Hello. I am 23 years old and live in Sofia. Here every day I see in the malls, restaurants, the park, if you will, even on social networks, a wave of women who spend all day in the gym, then in the mall, and get everything ready from rich men. Explain to me, because I am obviously small and I do not understand, I study, work, develop, I want in time when my time for a man comes to be on my feet, and to be an equal partner. I think that's the only way a man can respect a woman. But I am shocked how women, without education, with absolutely no skills, grab someone and he gives them everything on a tray. It seems normal that "she" can't buy a single water from her own income. At the same time, at least they seem to respect and be proud of them .... Please explain to me,
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Everyone will do whatever they want, you look after yourself.
Men do NOT like equal women. (except for mom's sons, maybe, who recognize mom in boyfriend). Men give material security and feel proud of it. This does not mean doing nothing, but the more you surpass your husband, the more likely you are to lose him. The "gold diggers" in question, once they have been in the gym and the gym, look good. And what do you look like? It is a well-known fact that men love with their eyes ...
Well, there are men who live on the backs of their wives. It's also dumb, but it's quite common. It's not about gender, it's about upbringing and character.
These are prostitutes. You don't see them working because their work is in a hotel room with open legs.
Everybody is different. Such women have always been, are and are multiplying. People like you are also hardworking, conscientious and tireless in their pursuit of independence. I myself at your age thought like you. But after 15 years of work and proving, I got tired. I overcame all the problems alone with the horns ahead. I split the bills with the men in half 'don't think of me as a user'. I made expensive gifts to prove myself. And to this day I feel 100 years old. I look like a liver of all the rush, all the years of work and believe me - I'm not proud. So don't be surprised, they are cunning and know how to protect themselves. I know you will attack me, especially the moralists.
In the age of the most rapid human decline and the most monstrous degradation, this is the sad reality. You are right that it is not normal. But you will not be able to change them. I can not either. Only the great power of the fissile atom in a nuclear chain reaction has the power to purify the world ... Once again ... In ancient times this happened several times! Trump will strike Syria with a nuclear weapon and force Russia to respond ... Don't be afraid, very soon all the bakers, including you and me, will disappear, where for our own sins, where for the sins of others. It's sad, but it's true.
beautiful women do not need to work m35
Calm down, and I think like you - we are not for this world: D I think that a woman should have a job, education and not rely on someone's uncle with money (and be with him only because he will please her ) ... who can kick it when he wants that then the darling has to look for a new one, and so on until it becomes an "unfit product" ... supposedly over 35 for example And theirs is not easy, but they don't realize it for the haters either : no, I don't envy and I'm not ugly, I just have self-confidence and ... yes ... I think I'm more than you (whose lives are spent in the mall and cafes, not knowing work and development as a person) Woman around 30, happily married to a normal person with whom we work together for a happy life
Author, I am a man of 35 and I fully share your opinion. Personally, I am not interested in various gold diggers and muffins, to put it mildly. Unfortunately, simplicity is still in vogue in our country and is full of such individuals. However, there are decent people, you just have to look around and look for them.
Thanks for the reasoning, if they really are yours and not trolling. The phenomenon is simple to explain a woman if she has a child 3 years is economically unproductive. That's the physiology, and she needs someone to cover her expenses, so men with money are preferable. On the other hand, men think with ... They catch one because of it and when it is depreciated sexually they replace it with another. I also live in Sofia and observe this phenomenon. My advice is looking for a man with values who is not a filmmaker. Be firmly on the ground. Take care of your appearance without scratches. Have a busy / education / career / investment something that gives you some degree of financial independence. And don't go down the road
Look, people of all kinds. You see these because they are showy. But tell me, since you don't like their way of life, what do you care? You cannot change them or ban them. No one but the market can say so. For such there are men who are with their minds. I want to ask you, do you want to be with the husband of any of them? Probably not, because there is simply nothing to hold you together. Low standards, demonstration, superficial attitude, compressed air - these are these women. Normal men don't like them. So - you have no problem. Let everyone run in their own corridor. Because everyone pays the price!
Do not get me wrong. I do not blame anyone and I do not judge anyone. Everyone has the right to live whatever life he wants. My question was rather psychological, how do men respect these women, what do they do to be like that. After all, a rich man, except for the mutts, and even they are to some extent smart men, at least in a certain area. How such men get along with such women .... I am just interested in the psyche of the man, and the tact of such a woman. That's it. The author
a well-groomed woman who would be with him for his own sake. He often doesn't believe that he could take her down without throwing a lot of money at her. And sometimes he has no idea how he could do it. He doesn't even want to try, most likely because he is afraid of failure, and he doesn't know anything about it ... but still, alas ... He doesn't consider himself charming, attractive, interesting, beautiful enough. He accepts the sex she has with him as something he has to pay for and at the same time belittles, excludes, and maybe doesn't even think about the fact that as much as she 'gave' him sex, so much he 'gave' sex to her. He himself devalues his caresses, his body and himself in general by paying these women, although he calls it 'help', 'helping', 'supporting' .. we all know that it is pure pay. But sex is something Mutual! as we know, from this point of view, no one should give money to anyone for sex. I personally advise all these men who pay for sex to think a little that their caresses have a high enough value that is completely equivalent to the caresses they receive from these women ... from any woman. Therefore, to stop spraying money on them, but rather to advise them and invite them to enroll in a course in sewing, programming and so on. from any woman. Therefore, to stop spending money on them, but rather to advise them and invite them to enroll in a course in sewing, programming and so on. from any woman. Therefore, to stop spraying money on them, but rather to advise them and invite them to enroll in a course in sewing, programming and so on.
Don't envy them, look after your life. Be smart and keep yourself beautiful without getting obsessed. Alpha, w. 29
How much have they told me that they are not interested in money and gifts, luxury and cars? It is not for survival and security, but to suppress their complexes. My ex was in love with me, but she fucked me because of a man she had been dating before and dumped him just because he had no approach to her! He came back for the money and put up with his nasty behavior. There are many examples. Here in BG only the fevers are modest. I orient myself to foreign women and advise others to do the same. :)
Dear girl, the muffins you see in the park, in the mall and in the gym you see them precisely because they are from this stratum ... you don't see working women, they are at work, shopping, looking after children, etc. There have been, are and will be women all over the world who have realized in time that they will not become a doctor, a lawyer, an engineer, etc. This requires intelligence, pushing, perseverance, deprivation of parties and chalgoteki imn. other stuff. And you can't live well with the salary of a saleswoman in the mall. Realizing this, the only other thing that could get them out of the "working class" caste is a rich man, and that's exactly what they're looking for and finding. The rich man, however, is seldom so stupid as to marry a dumb muffin, he rejoices in bed and buys her something. What's so weird about the whole thing? In rich countries, these are simply a smaller percentage of the population,
Work a little first. And to be fired from work for 700 leva is not the top. Plus, it's not easy for the mutres, because it sucks to sleep with an uncle. So neither their life is a flower, nor that of the average Bulgarian. The mass of Bulgarian women work like crazy, you come back, wash, clean, cook, look after the children. And so their whole life goes. On Saturday, they try to mark what they failed to do during the week. Some don't happen to a man and are divorced, others are with impotent men or they are small ... generally few pleasures, only commitments. The mutres have a more organized life, excursions, restaurants, malls, they still have children, they still leave something behind and the result is the same. It's just a matter of morality. If you were a rich heiress, would you quit your job? You will work for pleasure only, most likely for 4-5 hours, to have skills and for personal satisfaction. I also want a career, but it is a laborer's thinking to think that by mixing for BGN 800 you have reached the top and are the most valuable person in the world.
Number 2, what kind of comment? Why are you judging the girl? The fact that she is not a gold digger does not make her look worse than the women in question. Not all of them are beautiful - they are just busy with themselves all day, and do not underestimate the magical effect of makeup. : D On the topic - there is no clear answer. If a woman is still like that, it's a good idea to take a dose of time to read or learn a language. I think so. I can't judge these girls because in their relationships they immediately put the cards on the table, which is not bad. Their husbands immediately know what is more or less expected of them. I'm a woman, I'm not one of them, but I don't think they're prostitutes. They chose not to work once they found someone to support them - ok. That doesn't work for me.
13 - there is another side of the coin. He is rich, for example, and you remember that he does not want the person next to him to count the pennies in the expensive restaurants he goes to. There is something else. Rich people are far from as altruistic as the opinion spreads in our country. Rich and hop, he'll buy you an expensive car. They are rich because they know their account, and they bait, but on small bites. Therefore, I think that the mothers of girls should teach them from an early age that it is not the moment of their life if a bartender takes them to an insanely expensive restaurant or I do not know what. These are the little bites. If he's super rich, it's a crumb for him that some poor girl goes wild with.
I don't understand why learning and developing precludes automatically spending time in the gym and hair salon - well, not staying there all day, but at least occasionally. Otherwise, my opinion is that a woman ALWAYS, for her own safety and tranquility, must have her own income, otherwise at any moment she may end up naked on the street.
Истината е, че на въпросните златотърсачки не им е лесно. Ежедневно трябва да изглеждаш добре, да се съобразяваш с дрехи, грим и какво ядеш нон-стоп. Да не говорим, че половината са толкова изкуствени, че ако им махнеш екстеншъните, силикона и тоновете грим, ще се уплашиш. Най-лошото е, че имат срок на годност. Богатият чичко иска млади до 25 годишни пиленца. Хайде най-много до 30. Конкуренцията е голяма и винаги ще има по-млади и хубави от теб. Като й бие шута какво ще прави? При следващия, но докога? Няма вечно да е млада. Да не говорим, че мъжете с пари не искат дърво в леглото, което само да ляга по гръб и да разтваря краката. Искат пълна програма, в повечето случаи. Не знам как го правят тези момичета-има толкова гнусни и противни типове, че ми се повръща само като си представя да ги докосвам и те мен. Мерси за парите и колите им. Също така богатия мъж е повече от ясно, че няма да е само твой. За себе си мога да кажа, че съм поддържана и модерна жена, не ми липсват ухажори. Могла съм да бъда държанка. Не, благодаря. Имам образование, работя. Не казвам, че печеля отлично, нито съм някаква луда феминистка. Но секс кукла отказвам да бъда. Секса не го приемам като даване. Той ми дава пари и почивки, аз секс. Секса трябва да е удоволствие и наслада и за двамата. Лина
Darling, don't envy these "hollow watering cans" because it won't last forever. Today they are 20 and a few, but tomorrow they will be 30 and they will have to compete with the new 20 and a few year old muffins, so now their life may be easy, uncle pays everything, but tomorrow they will change them for more younger and fresher and they will be sad. That's why you rightly want to get on your feet, and not rely on a man's handouts for the rest of your life, because if he is with you only because of your appearance, it will not last forever. Learn and develop, because time flies and we will not be forever young and fresh, but what we have achieved and have in our heads, no one will take away from us. If you find the person who loves you and appreciates you as a person, and not just because of the body and extensions, he will appreciate and love you at 30, 40 and 80, however, if someone is with you just because of your appearance ... you remember that whatever you do, you can't look like you're 20 forever. For that, girl, study, find a job and be proud of who you are. Because valuable men are looking for valuable women, not empty shells, even if they are dressed in the most modern clothes.
22, it is not easy for gold diggers, but most of us also have to be careful what they eat non-stop, to train, not to be trees in bed, etc. And plus all this to perform normal daily activities such as learning , work, care for home, children and family. So it doesn't seem to be easy for us, but the quota is like that.
How do you know that the women in question are ALL DAY in the gym, mall, etc.? Are you following them? There are gold diggers who have settled with men-piggy banks, but they, as incredible as it sounds, are actually few in number. Most mall women are working or middle class with occupations. Number 5 apparently lived for others, not for herself. She probably followed her parents instead of finding herself and her interests and needs. The masses of people do so (even the so-called gold diggers live according to the models set for them by mom and dad).
Author, I'm not rich yet, I work in an international company for 1500 euros abroad. But I like shiny women over ordinary ones, probably because I grew up with Planeta TV. What prevents you from studying, working and being smart, but looking like them? Why does learning necessarily go with simple clothes and a little make-up?
Well, more and more often I think about how some women achieve things in their lives with ease, especially when it comes to relationships with men. Here is an example I will give with myself - I consider myself an intelligent person, with a good profession, I look good, I always behave well with everyone, I always try to help everyone with what I can. Apart from that, I am a good housewife, I keep my home in order, I cook very well and what happens when I need some help, there is no one to meet, because everyone thinks that I can obviously take care of myself and they don't bother to help me. do some service. I don't know if it's my fault, if I'm in such an environment, but yesterday, for example, I asked a few of my male colleagues / to do me a basic favor and no one was hired. And then they say that a beautiful woman is not given up. Apparently the fact that I'm not some grumbling liar, which causes it to be protected has an impact. Sometimes I feel like I'm even causing competition in men to do to men older than me. Strong women wear their waists. Most men are afraid, although I do not know why - there is no woman who wants to be more a man than men, but when they see a woman who is confident in their own qualities, they are afraid of her, which speaks of large complexes. I have no other explanation
For many men, a woman who is taken out and is expected to drink 1 coffee and juice is a gold digger. They always justify their quarrels with us women.
Look, honey. Gold diggers are smart women. That is why they are respected. It is a gift of nature and so on. Smart people do not have to work or work hard to make a living. The drummers are told that they are very moral and smart and they tighten their belts until they break. And the fact that they are very goth and it is right for them to be instilled by various complex men. Who at the age of 30 and older are still looking for a place to suckle. I tell you this as a well-to-do woman, forever deprived of good looks, working to the hilt and with a chronically unemployed skirt drone
Dear readers. From my observations from life so far, I will tell you that it doesn't matter if you are a woman who tears her ass to work from morning to night, because even if you end up buying the coolest car with your own money, for example, you will still be at a traffic light. he looks at a selandur / selandurka and will say to himself "look at the car she is in .. who knows who she sleeps with. And to those women you wonder, for example, how they sell like that, they go to gyms all day, etc., they are wondering about another woman, how she washes and cleans, cooks, works, and what not .. And the ugly truth is like that and obviously the gold diggers realized it a long time ago - to go with the rich man, where they spend his money, and he using them only sexually is better than living with her husband, who also uses them, but for washing, cleaning, cooking, babysitting and sex, and finally his poverty and disrespect .. Well, they don't wonder anymore. F 26
To number 27 And I consider myself a strong woman, but my fellow men / and all kinds of men / do not refuse me services, they even offer them to me - to fix my car headlight, to carry my bag, to take me somewhere ... of that sort of thing. So think about where you get it wrong with men.
29 - You are the representative of all that is wrong in our modern society!
Here's how it goes - At 19 they are a doormat for various scoundrels and businessmen, at 25 they start to feel that it won't last forever, to drive it like that and it starts with perforated condoms and other tricks, and at 27-8, if they haven't caught with someone who can buy them car levels once a year, it will be some shot high-paid lawyer, programmer or doctor who will at least provide a nice home and live without going to work.
I'm one of those women. My friends too. Sometimes, jokingly, we dream of a Muslim enslaving us. If we live in a harem, we will not go out, but we will be fed and clothed, and we will eat baklava all day and gain weight. But we joke about it, of course, after our nerves broke at work. Otherwise, I know a single gold digger. For her, this has been a profession for fifteen years. Well, I don't want her life! We used to work together, we hadn't seen each other in years, and once she called to meet for a drink. All right, I say, I go, we sit in an expensive restaurant, we talk. At one point, a 75-year-old man comes, she kisses him, presents him as "my great love" and the evening continues. Then the old man leaves after paying our bill. She gets in her jeep and says: jump, I'll take you. We just get to my block and her phone rings. The man across the street — apparently her official lover — raises a furious scandal about why she hasn't returned home yet, where she is, who she's with, and so on. In five minutes, he says, if you don't take a picture of yourself at home, I'll come and beat you up. She cried (apparently this has already happened). I had to talk to the idiot to explain that here we are - the two of us, there are no other people, she took me home and that's it. Then I call her: Flowers, is this your life? She says: Well, what can I do, here is that old man who bought me the jeep, this sersem has rented my apartment and each of them wants me to be at his disposal for 24 hours, don't ask me how I manage to maneuver. This was my last meeting with this woman. I just wasn't prepared for it to fall that far. And he used to be an excellent reporter, I will not say where, because the site is anonymous, and I do not want to expose it. Author, it is not easy for these women, but they have chosen it. I would commit suicide on the second day if I had to kiss old people and explain to various idiots where I am at seven in the evening. But everyone chooses! Don't envy them, author, because these poor creatures are not to be envied. You and I are independent women who hold their destiny in their hands. We may have a slice of bread and a plate of lentils today, but we are free. And those girls depend on an uncle's mood every day. If he likes it, he will caress her, if he is angry - he will kick her, and she has no word. Another case. I like to browse a second hand site. I come across the ad of a woman selling brand new branded shoes for 40 leva (their real price is 350 leva) We meet, I buy them. Then the same lady released a new offer - she sold a Versace dress for BGN 30. Then - a Ralph Lauren suit for BGN 35. I filled my wardrobe with pampering! And all with a label, undressed! And because we saw each other to hand over my things and now, so to speak, we knew each other, at the next purchase I asked her directly: , costs a minimum of 1000 euros ". She says: no, it costs 1600 euros! And what turns out? Her lover gave her a credit card with an unlimited limit, she can shop wherever she wants and whatever she wants, but she doesn't give her cash. And keep track of every purchase. If they are rags - fine. But she is not entitled to cash so she can't go anywhere. And the woman has a sick mother in Plovdiv and simply does not have the technical ability to go to see her or send her money for treatment. So she buys on her lover's credit card and then sells her clothes, bags and shoes for next to nothing to have any cash at all. She told me that herself through tears. Do you want this life, author? Would you take it?