Hello! I am a young woman of almost 22 years and I am currently a student. I've never had a boyfriend since I was little, I'm a virgin and I don't even have my first kiss. The problem is that for 22 years I could not fall in love or even like a boy or a man. And I look good, I'm smart and I'm raised in a wonderful family, which I'm ashamed to deal with these problems. In general, the male sex does not seem to attract me either romantically or sexually. Many friends misunderstood me and offered me a relationship, but I kept cutting them off. We go out with friends, I have all women's interests, we go shopping, beautician, to choose make-up and nail polish, but when it comes to boys they notice everyone on the street from afar, stare at him, discuss him, call me see right, excite and by the time I find out what they're showing me, he's gone because I've been watching the bench, the woman, the dog, the child, but not the boy / man. Few men (Hollywood actors, or some very handsome and well-groomed and completely without beards, mustaches and hair) I like in the face and I go to curl up that I want them, but when I see them naked in shorts or swimsuits and I am very repulsed by the male body, trying to look at him sexually. Everything bothers me - from the muscles, through the chin, hair, chin, the fact that there are no breasts, but they are so flat and with different nipples than women, the lack of enough curves and tenderness, broad shoulders, high height, thick voice, rough lips, the penis, male manners, beer bellies, but also tight bellied bellies. On the other hand, many times I look at women, I am aroused by the female body, I liked a few, but bigger than me, at 25, 30, 40, 50. In the latter case it is much more serious, I also had feelings and for 3 years now I have not passed, as well as a very strong desire for sexual contact with the woman in question. She is single, but she tells me she can't imagine being with a woman, and I love her so much. She, like the others I liked, are all the same type, who are exactly hetero-beautiful, sexy, charming, coquettish, flirting with men and, accordingly, with zero chance. And I'm like that myself, I look very good, fine and attractive, with a sexy figure and beautiful, but obviously not heterosexual. I don't know what I am anymore, I'm almost convinced that I'm a lesbian and I wonder what will happen to my life? Will I live alone all my life, will I die a virgin, because I can't force myself to be with a man, and so I dreamed of a family and children as a child. And I can't be with a woman, because other lesbians are all kind of men, or hypersensitive and labile weak women at the other extreme. And I like women classic in the middle, style Julia Roberts, Kate Winslet, Jennifer Aniston, etc. There are hardly many like me, both to feel normal and feminine strong woman, and to like women ..
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You look a lot like me. I don't know what it is, but I'm older than you and I haven't had sex with a man, I have no desire. Being friends - yes, I can love too, but sex - no. I like men who are not in the typical notions with big muscles, super masculine, but on the contrary, I like physically weaker men, charming, emotional ... I am not a lesbian, nor do I like sexually any other new genders. I just accepted, I don't care about the lack of sex, I don't compare myself with others, no one can force me to have sex. Unfortunately, this is not understood by many men, but ... here arises the question "Is there a friendship between a man and a woman, if the woman is not ugly." My answer is in time, this is the thing that weighs on me that my friendship with men ended badly.
Clarification - if you still like women and think you are a lesbian, then try to be sure. I know I'm not because I've been with women. And reduce Instagram, because you have an unrealistic idea of people's vision. In fact, I think that may be the reason.
Well, guess what ... I'm just like you - a woman who also likes women like that. Yes, we rarely meet, but we are just like you (only when I was in my early teens) I was wondering how I would find love with these complex preferences of mine. But there are solutions, believe me. Everyone is different, so my advice is not to force yourself to be with a man unless you want to try. Follow your heart. Sexuality is a very relative thing, you don't know who you will fall in love with one day, but avoid it in women you know can't reciprocate so you don't suffer. Girl at 18
Ето, още един човек със страхотни предразсъдъци към хомосексуалното общество. После защо не ни приемали. Защото всички като теб си мислят, че всички хомосексуални жени сме дебели, с къси коси, неподдържани и едва ли не мъж не ни иска, затова сме станали "обратни". В тези общества съм от много време и както има пт едните, има и пт другите. Мойта компания е все от жени на 25-35г, страхотни жени, женствени, поддържани, умни, красиви, целенасочени. Аз самата получавам страшно внимание от мъжкия пол, но си падам по жени и половинките ми винаги са били "жени", в пълния смисъл на думата. Дори най- добрият ми приятел беше направил коментар за бившата ми приятелка, че той ако си хване такъв "модел" (така я беше нарекъл), щял да вдигне банкет. Никога н тръгвай с такова отношение, само това щенти кажа, защото наистина ще си останеш сама!
Wow ... if your story is true, a girl with a feminine look and a body that is completely attracted to women has just read your story. And think ... wow, it's like I wrote it ... really. It is a pity that we will hardly be able to exchange contact, but to know that you are not alone (as I am very happy). I am 23 years old and I always fall for completely straight women, most of them over 30 years old. And of course I have no chance ... I am attracted by the femininity in women, the beauty, the tenderness, the juicy lips and the curves on their bodies ... Unfortunately, most of the gay ladies look not feminine at all, which automatically repulses me. That's why I like to say: That's why I'm a lesbian, I like the female, if my only choice is butch lesbians, then I'd better do it with a man.
So when you start like that. I slept with literally 50 women and they were all normal looking girls and they were either les, not disoriented or aunts who wanted to experiment. Yes, there are males, but they are not the only ones, they just stand out. There's something called "gay radar," and it's obviously missing. And how much you just want to be a kind of "special" that you see your lesbian but "you look good" and everyone else looks bad. Well no. There are such lesbian girls, when the men see them, they wonder where to hide for a minute of manual labor. On the issue, you are a lesbian, but one of the cleanest. It will not change. Get used to the thought. And as long as you are aiming at the grandmothers, I don't understand how you can, instead of liking chicks at 20, 30, look for your Mayans in different grandmothers. Come on, that's enough.
If you are as beautiful and strong as you say, lesbians will take your toll. What are you worried about? Ask a little where they are and attack. Once upon a time there were swarms of pedals and lesbians in ID in Sofia, I have no idea if it still exists. Download Tinder and set him up to look for women. Brother.
Do not worry. You will not die alone or a virgin. Sooner or later you will find what you are looking for. I'm like you too. In a month I will be 20, and so far I have not had a boyfriend, nor a first kiss, nor have I had sex. Don't force yourself! You can't change your sexual preferences. I completely understand you. I know what it's like to understand that your preferences are different from most people's and the depressing feeling of how hard it will be for you to find a mate. Do not give up! Personally, if I do not find here the girl I dream of, I will leave the rotten Bulgaria and look for him in another country. That Boy
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So when you start like that. I slept with literally 50 women and they were all normal looking girls and they were either les, not disoriented or aunts who wanted to experiment. Yes, there are males, but they are not the only ones, they just stand out. There's something called "gay radar," and it's obviously missing. And how much you just want to be a kind of "special" that you see your lesbian but "you look good" and everyone else looks bad. Well no. There are such lesbian girls, when the men see them, they wonder where to hide for a minute of manual labor. On the issue, you are a lesbian, but one of the cleanest. It will not change. Get used to the thought. And as long as you are aiming at the grandmothers, I don't understand how you can, instead of liking chicks at 20, 30, look for your Mayans in different grandmothers. Come on, that's enough.
From the Author: Hello, number 5 !! And I'm just like that !! I thought the same thing, how some women are supposed to be lesbians, but are with some transsexuals who are straight men, then why aren't they straight with a normal man .. And I'm not attracted to such and if it won't be a sexy and feminine woman in the full sense of the word, I prefer to be alone and hope that a straight man I liked will fall in love with me or a prince on a white horse will appear to make me like him, than to be with a masculine, rude woman with male psyche and trans tendencies. Many women here have commented that I have prejudices about homosexuals, but all my homosexual acquaintances are like that - girls are straight boys, masculine, wear men's clothes, experience themselves as men, and gay boys are straight women, then women's clothes , then manicures and mascaras, surely the few male gays looking for a man also have our problem. Maybe if I'm feminine and attractive and "muffin" myself, and I like women, then there are others like me, but they must be one in a million like you. And even if I meet such a person, I still can't fall in love by force, there is no guarantee. And so I kept aiming straight, as if I was attracted to the fact that she liked men and it was hard to win her over. Last from 9th grade until now it keeps me the same and I became so attached that I will never be able to love another creature so much and be so attracted and fall in love. She is still much older, she was my teacher, she is not married and has no children, but she is over 40, but super well-groomed and beautiful and sexy, and so young. I got so carried away and attached that I told her and she told me she didn't like women sexually, and that's how she treated me, so sweet and flirtatious and coquettish, with such mixed signals, how can I not be deceived when she doesn't even have a friend of that age and says she's alone. To this day, I miss her a lot and I will try to contact her again. I feel her as a soulmate and my great and true love and I am not so cool and pleasant with anyone. It no longer matters that I have been a homosexual so far, I am no longer even able to approve and like and admit any woman after her. It doesn't matter homo, hetero or I would be. I am tired of unrequited love and I am learning to be self-sufficient, I am becoming more and more selfish. I think I'm asexual now. I hope that if I am left alone for the rest of my life, I will not be burdened and I will not regret it. Not to be lonely, but to be happy with myself. Just some companies and colleagues and relatives are enough for me. Having no shared love for me, but only disappointments and being so capricious and idealistic. I look so much like the woman I love - and she wants a soulmate, but she is so capricious and narcissistic and no creature is worthy of her and sits alone. Obviously, for me this will be the price, as I can't love anyone but her and I have become so superficial.
Yes, number 10 means when you start bragging to me like that, but things only happen in your heads. Outside, things are quite different, all lesbians look masculine, and some even look like boys. So what do they like? I have a lot of experience (well, not as much as yours) but when I see a beautiful and well-groomed woman dressed in typical women's clothes, I run away. Why? Because they can break your heart to dust. Either they cut and run because if you see that you like them, it's a kind of leprosy and contagion for them, or the other extreme - they tend to try, but after they get entangled in nets, they throw them out hurt and unbelieving in love. And I'm like the author, I don't look bad, I support myself, I don't seem to be on the other side, but I am. But here on the other shore the choice is very scarce, especially if you like the feminine in a woman ... Next to the author, I also gave my heart to someone bigger than me. And she crushed it and threw it away like a handkerchief. That is why I am standing alone now and I no longer believe that there is hope for us cursed women who like women in the full sense of the word; (
Well, how can I brag without introducing myself: e What will be the meaning then. A little dumb. Otherwise, you are right about beautiful women, that they broke us to pieces, but what. To be happy. I don't like those who look like boys either, but I'm obviously in the middle of time more than you and the author, and I keep telling you that not everyone is a man, and you still don't believe it. Well, the problem is not in me that you are obviously not open to new knowledge and foreign experiences. Live and see for yourself. Good luck and all the best
From the Author: Hello !! And so I am, I like exactly the feminine in the woman, the charm, the sex appeal, the women's sexy clothes, the beauty, the gentle voice and laughter, the long soft hair, the sculpted body, the nice bust and ass. I can't force myself to like a man or unattractive and unmaintained, nor a man. And there may be people like you and me, but there are really few. Massively, which I have seen among friends, at school and university, and in parades on television and on shows, they are all masculine. Maybe women are more covert or bisexual. But I don't like them anymore. And I'm so capricious: /. For so many years I did not like a man, only a few women and getting older than me and always top sexy and beautiful, probably straight and the last really as you put it made me fluffy. The front ones were just hobbies for a few months. And she hasn't passed me for 5 years and gives mixed signals and that's how she got under my skin. I want to get along with her so much, she is my type so much and I love and adore her so much and I am super cool and romantic with her and at the same time burning with a magical thrill and passion. I have not had this feeling with any man or other woman: /. A week ago, here in despair, I wrote again, specifically about this story, under the title "How should I act?" in the section on love and infidelity, but I did not receive any adequate advice and understanding, except criticism: /. You can read it, I probably should have written here again and you could advise me :(. But now, even at a fragile age, I am so tired and disappointed that for me and my whims there is no light and shared love and I have to reconcile with the fate of a single single single woman,
Number 18 shared please where do you find these sexy beauties with inclinations like ours? It's hardly in gay clubs because others predominate there ... otherwise, how do you know when you meet a nice woman on the street or on the beach that she also has such inclinations without running away as soon as we admit it?
Do you know what pansexuality is? For the women who said they had a trance, read on. Lisa