this paragraph. Call it practicality. But in the end, I deleted my account, leaving a large number of unaccepted friend invitations. Communicating and getting to know each other live is just another matter.

   And here I will not be honest with you brother. In my observations, it is increasingly important for women how you look or how you behave on Facebook. They are increasingly focused on how they look, not how they feel. It is more and more important for them to have likes and to be in a position there. Now someone will join me and say "do you know me" fuck fuck fuck, fuck grumble ... A woman happens to me several times after she sees my face and refuses any communication with me. And before that she was proactive, she spoke to me, she was the leader in communication. Somehow they almost accept it as your business card for your life. According to Facebook, they determine what kind of person you are. Well not all (we say to ourselves in the hope of having different), but many of them. It is very unfortunate. At one of the meetings, even a girl told me, "You're not very active on Facebook."

   "My question to the ladies is, to what extent are you open to this type of dating? "I'm not active on Facebook, so no one writes to me anymore, but it wasn't like that before. They wrote to me, I answer everyone, but of course for a while, firstly, because I can't write to more than one person and secondly, because I can judge whether we are similar after a few sentences, with some we get along with, maybe to come up with something seriously unacceptable after a week of writing, but I quickly understand what kind of person is in front of me. "Does he have to be the super cool dude to accept his online friendship and start a conversation?" No, there may not be a picture, it has happened if he behaves normally, and for a start it's ok, if he starts behaving vulgarly or asking me trivial questions or tests, I write to him - "I was pleased, but I don't want to to communicate more ”and I stop. "Everyone is different, but only live would you be reassured that you like the person against you? ”The so-called "Live" is the only real opportunity to feel the energy of the person, otherwise you feel something in the chat, but they are rather projections, and you will never be sure that the person in the chat is as he is presented as a character. In chat, attachment happens because of the habit of chatting with this person, but not love. "How do you view dating single men in general?" I would only get acquainted with such people, in order to find a partner. I do not deal with busy people (in a relationship or in love with another, recently separated) emotionally, intimately and not at all. but they are rather projections, and you will never be sure that the person in the chat is what he presents himself as a character. In chat, attachment happens because of the habit of chatting with this person, but not love. "How do you view dating single men in general?" I would only get acquainted with such people, in order to find a partner. I do not deal with busy people (in a relationship or in love with another, recently separated) emotionally, intimately and not at all. but they are rather projections, and you will never be sure that the person in the chat is what he presents himself as a character. In chat, attachment happens because of the habit of chatting with this person, but not love. "How do you view dating single men in general?" I would only get acquainted with such people, in order to find a partner. I do not deal with busy people (in a relationship or in love with another, recently separated) emotionally, intimately and not at all.

   From a male point of view, if you are not super attractive, I would bet on real contact, although women are reserved from direct contact, and it is normal, they stop me or tell me the future, give me a cigarette or give me some money. . So I understand them. But you can try both and you lose nothing, the more the more.

   I don't like Facebook and I don't use it. I had an account for a year and various people wrote to me, etc., but I did not respond to anyone seriously. If I was writing to someone about sports and I was not bored, I can never accept a person from the Internet as a possible partner of mine. I met my husband in a busy place with a lot of people and everything was as it should be, not by chatting. I advise you to go outside and take off there.

   I met my husband on a dating site. In FB I would not respond to such letters and I would not write, because I consider it to enter my personal space.

   It is pointless to waste time communicating with women you do not know from common acquaintances or you are not in the same environment, no matter what. They are very timid and insecure and do not feel confident to meet strangers. At the same time, they want the man to be proactive and confident, but they do not take any responsibility. They are just passive, timid and waiting. See what number 1 says. "I've received invitations and messages from strangers on Facebook, I haven't accepted them, whether they were beautiful or not. I don't reply to messages either. New acquaintances are most often in the work environment. strangers talk to me, I didn't pay attention to them. "My experience shows that this is exactly the case. My advice is to be passive, not to take the first step, not to show interest and wait for chance or common acquaintances because any other way will not be accepted by the timid ladies and you will lose your nerve. You don't have to care, don't do anything if fate has decided it will happen, if not - no.

   I'm number 9, number 1, and I'm glad you understand what I'm implying indirectly, but you're trying unreasonably to project it on us women. Taking initiative and taking responsibility are radically different things, one is taken at the beginning of dating and getting to know each other, and the other when you are in a relationship. And yes, you can't ask a woman who is confident and receiving enough attention to pay attention to a passive man. And yes, it's normal to look for an active one who either likes you very much or doesn't have much choice and has to play an active role. And the fact that you didn't qualify somewhere and you were disappointed, it seems to me, easily confuses you in the categorization of "confident" - "insecure" women. How can I look at a man who comes every other day for two months and tells me - me, if you invite me out, I will agree. Sorry but your fear of repulsion and your insecurity are enormous. Therefore, the author, if more active and confident, sends 100 invitations, writes to 100 women or goes to the park and talks to 20 women who have similar interests, such as reading a book or riding a bike, while swallowing his insecurity and fear of rejection, you can find one or two, with which even if things do not develop, you will have a nice afternoon talking to her, drinking coffee, and who knows, a second meeting even. Well, of course, there must be an approach. Not responding to someone on Facebook who is unknown to you does not make you timid and insecure, but selective. You didn't quote me completely, unfortunately, I explained that a stranger happened to talk to me, he sat down next to me in the most impudent way, I didn't like it, but the story started. if he is more active and confident, sends 100 invitations, writes to 100 women or goes to the park and talks to 20 women who have similar interests, such as reading a book or riding a bike, while swallowing his insecurity and fear of rejection, he may to find one or two with whom, even if things do not develop, they will have a nice afternoon talking to her, drinking coffee, and who knows, a second meeting even. Well, of course, there must be an approach. Not responding to someone on Facebook who is unknown to you does not make you timid and insecure, but selective. You didn't quote me completely, unfortunately, I explained that a stranger happened to talk to me, he sat down next to me in the most impudent way, I didn't like it, but the story started. if he is more active and confident, sends 100 invitations, writes to 100 women or goes to the park and talks to 20 women who have similar interests, such as reading a book or riding a bike, while swallowing his insecurity and fear of rejection, he may to find one or two with whom, even if things do not develop, they will have a nice afternoon talking to her, drinking coffee, and who knows, a second meeting even. Well, of course, there must be an approach. Not responding to someone on Facebook who is unknown to you does not make you timid and insecure, but selective. You didn't quote me completely, unfortunately, I explained that a stranger happened to talk to me, he sat down next to me in the most impudent way, I didn't like it, but the story started. for example, they read a book or ride a bike, at the same time swallowing their insecurity and fear of rejection, they may find one or two with which, even if things do not develop, they will have a nice afternoon talking, drinking coffee, and who knows, a second date even. Well, of course, there must be an approach. Not responding to someone on Facebook who is unknown to you does not make you timid and insecure, but selective. You didn't quote me completely, unfortunately, I explained that a stranger happened to talk to me, he sat down next to me in the most impudent way, I didn't like it, but the story started. for example, they read a book or ride a bike, at the same time swallowing their insecurity and fear of rejection, they may find one or two with which, even if things do not develop, they will have a nice afternoon talking, drinking coffee, and who knows, a second date even. Well, of course, there must be an approach. Not responding to someone on Facebook who is unknown to you does not make you timid and insecure, but selective. You didn't quote me completely, unfortunately, I explained that a stranger happened to talk to me, he sat down next to me in the most impudent way, I didn't like it, but the story started. Not responding to someone on Facebook who is unknown to you does not make you timid and insecure, but selective. You didn't quote me completely, unfortunately, I explained that a stranger happened to talk to me, he sat down next to me in the most impudent way, I didn't like it, but the story started. Not responding to someone on Facebook who is unknown to you does not make you timid and insecure, but selective. You didn't quote me completely, unfortunately, I explained that a stranger happened to talk to me, he sat down next to me in the most impudent way, I didn't like it, but the story started.

   There are some countries where it is quite common and possible to meet on the gutter or on Facebook. In Bulgaria, however, it is not taken seriously by a complete stranger to talk to you, it does not matter whether virtually or on the street ... In this line of thought, it is a complete waste of time to try to download women online - everything happens in reality , with common acquaintances or by the will of fate. Women, on the other hand, share on the Internet that they hate lies, like men who are good, independent, hardworking, caring, etc. And in reality they go with tattooed, irresponsible bandits and thugs, from which they suffer fights and insults ...;)

   Author, listen to number 9 and you will be alone. Up to 4, as you are to such women, as I read you ... The older personalities are extremely different from the superficial and undeveloped ones. As much as some people don't like it, it's not Facebook, but they fail on their own. I would say that they will succeed with their peers, but this is not certain either, because such people always want more than their level, and they do not choose each other.

   I use Facebook only for the convenience of my contacts with colleagues and friends. I never accept an invitation from someone I don't know personally. On rare occasions, I look through the list of his friends, and if I find too many matches, I accept because he may be an old acquaintance that I have forgotten. Sometimes I was careless and they managed to get in various aliens, which I immediately blocked. But I'm from the older generation. You do not lift your noses from the phones and at least use them for their intended purpose, but for gossip, nonsense and all sorts of nonsense. Soon children will start doing it by wiping the phone.

   A super cool dude can mean many things, not all related to appearance. I would be open to such dating if the man intrigued me, if he was original and did not use clichés. Most men on dating sites write to you, "Hello, how are you, do you want to meet?" I will never respond to such a message.

   Number 1 is the typical thank you of receiving attention. It seems that she pretends to be heavy and interesting, and when she gets old she will wonder what no one writes to her. Those who do not appreciate the attention they receive are very difficult after that. Appreciate it. Because they will take you such complexes as you and you will wonder where the literate men are.

   Number 15, fortunately, my confidence and self-confidence are not determined by how many men pay attention to me and what their number is. It seems to me that your comment was provoked by the bitterness that remained in you after they did not pay attention to you and you were rejected. I am not the first youth to scare me that I will not receive attention. I'm not afraid. Attention, from someone who is nothing to me does not even tempt me, I do not feed my ego like that. And from what you have written, I come to the conclusion that you are not "readable". I am not with a complex, but with a literate man, and as such he would never allow himself to indirectly / directly try, of course, unsuccessfully, to complex a known / unknown woman only and only to satisfy his missing self-confidence, be it the lowest one.