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Men Are Like Rubber Bands

By selena_reed August 06, 2020 14 answers Last updated August 06, 2020

Men, I don't want to sound insulting to you at all. I'm just wondering if you're all like that ... My friend looks up to me hard when he's having sex. Then he seems to lose interest and "alienates" for a while. We love each other and it's not just about sex, because we've been together for years. I feel sad and neglected during this time. I haven't asked him why he does that, and I don't think he'll give me a meaningful answer. Is this behavior normal for men? How do you treat your girlfriends?

Answers 14

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hal0x answered · August 06, 2020

   Of course, it is not normal, there is certainly another who cares more or wants to be with her, I tell you from personal experience, I even stopped calling the one I don't care about. Therefore, it is better for him that his relationships are not based solely on sex, but on something more ... I say about him because I come to the conclusion that your love is not mutual.

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trayner9 answered · August 06, 2020

   Yes, we are all like that. We only search when we are knocked. All men are the same, and all women do not know what they want.

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axl19 answered · August 06, 2020

   Abe, it's normal ... he just doesn't appreciate you the way you want, if your relationship isn't serious and you shouldn't have a problem.

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litle_brunette answered · August 06, 2020

   No, it's not normal. Are you tired of him, or is he interested in another ...

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cerisedodd answered · August 06, 2020

   I love my girlfriend very much, I didn't die for sex. I'm happy when I'm just with her :) And not all men are just looking for sex;)

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sofiamoritz2 answered · August 06, 2020

   He may want to be alone for a while if you are purring, dissatisfied, angry ... ask him because you women never have enough and you don't know what you want ... a fact, I sometimes want to lock myself in a room and to have only silence around me, I'm tired of constant whining about everything ... I don't know what I want, but I want it right away, female motto ...

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ocoan answered · August 07, 2020

   Bray, number 2, come on, don't put everyone under a common denominator. That you are, but it means that some do not appreciate real feelings, and do NOT use YOU just for sex. Why, when men want to go out with the excuse that they are men? !! Let's just not make excuses that we are women, that you will get sick.

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ann_mikele answered · August 07, 2020

   He didn't lose interest, he just ran out of money at some point. Calmly, if there is, he will look for you. :))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

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roberta82 answered · August 07, 2020

   № 7, number two, from whose speech you are so touchingly affected, did not put everyone under one denominator. He just obviously got mad at the author for the title and made fun of her. Because practically she has put all men under one denominator. Otherwise, where all men were the same - said a Chinese woman after losing her husband in the market and began to look for him in the crowd.

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scarlettaansquirts answered · August 08, 2020

   Number 8, you tell her about an open relationship based on sex, apparently it has not become clear to her yet, I hope she draws a conclusion from the comments above.

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lalu_west answered · August 08, 2020

   From 8 No, I just wrote the most likely, and you're obviously trying to convince me that I don't know what I'm writing. Does a woman have sex without money, huh? Or you will tell me that the urge shakes them.

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christian_star answered · August 08, 2020

   11 there are those who do it out of love, but to you this feeling as I look seems to you is not inherent

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maxnbella7 answered · August 09, 2020

   If he is in the period of love - from 6 months to a year, he will be constantly looking for you, because every moment with the beloved and without sex is warm and pleasant and the lack of the other is palpable. Ask yourself if there was any love on his part at all? If you are in a normal relationship of mutual love, you should not be sought only for sex, but for company, walks, time spent together, even when the love has subsided, then attachment remains, friendship. I don't think things are serious on his part and he will soon stop looking for you for sex. Go ahead and gain experience with others, you don't have to ossify with one person. Especially if it's not really worth it!

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gerd_y_emperatriz answered · August 09, 2020

   Unnatural? Rather funny, but justified by latitudes, otherwise the opinion of women on this topic, I shine faintly. ;)