My question is to men, but women can also express an opinion. Do men feel guilty for hurting a good woman? That they fucked up a relationship by lying, cheating? Do they sometimes remember and regret that they should not have done so?
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In my opinion, most do not regret, they usually come up with some reason, mostly untrue, to accuse the woman herself of inciting them to do so, and they make sacrifices. If they could appreciate the woman herself and feel some pure human sympathy, they would not be cheating in the first place. In my opinion, this is in most cases, there are probably people who realize that they made a mistake and did not do the right thing. I am a woman.
From personal experience - no, do not regret it. On the contrary, once they injure, they often try to destroy directly with even more misery. Such a bastard almost drove me to suicide. A complete psychopath. I hope, of course, that this is an isolated case and that most men are normal. Otherwise, I'm sorry when I hurt anyone. I am good-natured by nature, and whenever I hurt someone, willingly or unwillingly, I die from within. I think it's up to the person. If you're a nasty specimen and always put yourself first ... you can't regret for a second that you did something in your own interest, can you?
Depends on the person. But I don't think most of them regret it.
No. I'm sure they don't care, especially if they feel good about the life they lead.
Right in the top ten with this topic. I'm in the same situation, I ask myself the same questions. I sincerely hope that people regret their mistakes, regret that they hurt a good woman. Otherwise I would get lost. I'm sorry for a single person, in fact after him everything turned upside down, I think my fate brings him back. In this line of thought, I hope that those who hurt me, and in particular the last of them, will get what they deserve. I hope to become a shadow in a nightmare, to repent all my life, because he lost the only person who cared about him
Sometimes I regret it, but then I think about how women treat men en masse (especially those who really deserve good treatment) and it passes me by.
I am sorry that I have not hurt a woman even once so far, even though they have hurt me physically and mentally. But I will take revenge on the women one day with double force сила!
I'm not sorry, because I didn't have a reason.
№ 8- When you can't beat the donkey, you beat the saddle ... a folk saying. Get revenge on those who hurt you, if you can. But there's no way, because they don't care about you. And did they deserve any revenge at all, isn't their guilt just in your brain? If you didn't have the qualities to keep her, isn't it your own fault? And when someone is found to pay attention to you, will you return it to her? Very manly, nothing! With such tactics, you will repel her and eventually polish the cane of old age, as long as you do not have arthritis and Parkinson's.
Given how badly my last one hurt me, harassed me for two years, and finally, when he realized how things really were, he didn't ask an inch to move his finger and act with dignity, even though I kept his back all the time ... No , I don't think I'm sorry. And for all those who talk about how they do not regret, because they or others were hurt ... Everyone is for everyone. Probably one of mine did it for nothing, and I took it away. Now I can start giving it back to people who don't deserve it, for the actions of some idiots. But there is no. It won't help me, it will just make more innocent people unhappy and angry. Instead, I hope to find someone to whom I can give all the love and tenderness I carry within me, and he will appreciate them.
The title is logically misleading as the woman is not a proven human being and we still do not have a definition of what a man is, but the second sex (women) deserve to have all the bad that a man (man) can imagine. women are insensitive beings they cannot be hurt except physically
The question is not whether he is sorry or not, but why you hope he is sorry. He's just a man who came into your life and left. You're bandaged. Your ego that you fucked bites you from the inside. Otherwise ... really ... think about it ... are you really napping about it ??? And the fact that you have defined yourself as "good" does not speak well for you. Let's leave it to others to judge ...
Haha number 6, show how mean you women are if some young man didn't understand. Fate brought him back, he got angry back and forth and then wondered why he was suffering. What the woman did ...
1, the words end in J only in the SINGULAR!
I am one of the few who regret. I've had women who have been disgusting to me, but I don't want to think about them. Not to mention sorry for them. To be alive and healthy! There is! There are really good people still, and I'm sorry I pushed them away or hurt them!
Women don't feel sorry for us men, do they? I see no reason for us to feel sorry for them and feel any remorse. And they want equal rights with us, don't they? Right, let's be equal.
Yes!
NO, I'm not sorry at all. If she was very good, I wouldn't have to hurt her. I don't think of her at all. To be fine, being so cool, but without me. Another to appreciate the kindness with which he parades, I am a pass.
Number 19, are you serious? If she was good, wouldn't you have to hurt her? : D Do you realize that the very fact that you hurt her makes you a more or less bad person? You're just asserting what selfish creatures some men can be ... Hhaha, I'm still laughing at your answer, I'm not kidding ... It's good that the girl is already your ex.
доста размита и неясно поставена тема :-) Първо, какво означава "добра жена"? То всеки смята себе си за добър, и мъжете, и жените, рядко някой ще признае, че е гадина:-) Второ, много зависи с какво точно я е наранил. Ако ситуацията е била с различни разбирания, различни виждания, много ясно, че не съжалява. Тя съжалява ли, че не е била съгласна с него? Или пък ситуация от сорта: не е много готин, ма аз ще го променя. Когато види, че това не се получава, започва да страда, че я е наранил. А човекът просто е такъв, какъвто е, особено ако не е обещавал, че ще се променя. Е, за изневери и лъжи наистина всеки нормален човек би трябвало да съжалява, тук няма какво да се коментира. По принцип обаче хората съжаляват за хора, за които им пука или към които още имат някакви чувства. Така че ако добрата жена страда за мъж, който няма чувства към нея, по-добре да се откаже да мисли дали съжалява или не :-) Най-вероятно не се сеща за нея (да не кажа, че може да се сеща в стил: добре, че се отървах :-) Най-добре за добрата жена е да продължи напред и да си отваря очите при следващия мъж, за да не се чуди след няколко месеца дали той съжалява за нея или не.
Both men and women hurt sometimes, most unintentionally, others because they don't care a gram about the person ... What does it matter if they feel sorry or not if they do nothing to relieve the other person's pain? Good intentions without good actions are nothing. And it's best that no one hurts anyone, but that's impossible.
Number 14 we saw how vicious you are and men ... You are a similar copy of my ex, have you obviously confessed? One hundred percent you hurt undeservedly and you heard the same words or similar!
The man is a movie, not a satirical picture. He develops throughout his life, matures, acquires wisdom. Something that seems like a natural solution today, after 10 years, may seem like a gross mistake, and as long as one has a clear memory of the situation, one can learn from it, even 10 years late. Yes, you can meet a valuable partner BEFORE you are mature enough and ready to commit to one. But this is not a malicious mistake, and the reason is that you are simply not mature enough to take advantage of the situation. It's like an exceptional master winemaker coming to your vineyard, but if your grapes aren't ripe yet - well, they won't be able to make you good wine ... And when the grapes ripen well, the master may no longer be there. So leave that nonsense with the guilt test.
# 17, what equal rights, hurting someone is not a right, it's not even a privilege, it's just nonsense. Whether it's because they hurt you too, from complexes, because you're emotionally crippled, from malice, or whatever the root cause is, there's no excuse. Both men hurt and women hurt. Whoever goes first finds it, it's like with a hen and an egg. Until we stop giving it back to people who have contributed nothing to our unhappiness, things will continue in the same way.
A good man seldom mixes with scoundrels ... If he were good, he would be good. We live in a society where everyone thinks "right" and "good" and tramples on others. Really, what called - that's what called ... With these general questions to the "men" you do not know how transparent you are ... Get a good man (it is true that it is difficult nowadays, but not impossible), and would not you ask stupid questions ...
I'm sorry I went first, it was out of curiosity to do it later because everyone around me was doing it. But my life brought it back and it boomed like a double boomerang. Now we are together again but hurt. I'm really sorry. But life is painting without a rubbing rubber.
Number 23, I hurt 2 who like you pretend to be very good. And they loved to play, I just respected their decision and then they regretted it. I didn't really do anything and that drove them crazy. And you are transparent, like most complex females. Go eat and you will pass: D. Э
26, I, judging by myself, am of a different opinion. The better and more decent a person is, the more whores try to use him, hurt him, insult him and make him a rag. The pathetic truth. And on the site I notice ugly, double standards. When a woman complains about a man she is a "whore", "feminist", "dumb" and so on, and when a man complains about a woman, the same insults to women follow, and much more. The more you insult and spit on women, the more we turn against you. You do it yourself. When a sane one appears, the nonsense that he pretends to be a saint, moral, etc., begins. Well, some of us don't pretend, we're 100% like that, but we run with 300 "men" like the ones here.