What do you think of a woman who loves to take care of? Not some babe - a boss who likes to command, nor someone with money to support her husband financially, nor someone who is obsessed and glued to her husband. I mean a woman who sees her husband's needs and loves, pays attention to him when necessary ... For example, to make him breakfast, to cook him a different dinner every night, not to refuse sex, to take care of him while he is ill, things that are still normal for me, but I have observations that seem to be rare. The address "sweetheart", as well as many hugs and kisses, incl. in public places, would they be weird to you? Watching movies together and reading books to each other? Talk, listen, share ... things that are more about the man's problems (I prefer to listen instead of talking about myself.) I think that my behavior is sometimes interpreted as childish or ankle-deep, but at least I don't want to be annoying. Where is the line between annoyance and care, for you men? I think that everything is up to the person and that the one who loves - does not feel bored by his partner, but ... after a while, I know, can such behavior of concern get bored? Keep in mind that I know when to let a person rest if he is tired.
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I dream of meeting and being with a woman with your views, character, attitude and principles. You are right that this is a rare phenomenon nowadays. I hope you don't change, because a lot of men like me look around and hope to meet someone like you. :) Stay the way you are, the person who meets you will be really lucky! M. 25
My girlfriend and I have been together for half a year now and she is exactly this type of girl. I have never been in a relationship with such a girl. We still don't live together, but when I'm with them or she is with us, she makes sure everything is fine, she cooks for me, cleans, meets my needs and always cares if I'm okay. When I was sick she brought me soups. We watch movies together and generally spend time together every day. In my opinion, such girls are really rare and unfortunately not everyone deserves such love as they give.
Imagine the same in exchanged roles. A man who takes care of you with such gestures as breakfast, coffee, conversations, hugs and kisses in public places, ringing, messages. If you have the same feelings for him, everything is fine and you will live in an idyll. You will not be annoyed by his affection, but he will make you happy. By the opposite logic, if you do not have the same feelings for him, this attitude will suffocate you a little and come to you more. You will begin to feel guilt, to accumulate tension in yourself that the man is behaving well, and if you see, you do not appreciate him. It is the same when a woman takes similar care of a man. If he loves her, he will appreciate her so highly that she will always be in his thoughts. If he has no feelings for her, he will try to increase the distance.
Imagine all this, permanently, not only in the love period, which lasts a maximum of 3 years. Imagine it when the children appear. My advice is to be very careful not to put a hedgehog in your pants. There are men who are infantile and are looking for just such a woman to take care of them because they are too lazy to look after them. They will not love you, but you will be very comfortable with them. He is especially wary of narcissists. You can read more on the internet. The narcissistic empath relationship is very common. If this is all part of your nature, and not just a way to express the butterflies in your belly to someone, then I think it is better to direct this maternal care and warmth that you have to the children. I think you will be a wonderful and much loved mother. Every child dreams of such a loving and devoted mother. Also consider the profession of nurse, there people also need such a caring and dedicated person. It is no coincidence that they were once called compassionate sisters. Don't you think that your husband should be your partner, strong and taking care of himself? Long grown up and one who is not looking for a mother, but a person equal to him?
Fantastic! The ratio is 1 to 1000. But good apples-pigs eat them.
I like her, she looks like a wonderful woman!
It seems a little too much. But, in principle, this is the type of woman that any normal man would look for. See what is already irritating depends on the person. For me personally, the constant hugs and kisses, especially in public places, and reading books to each other - everyone can read what excites him. For others, some other things can be annoying. But conversations and sharing are a must - with them you can understand what's coming to him more and try not to overdo it.