My question is short. Who has the time and desire, please answer me. When you go out with a girl who attracts you and you intend to create a relationship with her, if you like her, would you be repulsed by the fact that she does not have many social contacts, a housewife is also a more family-type person, but at the same time can talk on any topic, not conservative, jealous, manic or something? Thanks!
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I don't think anyone, regardless of gender, would feel comfortable with such an antisocial person. Of course, the other extreme is not desirable, especially in a serious relationship. The golden mean is just for everyone to have personal space and activities outside the relationship, but at the expense of the relationship with the partner. IN
There is nothing better than that! When one relationship is built, all others are completely redundant! Because if I decide to go to a concert with the lady, and her company does not like folklore, classics or children's songs, then what are such people for me? It just doesn't make sense! They prefer to go to a foxhound, drool and laugh at some nonsense, instead of seeing and hearing something different! Yes, this is exactly the kind of girl I would look for - completely decent and correct! This is from me! M 36
I'm looking for such a girl, but I think it's hard to find these girls these days. I still believe that I will meet her someday.
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No, I'm more repulsed by those with too many friends.
Friends have nothing in common. What people don't like is when it's not self-sufficient. So ... if you don't have a life of your own, accept if you want a book, fucking tapestry knitting or whatever you can think of, which is done by one person ... then there's a problem. Because it's starting to require all your attention from you, and this ... is a disastrous thing. Well, friends don't matter ... self-sufficiency is! Brother.
That's what I want to find. I am a man of 25 years. Polar Bear
Of course, no one will (even) repel him. But if you are like that, be careful not to get caught up in some mega jealous and complex types, often aggressive, that people like you are looking for especially because they themselves have a hard time being among people, they feel insecure among people, insecure in your feelings when you communicate with other people and so on. It's not bad not to be very sociable, it's a personal choice, but as I told you - be very careful what you attract ... you say that you are not conservative, jealous, maniac, but such men are quite likely to attract. Be careful - do not be naive.
I am like that - at 28 I have 2 friends and some acquaintances. I last went out with them a month ago, under duress. I don't like to communicate very much with people, I avoid contacts and I prefer to stay alone or at home. If I see an acquaintance on the street, I try to hide so he doesn't talk to me. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years, he is just the opposite. Sometimes I wonder, but he didn't mention that I have a problem with being antisocial. It has often happened that I completely ignore his friends / acquaintances who shook my hand or greeted me, which is probably very rude, but I do not want to talk to anyone at all 90% of the time. Again, there was no problem, but even if there is - I do not care. With all this, I want to say that even with such a bad attitude on my part, he is still with me. So since you're not such a bad case and the boy isn't some desperate social bitch, I don't think there's any reason to worry. It is very important, of course, to be ok with your introversion, and not to compensate for the loneliness by suffocating your friend. This would mean that you are alone under duress, not at will, which is already a problem.
100% repulses me. Closed relationships are not for long at all. There will be an attachment that weighs on both. Looking at you and how you liken yourself to "I can talk about different topics", it's like you're a robot that has just been installed with new conversation software ....
Perhaps an indication, if she has no friends, that she may be unbearable. Keep this in mind.
And I'm antisocial, and social guys generally don't understand me. They decide that I have no life and I will take theirs. In one case, that doesn't suit them and they run away with 300. In the other, they want us to be together all the time, drawing my hobbies, friends, family, etc., and if I don't want to or can't "fit in", they suffer, they insult me and we part again. I still didn't know if I could have a relationship with a social man. I will follow the topic with interest.
This type of women are wonderful wives, donakini and friends! It would not repel me, it would rather attract me. ;)) M26
No, no problem for me.
In my opinion, such a person inevitably has a problem with commitment and trust and, accordingly, will not understand the need for personal space of the other.
7 - Polar bear, looking at the street how many bears there are, fat, 90-100 kilos with shorts or tight twigs, you will easily find the mezzanine.
I have a similar character, so it's not a problem for me.
Well, I'm just that type. My boyfriend and I have been together for several months and he told me at the beginning that he was looking for this type of girl. On the other hand, he is also like that. In this respect, we fit together perfectly. For the people above, just because I'm that type of person doesn't mean I'm antisocial. I just don't need a lot of people around me. I stick to the maxim, a little but quality and real. I just don't like huge companies, etc. There are, of course, people other than me who wouldn't understand me. One comment above was that such "suffocating" relationships have little future. Maybe it's for people who would not tolerate feeling "suffocated", but there are those who are looking for just that.
This is science fiction. Character similarities are possible at 70 percent. I say possible. This is just a thesis of scientists. Where will you find such a girl? Let's not forget that the rib is the only bone in the human skeleton that does not have a bone marrow. What do you expect from such a cocktail?
Honestly, I was dating a girl like that and everything was ok. Personally, I would not be repulsed, it is even better. It is a pity that it is on the other side of Bulgaria ..
I have an acquaintance who is totally blabbering and too communicative in my understanding, but this is normal - in Bulgaria everyone loves a little richer and more useful people, from whom and through whom you earn. This one in question has different friends, but what do they have in common - all the wealthy, some with scams, some with good government contracts, some just well-paid IT, and some are ordinary salesmen. Men are generally either closed geeks or plain mutters with jeeps in front of the panel. Women are generally ordinary housewives with interests, rounded in the pan and frozen in the freezer. Achievements - zero. Ambitions are zero. Possibilities - zero of infinity. After the topics for children, pans and pots are exhausted, the communication slowly disappears. We extrapolate to these two types a man who will always sympathize with the weaker, the poorer and less successful, such as 90% of the people in Bulgaria and 99% of the honest people in this country. This man still has ideals, he still dreams of something more, he still thinks he has to outdo himself, not just for himself. Find the 10 differences, as they say, to explain what exactly is wrong with communication.
They many or friends are generally up to date. Noisy big companies with a lot of friends fall apart at some point in people's lives because everyone gets in their way. There is a difference between being friends with someone and being an acquaintance to go out for a beer. It's not repulsive, but I recently had to beat a jester on one. And not for anything else, but because he expected everything to fit her. I try not to judge anyone anymore, because everyone is different, but I am annoyed by elementary people. If your friends have made their way in life, it's normal not to. But as I said recently, I had to get rid of one who slandered her friends for not adjusting to her - too simple ... such a person would treat me like that. I lost it directly.
It won't bother me at all that he has no friends. Shouldn't I marry her friends? I'm interested in her. Besides, if I have friends, what would it be like for me to have them myself? It won't bother me. I won't even care. You're cool and don't think that nonsense. Everyone will take you.
It may have been written by a man about his girlfriend or a woman describing herself. / "Looking at how you describe yourself ..." /
It depends on what the lack causes. If it's due to introversion or something, it's not a big pig. But if others avoid her because her behavior is toxic - no bueno, afuera.
The golden mean is best. Personally, I would look skeptically at a person who has no friends. But I don't think it bothers them all. Above, you were well advised to be careful not to get stuck in a freak that would make you an easy victim of obsession.
Hello, first I want to ask you what it means to tell someone a friend ... Nowadays there are no such people left to call your friends, but this is another topic for reflection ... How many sedentary people are looking for just that. .. In the morning (for me personally every two days it happens at 6:30 am) warm fragrant coffee, wearing the uniform nice kiss and gas at work then after a long and tiring day you open the door smells nice the woman is waiting for you talking etc. But unfortunately there are no more such faithful women radiating calm and at the same time freedom, pride, honesty, fidelity ... Now the women will tell me.