Кофти тръпка, е изневярата. Имах разкошна връзка в продължение на две години и малко. Бях лудо влюбен, давах всичко за това момиче. Никога не съм си мислил за изневяра, не съм поглеждал друга жена дори и за миг. Имал съм известна доза съмнения към сексуалния ни живот, в смисъл нещо ми е липсвало, но никога не съм му давал значение. В един прекрасен ден се появи нова колежка в офиса, висока, стегната, с големи гърди, но пак не погледнах на нея като на жена с която бих легнал. Това не продължи дълго, колежката ми се слагаше в продължение на месец докато не подадох. В първия момент след изневярата се почувствах като най - долното копеле на тази планета. Така се чувствах и след втория и третия път, докато в един момент спрях да се чувствам виновен. С нея правихме уникален секс, постигнахме някакво невероятно разбирателство и секса, всичко останало беше невероятно. Между временно с полувинката си вървя към бебе с инвитро процедура. Да знам ще ме питате как като изневеряваш Ами много просто мислех си, че лесно и всеки момент ще го прекратя това. Да ама не, нещата не се случват така както си ги мислех и продължиха с изневерите. След известно време започнах да сравнявам двете, защо едната ме задоволява повече от другата. Това цялото започна да влиае зле на връзката ми, защото аз без да се осетя градя втора връзка. Не след дълго спрях да ухажвам половинката си както преди, спрях да я наричам с умалителни, да я прегръщам да я целувам толкова често колкото преди. За себе си и пред нея твърдях, че ми липсва секс, секса е не достатъчен и не достатъчно качествен. След известно време започнаха проблемите, започнахме да се караме за малки неща, незначителни неща. Тя ми казваше ти вече не ме обичаш, а аз отговарях не обичам те но секса ми е не достатъчен. Малко преди нова година на един фирмен банкет, се наложи да ги събера двете в една стая. Нямам идея как са се гледали двете, но тя заподозря. На тръгване от банкета получих няколко смс от колежката, съответно моята ми е взела телефона и ги е прочела (прави го за пръв път). Оправдах се някак си и реших да си запазя връзката. На другия ден в офиса и теглих една, като и казах повече да не ме търси за нищо. В секса с половинката ми имаше подобрение, нещата започнаха да се случват по готино, и всичко беше горе долу добре. Аз пак имах своите съмнения, но гледах да не им обръщам внимание. Съмненията са ми дали трябва да съм с тази жена, дали я обичам все още, не можех лесно да захвърля връзка в която бях вложил толкова много. От тъпотия или не знам се обадих на един приятел и поисках да се видя с една гледачка от родния ми град. Направихме си среща запалих колата и отидох. Никога преди не съм ходил на такива неща, даже не вярвам изобщо в тях. Сутринта преди да тръгна имахме скандал на тема "не съм казвал лека нощт от 4 дни", нямам идея за какво си викахме толкова много, даже до никакво решение не достигнахме. Гледачката ми каза, рано или късно ще се разделите, може да се разделите сега. Ако останеш с нея ще имате дете и след няколко години пак ще се разделите, защото тя неможе да ти дава вниманието от което ти се нуждаеш. Това ми трябваше. Тръгнах си към София по здухан от всякога и се чухме по телефона, и тогава и казах всичкото това което съм чул и че изскам да изчакаме с детето да си дадем време да видим какво ще излезе. Върнах се на работа, а тя се прибрала по рано почистила стаята и се захванала да ми разбие паролата във facebook. Паролата не е нещо сложно и човек които ме познава може да се досети каква е. Съответно е влязла и е видяла някаква стара кореспонденция с колежката, точно в този момент аз влизах в среща, а тя ми звъни с думите боклук, копеле, лъжец идваи и си сабираи багажа не искам да те виждам. Не и отдадох особенно значение и аз си мислех същото затова реших да си проведа срещата. След срещата се прибрах, даже не съм се събличал, очаквах много бързо да си тръгна. Тя ми каза, че е склонна да прости за всичко ако искам да остана и да продължим. Аз отговорих, че незнам какво искам, незнам дали я обичам, нищичко незнам. И останах за през ноща там, не съм спал изобщо както и тя. Тя спа на другото легло. На другия ден станах и отидох на работа, разговарях с всичките си приятели, даже и с родителите си. Всички ми казаха разделете се с изклучение на родителите ми, те казаха каквото ти си решиш. Мислих доста дълго. Сърцето ми казва да се върна при нея, от обич ли от съжеление ли, нямам идея. Мозака ми каза разделете се, нама да бъдеш щаслив, ще се превърнеш в няй-голямия чехлио, защото ще те гледа под лупа. До известна степен нещо все още ме тегли към колежката, тя би се сабрала с мен. Обадих се на половинката казах и какво чувствам и мисля с изключение на часта с колежката, и че съм решил да остана. Снощи беше обтегнато пак положението, но си легнахме и правихме секс, както никога досега, тя се превърна в най- голямата мръсница. След това повторихме. Все още назнам какво правя какво чувстам, всичко ми е тотален хаус. Все още съм изпълнен със съмнения, дали не греша.
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Leave her. He needs someone who knows what he is thinking, what he is feeling and what he is doing. Since now, when she was still a young woman, she left her luggage, I don't think what will happen in years to come. You're going to get her some disease. Leave her, spare her.
I don't know what to tell you ... I don't think you deserve both and it's not your fault. Your wife is obviously an exceptional person if she can forgive everything. The other chick is obviously right, as long as she sticks to the relationship you have, even if it's only sexual. Be careful not to fall from a height. * Syndrome
I read your story in one breath. I can say that you have excellent storytelling skills. Naturally, I believe that everything is true. Your torments, no matter who you stay with, are so human. What to say? One was your partner for many years, you say nothing more. Is there anything else, any good qualities with which to be dear to you? ... It is very difficult to live by obligation, to feel trapped. There are scandals in every family. And you will not miss each other. If you think you are strong enough to withstand all storms and stay with her, stay. The other gave you good sex. Apparently you care a lot about that. But sex is up to date. What about when you get 45-50? So, what will keep you together? Memories do not warm, keep in mind. Sit down and write on a piece of paper all the pros and cons of one and the other. Finally he thought
Which of the two do you see as the mother of your children? Which of the two would you forgive everything to? Which of the two would he cover up if he committed murder? And for which of the two would you sacrifice everything to be happy? Answer these questions and you will know what to do. Magi 32g
Well ... you say you're "I was madly in love, I gave my all for this girl. I never thought about infidelity, I never looked at another woman even for a moment. I had a certain amount of doubt about our sex life, in the sense I was missing something, but I never gave it to him. "- if you were missing something, why not just talk to her so she can try to give you what you need. "It didn't last long, my colleague was putting on for a month until I passed." - you gave in for a month, and she put on from the very beginning ... she put on you, do you think she would do it and with another. Your story made me think, I don't have much experience and I don't want one day my wonderful relationship to fall apart because something was missing in the sexual aspect. Why, since that was all, didn't talk to her ...
The first thing you need to do is not listen to anyone. I really liked what your parents told you - you decide! This is real support. Look ... you will unconsciously seek support for your decision. And here you did it ... someone read something bad about the colleague? No! But your wife was digging in the phone, scandals about trifles and all sorts of things ... You have already made the decision, that's why the witch doctor told you that thing. They can't predict the future, they are just good psychologists, they intuitively feel your moods ... For once or twice, infidelity doesn't even count, but as you say, you have started to build another relationship. This should make you think: why? Such a connection is always an indicator of a problem and you know it is yours. You described it! It's not big and striking, it's a bunch of little things, which at one point will land on your head and sweep both of you. She tends to forgive. Of course! Women are afraid to be left alone, to change this situation now. And she has girlfriends - she shared with everyone. They told her - why should you leave him, he takes care of you, he has a good job, that filth has turned on him twice and he had sex - big. Topva is not her forgiveness, but you will understand it only after a while, when she constantly monitors your steps, correspondence, phone and everywhere she expresses an annoying desire to be together. Do you think that a woman is so happy when she does not trust her partner and reads him text messages. It actually goes crazy! Your connection is already broken, and where it is broken, even if it sticks, an ugly knot remains. And if I had read: I love her, she is so good and understanding, she takes care of me she wants us to work together to strengthen our relationship, I don't think we will be happy if we break up, we complement each other, we get along great, we have common interests and dreams. - then my comment would not be like that. In my opinion, you have both confused the habit with love and from now on you will separate in the coming years. One will get tired and fuck everything. The best solution now is to part with the stipulation that you will rest a little, that you will give yourself a chance to think a little, because you are deciding your life for God, this is not child's play. You decide the future of a child, which if you stay together, believe me, she will insist on having more and more and more intense, according to the old maxim "When I give birth to a child and he will be gentle with me. child of him "Separate, give yourself a chance to stay alone for a while. Check if it hurts a lot. Don't go to another, stay alone, work, see friends, go for a walk. Pay attention to your parents, do something you didn't do. give her a chance to see what it's like to go and see for yourself if it's so scary. If you are destined to be together, you will reunite after such a separation and nothing will be able to separate you from each other, you will realize many things and you will move on to start a family. Success! Write what is happening. If you are destined to be together, you will reunite after such a separation and nothing will be able to separate you from each other, you will realize many things and you will move on to start a family. Success! Write what is happening. If you are destined to be together, you will reunite after such a separation and nothing will be able to separate you from each other, you will have realized many things and moved, you will start to start a family. Success! Write what is happening.
It is very difficult when you are at such a crossroads. I will advise you for a moment in your thoughts to abstract from your colleague. Remember exactly how you felt with your wife just before your adventure began. Remember if you were happy and satisfied. Because the initial fall in love is great, but inevitably then comes the period when you become more reasonable. And yet, as cliché as sex may sound, it's not everything. I wonder if you talked to your wife about this? Have you told her openly what your sexual needs and preferences are? You just get along with some people. But with others it takes a little effort. The scandals came from the tension between you. I think give your wife a chance. It could just be a crisis between you. Sit down, talk openly and in detail about everything. Wait a while.
I think that if your girlfriend finds herself in someone else's arms, you will "love" her again. You are currently in a position to choose - you feel confused, but also important. I don't believe your girlfriend forgives you for selfish purposes. He loves you - that's clear. But it's better for her to leave her. He doesn't realize it yet, but it's a fact. She can't trust you. By the way, at the moment no woman can trust you. I don't blame you. But you are not ready for anything serious. If you cheat on both of you and hesitate, then you don't love either. You are currently weighing them like pieces of meat. You wonder what you can get rid of - sometimes one is sweeter, now the other. I would advise you to let the girl meet a person she could be happy with. Your colleague is used to fast sex and lack of commitment to her. So she is the "lighter" option for a man who is not ready for a relationship yet. It is.
You are not fools, you are a fool. You just decided to be with this girl out of habit, she will be trying in bed right now, but TRUST ME when you are? tied in a towel when she conceived - forget it. Why this is not the right woman for you - very simple, does not love you. If he loved you, he would never forgive your infidelity. She just saw in you the person who could? offer security and make babies in vitro. You don't say who has the problem, but if she has it, that explains a lot. 100% such a woman feels like a woman not very good, suffers from complexes and knows that not every man would decide to be with her. Think well. Very well, what do you want and whether you will stay faithful when the woman stops caring for you. And I will tell you one more thing as a woman in love - I WOULD NEVER BUT READ MY FRIENDS AND FACEBOOKS to my friend. NEVER. Every connection has its limits, this is his personal space and I would never violate it. I would never pretend to forgive a relationship like yours. I'm sorry - but the problems are yet to come for you. Just watch. Your separation is certain, the question is whether there will be a child roaring and suffering because of it or whether you will decide to do it today and now, before a third person suffers from your separation. One thing also becomes important - you do not love the woman you abandoned and you can never return to her. You hurt her terribly, she may not show it. Get well. They told you right - you decide. You've hurt two women so far. And myself. It is up to you whether a child will roar. Separation is guaranteed. I do not believe in fortune tellers, but they know the human soul well, as psychologists they are. This woman has heard many stories, and even if she doesn't have any supernatural powers, she has experience with such stories and yes - she knew. If not now, in years to come you will separate, but YOU WILL DIVIDE WITH THIS WOMAN. 100%. The question is whether the other will be waiting for you in years to come and whether you will find such a woman again. You know better. Good luck
Man, whatever you decide, you will be in such situations several times in your life - no matter who you are with at the moment and who will pull you out ... Whatever you do - you will gain some experience. Whatever you miss - you will fail to accumulate another ... There are no right and wrong decisions, there are painful (from the consequences of which you learn more) and less painful (where you give it more gently). And don't forget - if you're going to experiment, do it NOW, not when the kids show up! (by then you should be sufficiently aware of the situation ...)
Looking at it, your criterion is only "good sex", so I don't know why we lost our time with all the other nonsense, you don't deserve any ... Naughty Bear
I think you're looking for reasons to break up with your wife. That's why you went to the babysitter to confirm it to you - it's okay that you don't believe in such things. I hope not the case of men like you! If I were your wife, I'd dump you. Go with your dear colleague as you have such great sex with her. I'll see you writhe in a few years when you get bored. Moderator: Please, no offense. :)
I think you need to be alone for a while. Without girlfriends, colleagues, parents, babysitters and others. You are expected to behave like a mature man with dignity, not like you are calling your mom and dad before parting with your girlfriend. The answer to your question is not in the babysitter or mom, but in yourself. Nobody knows the future, least of all the nanny. :) You make your own future and are responsible for your actions. It is clear that it is easier if you make the wrong choice to leave the babysitter or your friends for the advice they have given you, but this will really prove that you are a fool. :) As for your sexual dissatisfaction - the crooked rocket and its space is crooked. Not only does the woman participate, nor does she do it to satisfy only your instinct. He is not with you just to fulfill your sexual desires. And apparently from so much experience with babysitters you forgot that your girlfriend is not like that and can't know what exactly you mean by "sex is not enough for me". Even I can't understand what you mean. You know that as you get older and not in shape for sex, it will be far more important what kind of person the woman next to you is, have you had children and all such important things for a man? But if you want to live and do not enslave yourself in a relationship, but have adventures. In my opinion, you are a fool not because you have cheated, but because you are not ready to bear the consequences of this, you do not know what you want, why you do it, you do not behave like a man and you are quite immature in your instinct, which in this case you call brain . That which head can decide that someone will be unhappy with a person because sex with him is not like with anyone other than the bottom? And you saw with your own eyes, that your girlfriend can love herself the way you want, but you obviously haven't encouraged her enough before, you had to cheat on her to get yours. This is not about bad sex, but about bad communication.
I'll tell you, being a babysitter is only a matter of time before you break up with both, but that doesn't mean you'll be unhappy .... on the contrary .... ZARA 36
From the author: Hello, Thanks to everyone who wrote. Special thanks to 7, 10 and 14. In principle, I very much agree with number 14, so far there has really been no correspondence between us. We just started talking more than ever, we've been having sex for a few days now that we're worthy of a porn movie. But the feeling stays in me lighter and duller, but it stays. "You are currently in a position to choose - you feel confused, but also important." ---- this is the most accurate description of the situation I made a decision with certainty, I will not have children until I feel this feeling that I felt when I I agreed for children. thanks again everyone.
Quite a nasty situation ... As a man to a man, I can only tell you one thing - obviously sex is very important in your life, and whoever says that it is not in the main role of the relationship - is wrong. Do not hang around, do not let yourself be used and fill the life of a woman who sees in you a salvation nothing more. Grab the colleague and see what a good relationship will be built. I was in the same situation. Now I have a family of 10 years with my colleague who became my wife. To this day, sex is the same as it was 12 years ago when we were just sex partners. Don't miss it because then you will look for this sex again with another, and will it be the same? Success Iv. Ivanov
From the author: At times I find myself in a super nasty situation, my stomach shrinks and I can't be it and I think of thousands of options how to leave it. This keeps me going for a while then I can't stand it and share with her. And after 30 minutes of conversation I am calm, but not for long. I have never been in such a situation myself, I was brought up in a radically different way, and my value system is built on monogamy and family. This is super incomprehensible to me. On the other hand, yesterday I found out from my colleague that after the Christmas party she started with one who has a family and a child ??? And he still wants to be with me ??? If I go to my colleague, won't the same thing happen to me? And the other one calls me I know you don't love me but I love you and at the moment we have something much stronger than love ??? What's going on with this life, I don't understand anything ???
Thousands of apologies, author, but you sound more and more stupid and silly to me. Didn't you realize that you are not destined to have a relationship with a woman, once you start from madly in love with one and super sex with the other, and finally behave like a seasickness, as if on egati l .. nata you shook and they are disgusting? You better watch her porn and leave the women alone.
On the other hand, yesterday I found out from my colleague that after the Christmas party she started with one who has a family and a child ??? - The colleague is playful, she wants to be with you, why is she with him? You have great sex, and obviously she doesn't have enough ... You may not be with your girlfriend, but hardly with your colleague for something serious.
From the author: Yesterday I managed to clarify with myself. At least that's what I think. My affair with my colleague led me to fall in love with her, it happened without me failing, even at the moment I am writing to you I can say that I love her. At the same time to my partner I have something very special, this girl did not give up on me after everything that has happened so far, she supported me all the time and all the time kept repeating to me the door was open free. She also told me that she was no less to blame for what had happened, she just realized it too late. For 3 years of relationship she did not really love me, so many things are lame. She claims that she has only now understood herself and at the moment she loves me and stands as a postage stamp glued to me :). If I have to be honest, I would still prefer my colleague, but here comes a very big "BUT". As she told me, "I'll fuck you, I'll get you, you'll hate me, and then what will I do to you?" No one can blame her, yet there is no connection. But let's just say that she got some feelings for me, that's why it all happened badly at the company party. And then immediately goes to another, on top of everything the man is married with a child. I can't swallow it, her monogamy is foreign, I can't have anything to do with it :( that she had reached some feelings for me, that's why it all happened badly at the company party. And then immediately goes to another, on top of everything the man is married with a child. I can't swallow it, monogamy is foreign to her, I can't have anything to do with it :( that she had reached some feelings for me, that's why it all happened badly at the company party. And then immediately goes to another, on top of everything the man is married with a child. I can't swallow it, her monogamy is foreign, I can't have anything to do with it :(
I just can't believe it ... All the time you knew she was a whore and that made you decide she was superior to your girlfriend :)) Well done, well done, I'm very happy with the natural outcome :) I just hope you didn't stick something from the filthy to the good girl.
From the author: After absolutely everything happened and shortly after I wrote my last comment and showed my blog here. She read it and told me you were a fool, you introduced me as a whore. I answered and did not describe what happened. We talked a little later and it came to your question what you decided. I replied staying with my wife. At which she frowned, it became a little strange to me, I asked her well what is your problem, and after a while the pressure explained to me in love. I said after that, why didn't you say anything in the last week while I was almost broke up with my wife. Answer me: Well, I expected you to act like a man, to come to me and tell me. I want to be with you. I'm starting to think it's all a manipulation, he's just trying to scold me with my girlfriend, and that's about sports. She was also in England for the New Year and there with an old friend of hers. Either he's spinning me or he doesn't know what she's doing. On the other hand, my friend was a nun for 3 years and suddenly became a porn star. One piece of advice to all men, don't cheat on anything in the world, if I hadn't cheated now I would be with a child and another woman would be the last thing in my life.
That's exactly what I wrote, but the moderators obviously didn't approve of it - you presented her as a whore / as she is /. But more shocking is how with all your innocence you let her read everything, including how good sex with your wife is now. Either you're extremely stupid, which I'm starting to think is not real, or you deliberately wrote all this to shoot your colleague in the forehead.
Abe man ... you're not in love with your colleague. It's just that the chick is not a woman for a man, and your ego is so hurt that you think you're in love with her. Well, you're not ... your wife just has to leave you to get your word;]
Oh, please free them both women from themselves that just woe to them with an infantile man like you. After 10 years of growing up and if you even know whether you are a woman, a mistress, a child or what you want at all, then only engage another woman with yourself. You certainly have no right to waste the time of the woman next to you. At least let her be happy without you.
26, if she had been happy without him, she would have left him. It's not like she didn't have a reason. Do not administer such frivolous justice. I can tell the author - rejoice that it happened, but do not be a fool! Of course, the other is a class whore, that's obvious. And what she told you (in comment 23) is, of course, a manipulation. And not too masterful. So don't commit to nonsense, but stay with your wife, who obviously loves you very much! And why rejoice? Well, you gained a lot from this incident: 1. You understood that your wife loves you and will be with you no matter what shit you go through. You can always count on her. 2. He understood what strong sex is :-) 3. He understood that your wife can also have strong sex. 4. He made your wife see that she could lose you, and she started fighting back for you. And you felt it right away! On sex and more. Which once again proves that he loves reading - otherwise he wouldn't have bothered to fight. 5. Understand how manipulative people can be and (hopefully!) How to avoid it. In particular, feel a few whore numbers that you will smell from afar. All this is an INVALUABLE experience! So rejoice. Kubrat
Last night, he had another difficult conversation with my wife. Without wanting to, I even approached it in a completely different way. And again there was a scandal in which, according to her, she had already told me everything. I will not mention what happened to her because it is not to say, the only thing she explained to me logically is that she did not have the sex she is having at the moment for fear of threatening me that I was behaving very aristocratically. In general, the way I wrote everything, it turns out that the colleague is something. In her defense, I will say, if you think about it, there is logic in her actions. Basically, that she shared everything with me means that she is honest with me. And all her actions, so dense and so surprising after the company party, mean she's trying to forget me. I will hardly get sound advice here. Just who read it be careful not to get in my place.
Number 27 - the woman is unhappy with him, it's just hard for her to turn her back on his relationship as easily as he turned his back on her for another. You give the men's advice, but as a woman I can look at the other side of things - namely, how a woman feels in this situation. From 26
So ... maybe it's time for the "whore" to intervene in this nonsense! I hate to deal with such nonsense, but with the things presented in this way, I can't help but at least try to present my point of view. Let me start with the fact that for you, dear, the idea of looking for a solution to your problems through this or any other site is a complete parody. I didn't believe that I could get here to explain myself to some complete strangers, who is normal, who isn't ... Nobody should offend me, but the fact that you people don't know him or me, nor the other woman should tell you a little that it is not at all appropriate to determine who is what, how stupid he is, how smart he is, etc. You cannot offend a man who is in the most confused period during all my life. From his words, which change every day of God, you should understand how confused he is and how much he needs to make a decision as soon as possible. But you are not the one to judge him. I do not comment at all on the words addressed to me, because I do not care what your opinion is, given that your women do the same, but you do not know it, you will probably never understand it. I still have this for you ... I have no connection, I have no one next to me, then I will do what I want! While I have no one to comply with, what's bothering me? That the man I love goes home to his wife every night? That every night when I'm alone, he hugs the other? What is my other option - to sit at home in tears and regret that I was unlucky with him? Or to try in every way to separate him from his wife, to consider options in which she would leave him, to wonder how to "make" him love me by force? That would make a pathetic woman, with the definition you use for me! I could only put my friendship with this person first because we have a very strong relationship, and emotionally and sexually, we share, we know a lot about each other. If I wanted to share it with the other, would I share my personal experiences with other men with him? If I wanted to force him to share it with her, I would succeed. I'm sure. Everyone has their ways, everyone has weaknesses, I could take advantage of them and a year ago it was mine! VIOLENCE! But I, unlike many of you, have dignity, I have feelings for this person whom you so lightly insult without getting into his situation. I don't care what you think of me! I'm not asleep at all, believe me! Just reading all this disgust pouring on me without knowing me made me write here! I do not wish anyone to be in our position, neither in mine, nor in his, nor in the position of his girlfriend. Ah, you, darling ... Take matters into your own hands! I know that you are a strong man, I know that you can overcome the situation without resorting to listening to anyone's words. You can fix it yourself! You have a heart, you have a mind! Just listen to them. No one can help you better than you can help yourself. I want you to make the decision yourself. That's why I never revealed my feelings to you ... He always told me "Be careful not to fall in love with me, I have a wife!" Well ... I was careful ... until the end I was convinced that this is just sex between us. .. But when I see this in your eyes now I can say only one thing - YES, AND I LOVE YOU, I FELL IN LOVE, And I WAS CAREFUL AS YOU TOLD ME .... I was careful dear ... And obviously we will solve our problems in this stupid site, so it is right to say what I think - I love you, if you decide to stay with me I will stay with you! I stay and I will make you the happiest man in the world! If you decide to stay where you are now, I will never again interfere in your relationship with that girl who did not deserve this to happen to him ... neither I nor you ... But this is life, one learns from my mistakes ... Life is like that .. we meet and separate ... I support you in your decision, as long as it is entirely yours! Don't let anyone make the decision for you! The most important thing is to be happy! Think of yourself first! I stay and I will make you the happiest man in the world! If you decide to stay where you are now, I will never again interfere in your relationship with that girl who did not deserve this to happen to him ... neither I nor you ... But this is life, one learns from my mistakes ... Life is like that .. we meet and separate ... I support you in your decision, as long as it is entirely yours! Don't let anyone make the decision for you! The most important thing is to be happy! Think of yourself first! I stay and I will make you the happiest man in the world! If you decide to stay where you are now, I will never again interfere in your relationship with that girl who did not deserve this to happen to him ... neither I nor you ... But this is life, one learns from my mistakes ... Life is like that .. we meet and separate ... I support you in your decision, as long as it is entirely yours! Don't let anyone make the decision for you! The most important thing is to be happy! Think of yourself first! as long as it's all yours! Don't let anyone make the decision for you! The most important thing is to be happy! Think of yourself first! as long as it's all yours! Don't let anyone make the decision for you! The most important thing is to be happy! Think of yourself first!
If the last comment is true - a man who exposes two women so badly, in the end he has both .... Such "power" and such nonsense here ... And Kubrat again with his "perfect" advice, which is completely true, because he looks down on everyone and sees everything .... We ordinary people cannot reach his enlightenment ....: D
To the Author and number 30 Hello, I was in your place (in place of number 30) and I have something to say on the subject. It turned out very interesting first, because for the first time on this site we can see the coin on both sides. And since I was the other one, I also thought - is this what my current husband saw in me in the beginning - legs and breasts? Maybe, I know - men are so different, but as a woman I can say that I did not see in him the physical first. Attraction - yes, but first we built a great friendship, I sank into his eyes, got to know his soul and character. In our relationship, there have never been fierce scandals, as the author describes them, as mine had with his ex-wife. I never pretended to be the Virgin Mary because he was "aristocratic," and I'm sure another woman who claims to love wouldn't do the same. According to me, the author's wife has indeed made a special effort to offer him something better in bed, just as my husband's ex-wife has been searching the internet for information on how to have good sex - for her lover, of course. So the author is happy that at least his wife is trying to make fun of him. For now. He will never forget infidelity otherwise. Once the in vitro baby is born, it's over. At the latest then, in my opinion, in a month the routine in bed will reign again, you still have the scandals in your kitchen, but the accusations will not stop until the very end of your marriage. (and it is inevitable, it may be after 20 years, but such a marriage is not for life). I can tell my colleague, the "whore", that the gentleman has made his decision. Debt, comfort and fear, cowardice, habit, affection are sometimes stronger than love and desire. I think that you deserve more. I endured sleepless nights, crying, vomiting from lack of sleep and grief, mental exhaustion, the desire not to leave the house, the lack of desire for everything ... for 6 years. The author - a marriage based on a lie is not built. If you are not satisfied and happy with your partner, if there are quarrels and quarrels, do not create a child. Even if you break up with the whore today, you will meet another tomorrow, because your heart is free in this marriage. Sex with your wife may be OK right now, but until when? As the danger has passed and she has seen that she has won, there is no point in straining more, she will return to her normal sex. It was like that with us - I had finally left him. He said to himself at first - well, but after 30 minutes he started crying, suffocating, he could not imagine life without me. Make a decision but first imagine life without each of the women. Whose loss breaks your heart, you love it. And only you know that and you can know. Just choose the woman you are in love with, trust, love, let your heart decide - not your mind. Whatever you decide ... - I tell my colleague - upside down, you will manage. In both cases. Unlike his wife, you have always been alone and lonely, go to work, hobbies, go abroad, if you want, change the wallpaper, change the environment, indulge in charity, social activities (for example in orphanages), indulge in religion, in philosophy, be above things. There are also more important things than the love of this world, more important people than this person - people who see more in you than your tits and thighs, people who need you, who appreciate you, love you and would just hug you. you at night. Keep your head up!
Calm down, colleague, he will choose you, because his pig is more comfortable in a puddle. Don? Come on bass.
This topic seems to be lazy-slippery :) Who wants to watch the series, grab two packets of chips and settle for the sequel: D: D
The colleague's comment touched me ... I don't have much experience, but still to express an opinion ... You say that you love him, a strong emotional and sexual relationship blah blah ... Abe, a dear woman with dignity and not to be pathetic, isn't it? you say, should he give his flower back and forth in order to overcome that he hugs another and not to shed tears ... And you love him and you understood that he also and with what arrogance damn you explain to him to whom you gave it after knowing that it would hurt him ... Honey, that's what you wanted so he could see that you could be with others and make him stay only yours, not the other ... And you know, I hope from heart, let him go with you, because the other woman, no one in her place deserves this ... And let the author take the road with you ... and after a while tell you how much she loves him how much she endures with him :)
The comment of the "colleague" (number 30) is unique, because it is really very rare (I don't know if it is the first time) to see both points of view at the same time. And I think that's the only reason she deserves a higher rating - for the courage to write here after all the slop in her address. Let me also say something about the term "whore", because I was one of those who used it (and "from the class" - as it will be a gargoyle, to be shaggy :-)). Very few women are whores in the literal sense of the word, and an awful lot are whores because they don't tell others what they do. I used the word because I came to such a conclusion from the author's stories - that you are the first type of whore. If not, you may wonder why the author presented you in this light. Which answers your other question - why are we "speaking" here without knowing people. Well, that's the purpose of this site - it's anonymous, nobody knows anyone, which makes a lot of people share things they wouldn't share with acquaintances. If you want advice from someone who is aware of things, you ask a friend - but friends are not impartial. Here no one is interested in taking a certain position and that is why everyone has their own opinion. But this opinion can only be built on what the author has presented as information. If it is wrong or incomplete, so will the reactions. So if you think important parts of the story are missing, get angry at the author, not us. Specifically on comment number 30: I can say that I 70-80% agree with you, especially in the second half. Indeed, no one has the right to judge you for what you do - it's your job. I don't even think it's bad, immoral and the like. A wide world, people of all kinds, everyone is looking for their happiness. These pseudo-moralist bastards fucked them up. That's how you like it - that's how you do it. But here we give advice to the author what to do, because he asked. If you want advice, ok, post a topic, and we will help you. If not - just read. You say the author was confused - aren't you? Do you know EXACTLY what you want? If you know, and since you're so sure you could have it - then where the fuck? Why did he deal with other men? (At least that's what the author says - if it's not true, say so.) I believe you have a strong emotional connection, I believe you share a lot, I believe you have a great time together - in every sense, I believe you you feel sick in the evening when he goes home to his wife and you hang like a rag. However, I do not believe that you know what you want. If he knew you would have done it, and you would not justify yourself here. And you wouldn't deal with other men - not because it was immoral, because it wouldn't attract you. And you wouldn't hurt him at all to tell him the details. None of the participants wrote down their age, but in my opinion both of them, that all three (with the "wife") should grow up a little more. Kubrat PP What cannot be denied, and makes a very good impression, is that the "colleague" writes much more competently than the author. Not to mention that 80% of the people here write more competently. This may also say something ... None of the participants wrote down their age, but in my opinion both of them, that all three (with the "wife") should grow up a little more. Kubrat PP What cannot be denied, and makes a very good impression, is that the "colleague" writes much more competently than the author. Not to mention that he writes more competently than 80% of the people here. This may also say something ... None of the participants wrote down their age, but in my opinion both of them, that all three (with the "wife") should grow up a little more. Kubrat PP What cannot be denied, and makes a very good impression, is that the "colleague" writes much more competently than the author. Not to mention that he writes more competently than 80% of the people here. This may also say something ...
The time has come for my best friend to intervene, which is already becoming funny ... First of all, I would like to congratulate my colleague on a really well-written comment and rather protect him from congratulations than myself and I hope we will meet soon. I can write a lot on the subject because I know a lot but do you really believe that this boy can tell in a few lines all the problems lies if you will and accusations against him by his girlfriend but of course all the good moments when his stomach shrank when he he was in love and everything was flowers and roses ... Well, he can't, he describes to you in simple words what happens, he really emphasizes the sequel, but believe me, if sex doesn't work, nothing works and don't tell me nonsense when he turns 40 to 50, whatever it is, it will be the same, so from On the other hand, it is easy to talk and give reason, and we Bulgarians are specialists in giving reason, we can only do that, but since you have not experienced it on your own and you do not know what is better, write two meaningful lines than to vomit nonsense. at someone's address. And for you dear I will tell you one thing and I have repeated it to you several times how if you do not know what you want you expect a handful of strangers to tell you what to do a little is not serious the girl is right behave like a man at least once in your life and decide .
Do not get caught on the slide. The 30-958th post was written by 32.
38, nothing is written by 32 other than 32. It is noteworthy that comment 30 was written by the author, but hopefully she just used his computer. But it is also impressive that number 17, the so-called Iv. Ivanov, it was also written by the author ... So someone seems to have no choice but to pretend to be a screenwriter ... Kubrat
What do not take to prescribe here and the wife, and parents of all countries, and friends ... Funny thing
There is a lot of laughter in this topic.
the story is quite reminiscent of a rocker sleeping under bridges .... in such cases, it is a pity that we take it seriously .... ZARA 36
And now, three and a half years later, the whore (me) is a ridiculously abandoned wife with a two-year-old child from the great don Juan! May his "girlfriend" be alive and well, who, for her own good, will get rid of this creature! And people - life is a wheel! Now I am abandoned, but with a child, and Mr. "handsome" is on the hunt for new colleagues! The poor people ... I know what awaits them! God help them! Both to them and to the unfortunate children, who and others, like this "snail" "men", leave to grow up without a father! Amen!
43, you tried very hard, but we didn't believe you. You are a desperate middle-aged wife who regularly trolls here on such topics. Forget the amazing ones !!!!
I don't know if 43 is the colleague or not, but no one is insured against turning from a 'desirable mistress' to a 'desperate wife' and vice versa - from a 'desperate wife' for one man - into a 'desirable mistress' for another (I have whereas married women also cheat). So approach others with more understanding and compassion - it is not known who is waiting for what. Whoever thinks that 'this is how they like it' and 'such a thing cannot happen to me', should think again.
Just because you are nothing does not mean that we are all. Don't you dare try to dilute your guilt by classifying it as our gender. You are not a man, you were not. You're in a hurry, look for your tampons now.
I don't care who believes and doesn't! I finished the story that the minor started. As he was inadequate in his talk and actions here, so he was these three years. This is the situation
43 is a desperate wife who writes in all topics and is totally crazy about hatred and malice ....
Author, excuse me, but you are a pure example of how men do not think with their head, but with ****. I have a feeling that if you hadn't had better sex than usual after the quarrel with your partner, you would have run away with your colleague.
Author, you're not small, obviously, since you were in vitro in middle age? So, explain to me what profession a person has who writes: half-moon, influence, I feel, night, can't, not (merged), gather, breathe, turn off, brain, slipper, biggest, house ...! ?? Extreme, shocking illiteracy, and even some women get attached, others admire the "fascinating" statement "... The shock is complete, I don't know if everyone's brains are in the brains, but they are ... under any criticism ...