Hello, I tried to look for a similar topic, but I did not find it. Namely, men who do not like breasts or not to use the word "do not like" do not pay attention to them. I have never had big breasts, on the contrary, they are small, but I do not have a complex because of that. My body is pear-shaped and I compensate with a great ass, for which I have always received compliments. My first friend was crazy about my ass and he himself admitted to me that he just doesn't like breasts. But even if he didn't admit it, it was obvious, he just never paid attention to them. Yes, they are small, but it is not like they are completely gone. But he paid no attention to them at all. After I broke up with him, I was with other boys who more or less paid some attention to my chest. I recently have a new friend. We've had sex several times already and the same situation with my breasts, doesn't even touch them. I haven't talked to him about this yet, nor have I asked him about his preferences, but they don't exist for him. I exclude shame as a factor, there is no problem with it touching me elsewhere, etc., but nothing to them. And we are both big enough and experienced enough to be ashamed of something. The second option is for them to be so bad and so small that I have disgusted him to such an extent that he does not even want to touch them. And the last option is that he, like my first, just has no interest in breasts. I'm thinking of talking to him on this topic now, not that it's my complex or anything like that, I'm just curious. A question to the readers, are there any men among you who are not attracted to women's breasts and to the ladies, have you come across such men. And I would also be grateful for advice, whether to talk to my friend and what other reason there might be for not touching my chest, if you can think of one. Thank you :)
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Yes, I have your problems! Hahahahaha ...
I, for example ... Not that I don't like breasts, but somehow I have preferences for smaller ones. The gigantic forms in which men are supposed to go crazy act asexually on me. Most women I've been with have had small breasts. But just because I prefer more modest forms doesn't mean I don't pay proper attention to them during sexual play.
If they are super small - what to caress and touch? Ribs and skin, chest? And I do not like huge or sagging or artificial. I even prefer them to be small rather than huge or sagging skins or silicone artificial ones. I like to be something in between or between medium and small. Mandatory tight, and if they are like fox smirks and slightly "quarreled", that is, pointing slightly away from each other, this is a super bonus. Specifically for you, if you have a cool ass, it largely compensates for your small breasts, do not film yourself unnecessarily. And rejoice that you don't have huge sagging skin. Good luck.
Your breasts are not complex, that's why. you post a topic dedicated to them, in which, above all, you twice claim that you do not complex. As long as I don't hinder your relationship, don't bother with unnecessary questions.
All men like breasts. Notice where men look most often, in the chest, right? Well, no one said to have huge, but to be clear and tight. If they are small, what to touch? Is it air? The size of her breasts is somewhat genetically determined, but there are pads with pads, etc. You can tell your friend to pay attention to them because you like them and encourage them to do so. But don't think that you secretly don't want to be more gifted. Just tell him you're worried and encourage him to pay attention. Talk to God about each other!
I have had a similar experience before. I have small breasts and the first few boys / men didn't give them the attention I wanted. And I was ashamed to tell them I wanted to. Then things changed, with experience, with time, with self-confidence. I had a partner who liked them very much, the next time I just told him that I want to deal with them more, do it, and to this day ... My husband ... Well, he's great, everything was perfect since the first time. So just tell him. (before sex) Communication between partners is very important. You say to yourself what you like, what you don't like and that's ... It's not that complicated.
Men who love sex enjoy what they have. That is, if you have a cool ass, it is very clear that it will be a priority. If tomorrow the same man falls into bed with a babe with nice breasts, he will probably deal with them. Well, that's the beauty of diversity. In one - one, in another - another. That doesn't exactly like your breasts, doesn't mean they don't like breasts in general. Alpha, w. 30
I was the same, I didn't notice them at all and I didn't stick to them. But my penultimate friend had quite large natural breasts and the first time she undressed in front of me I must have stood for 1 minute and looked at them, they can't help but attract your attention. I had a lot of fun with them while we had sex and I often ended up with a penis between them. To be honest, I miss them a lot now. Otherwise, there are many more important things for a relationship. For butts, I like smaller in size, I don't like big ones. Male of 24
If, as you say, "it's not like they don't exist completely", everything is ok. Because it really can be "completely gone". Now that you remind me, I had a girlfriend many years ago with the figure of an anorexic. And she really didn't have any. There were only grains. And I almost didn't touch them (it didn't matter). But we had enough sex. Otherwise, my wife is now still small, but proportionate. She is thin, short and with a small ass. And I touch them all the time. At any time through clothes, even without thinking about sex at all. I just enjoy it. It doesn't matter how big they are, they should fit your figure well. Otherwise very large is also not nice.
I like medium-sized breasts. Ie not to be too small - the woman to be flat as a board, but also not to be super big. I have seen women who have such large breasts that they are even hunched over by their weight. And it's not beautiful in my opinion. I like medium in size, but well-shaped, ideally - type of fox muzzles. :) But in general, I'm more attracted to the buttocks. I also like not very small (of course - not very large), but well-shaped and tight. But everything is individual - for example, the last woman I was in love with had a big ass and big breasts, both not very well shaped and slightly relaxed. But he had many beautiful features. Apparently I saw / felt something else in her that attracted me.
There is no man who does not like breasts, but it depends on what the breasts are. I don't like huge, even natural, breasts or sagging breasts. I like breasts of medium size and protruding defiantly. A long time ago I had a friend with really small breasts, but she didn't care at all about this fact, but she compensated for this "flaw" with a great sexy body and a beautiful and narrow vagina. And she maintained exceptional intimate hygiene. Well, what man would not be happy with such a girl. I licked her clit as much as she wanted, and she gave me blowjobs in position 69, and then we had divine sex with a great and simultaneous orgasm for both of us. It was a great experience. After her, I have not had such sex with any other woman.
9 out of 10 men like tits and the tenth likes the first 9. It's the same as height for men - all women like tall men, the question is how important this is to them and how much they are willing to compromise for other qualities, but the truth is that no woman would specifically like a man's short stature.
I can add that I have a big natural bust and my husband has never been attracted to it. We talked and he says he likes them a lot, but let's just say he likes a lot more other things. For comparison, my ex adored them, I think it's next to the man.
I just hate big tits! And to know that silicone is for watching and not for squeezing, aboriginal ones.
As a man, I can say this: I love a woman's breasts to be big and natural. But I emphasize BIG and not HUGE, because if they are too huge - then it is repulsive (at least for me). The perfect breast size for me is Samantha Jay - google images of Samantha Jay naked - and you will find out what breasts I am talking about. Anything bigger than hers will be ugly
I'll tell you Freudian. Men love women as their mothers were. Mine did not breastfeed me, she had swelling. And her breasts were small. I have NEVER been impressed by my breasts. Let's say I like their shape from an aesthetic point of view, but also the last priority. Not only do I not notice their size, but everything bigger than a B cup disgusts me, as someone said here. I pay attention to them if they are the erogenous zone of the woman. For example, my last boyfriend and I didn't get along in bed at all. I wanted to crush her ass all night long, while she went crazy just by looking at her breasts. I "had to" crush them every time I wanted to arouse her. Well, that's exactly what "should" have been and basically to part. As long as you get into the molds of fashion from porn movies. Men are fetishists. Everyone has a specific weakness, mine are the butts, for example. The fact is that many men like big breasts because of breastfeeding by their mothers (Freud). But there are men who look at the fingers. Other lips, third legs, fourth are aroused by the freshness of the skin, etc.
There are no such men! Some like big zombies, others - medium or small but well-shaped, but there are no ones who are not excited about the female breast! I can be aroused by a woman with huge or large breasts, but I can also be aroused by a woman with medium or small, the important thing is that I like the woman as a whole, that I feel wanted!
20, well, I don't care, brother, how can I tell you. As long as you knew all the men, please! For the record, I know MANY others like me, unlike you.
Well, these people have generally explained it to you ... Men are not particularly interested in women's breasts, if their size is in the range from cup A to cup B. I guess that's exactly your size, and that's where all your torment comes from. What some write that small breasts seem more aesthetic to them is simply not true. They are aesthetic, but if they are not even touched, what does it mean for the woman who has the bust? How does she appreciate this covert aestheticism? The truth is that men start to be interested in breasts when they are from cup B upwards. As already written, the height and proportions of the body of the girl are essential. If the girl is tall (say 175 cm), well built and beautiful, won't her breasts go with a cup C or D? Rhetorical question. The opposite effect will be in a short girl with short legs, but with a huge bust that reached her navel (I knew one). I think it's naughty when a girl has a bony body, because in intimate contact the feeling is not the best possible. I like chubby girls and those with a normal physique. And by rounded, I don't mean thick! I also like women with bigger breasts, but they are not the leaders in my choice of woman. It probably matters whether the man was breastfed as a child and what breasts the nursing mother had. But in general, there is hardly a man who does not like the appearance of a natural bust cup C or D, a girl with a mannequin look. However, such women are rare in our daily lives, so men say they do not like big breasts. When you say "big breasts", the huge and almost to the ground bust of Aunt Penka from the block probably comes to mind. They probably think of many other fat women with big tits they know. Most of them are like that ... That's why men claim that the big bust disgusts them. Some men are complexed by more gifted women, and I think that's one of the reasons for the a lot of gossip about these ladies. Apparently they have problems with some other size. I also like the feeling of hugging a woman with a big natural bust. Feel her breasts and nipples as they rub against your body. The feeling is unique, even if the woman is wearing clothes on her body. I would say that it is much harder for me to get aroused than a woman with small breasts and a small ass. I like gorgeous women and that's it! Of course, everything is quite relative (as Einstein says). If I like the girl herself in her entirety, nothing else will matter.
Personally, I know men who look much more at the buttocks than at the breasts. I asked close friends, just out of curiosity, and otherwise I had intimate friends and boyfriends who also admitted it to me. In my case, I have natural breasts, medium in size, with beautiful nipples, rounded and slightly raised. Several boyfriends have told me that my breasts are great and very beautiful. But others have never paid much attention to them, unlike my ass, which is always pinched and stared. So I come to the conclusion that apparently most men look first at the buttocks and hips, and then the breasts (if they are interested at all). C