Hello, I am 35 years old and I am terrified that I may enter premenopause. Last year I had daggers in my heart and palpitations, I went to a cardiologist and an endocrinologist - they said I was fine. In addition, it was very difficult for me to become sexually aroused (there is a desire), and I do not get wet as before. About two months ago, my breasts suddenly softened (without giving birth or losing weight). And as a drip, my skin became quite dry, and before it was oily. I am going to go to a gynecologist and endocrinologist soon, because I know that I need an examination and tests, but just thinking about what they will tell me makes me cry. There is simply nothing else. From this fear I started to make panic attacks, I lost about 5 kilograms a month due to stress. I read on the internet that early menopause doubles the risk of many diseases, especially cardiovascular. Not to mention the other extras and I'm most afraid of premature aging. I just can't accept that in a few years I will look 50+. The only option is to drink hormones, but this is very risky because it increases the risk of breast and cervical cancer. I don't know what to think anymore, I'm terribly scared - I'm sitting and shaking and I can't calm down. Please, if any lady has or has had a similar problem, write how she coped, because I am really facing a nervous breakdown. Thanks in advance! I'm terribly scared - I'm sitting and shivering and I can't calm down. Please, if any lady has or has had a similar problem, write how she coped, because I am really facing a nervous breakdown. Thanks in advance! I'm terribly scared - I'm sitting and shivering and I can't calm down. Please, if any lady has or has had a similar problem, write how she coped, because I am really facing a nervous breakdown. Thanks in advance!
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Forced after a hysterectomy, I was menopausal at the age of 38. They removed the uterus and ovaries. I saved 4 eggs. I have a daughter. I drink hormones and feel good, with sex lubricants, everyone uses. I buy quality cosmetics, I go to the gym, I'm not neglected. I look better than my peers, I have no health problems. I have regular sex, more relaxed, I don't care about getting pregnant. There is nothing to worry about in advance, early menopause can stop. The doctor you need is a gynecologist-endocrinologist.
Without going for an examination, you have been diagnosed, you are sitting and trembling and you have panic attacks? !! Stupid woman! These can be symptoms of other conditions, not to mention diseases. I advise you to ask about the thyroid gland. In general, all kinds of changes take place in the human body. You are not a stone to stand in the same way.
Accept your destiny. For some women, menopause comes early and for others it comes very late. I knew a 35-year-old woman and her menses were over. And another woman was 58 and still had a regular cycle. The 58-year-old first received a menses at the age of 19. It's all genetics and God's work. Some women never have menses because they are born without a uterus. Unbelievable, but there are such women, although one in 1-2 million.
You really panicked. Don't worry, the gynecologist and the endocrinologist are the doctors who will help you. I can't believe you are entering menopause, you probably have hormonal problems, even because of them you can be so stressed (hormones affect not only the body, the psyche, emotions and the way of thinking). If you have to drink hormones, don't worry, yes, they increase the risk of breast cancer, but they reduce the risk of ovarian cancer, and you will feel much better. Even menopause is delayed by hormones. If you are worried about breast cancer and cervical cancer, just go to the gynecologist and mammologist regularly - once a year and this is sufficient prevention. I've been on hormones for 12 years and I'm extra. Drive more calmly until it's time for the examinations.
Heh, grit your teeth for 1-2 years, and then by 50-55 it will be gone ... it's like the world! In every situation look for the positive!
It doesn't have to be menopause, you've instilled something without a doctor seeing you. Try to calm down and repeat to yourself that it may be something else, something hormonal or emotional. Sometimes there are no signs, a friend of 39 found out that when she was 35 the process started, she did not feel anything. This is a process and the onset is only noticed by a doctor. So don't panic with diagnoses on your own, breathe deeply
I think you have a thyroid problem. Be sure to check it out, at least that's what your symptoms say.
Haha darling, calm down and breathe! I don't think you're going into menopause! I had similar symptoms, I just needed vitamins and minerals, nothing more. Start eating healthy, get the vitamins your body needs. Now the doctors will invent a disease for you to tie you up as a regular client, and you will panic that you will even believe them and from self-suggestion you will really get sick. Buy natural onagra oil (pearls, see benefits) B vitamins complex and zinc (with sweating we throw away zinc, but we need it). Eat useful sesame seeds (magnesium, calcium) flaxseed oil (the richest in omega). Externally, also take care of skin, muscles and tone in general - natural oils for the skin (coconut, argan, aloe vera - you can make a mixture of the three for homemade cream / lotion) a little sport. Go out in nature for long walks. I was a "kekavo" sick girl, less than a year later, her kidneys, her bronchitis, and as I mentioned, similar to your symptoms. Well, they tried to "make me sick" of a terrible disease. I'm tired of being forced to get sick, even if I pay for it. I stopped going to the doctors and started taking care of my own health. After about a year, I may have been free of the chemicals I was being pushed into, romantically called "drugs." On the second I was already completely healthy, like a "bull". Now, 13-14 years later, I can say that not once in those years did I get sick (a small cold treated with home-made antibiotics such as "honey-garlic-lemon"). Take care of yourself! like a "bull." Now, 13-14 years later, I can say that not once in those years did I get sick (a small cold treated with home-made antibiotics such as "honey-garlic-lemon"). Take care of yourself! like a "bull." Now, 13-14 years later, I can say that not once in those years did I get sick (a small cold treated with home-made antibiotics such as "honey-garlic-lemon"). Take care of yourself!
Amy, you're old and the cells in your ovaries are dying. Normal. Don't listen to those who gave birth at the age of 40. First, they give birth to disabled children and second, they do it in vitro.
I will not comment on your actual behavior and reasoning. I think you have hypochondria. There are women under 30, unfortunately, with depleted ovarian reserve. You're 35 filmed from everywhere. Get your life in order and if you want a child, don't wait until you're 40. Because it's not easy and it's not so widespread. For as long as I can remember, we use lubricants during sex, maybe without them, but there are times when they are necessary. The vagina is affected by hormones, day of the month ..... ovulation. Read and find out. I think the reason for you is delusion, misunderstanding, not knowing where to take and other fears ..
From the author: Thank you very much to all who responded. Question number 1 and number 4 - can you give me more information about the hormones you take? How long can they be drunk and do they have side effects?
What menopause? !! What you describe is pure STRESS! I am 36 and I went your way, nervousness, insomnia, dry skin, etc. I was unhappy and scared, I finally tightened up, got divorced, took my life in my hands and now at 36 I am healthier, happier and more loved than I was at 30. So I think it's all in your head. Relax, stop suggesting that you are sick and that you are getting old and you will see how suddenly everything will be fine. If the doctors have told you that you have nothing, then your problem is not physical, but emotional. Well, his decision is up to you. Will you shut yourself up, imagine that you are menopausal, that you are getting old, etc., or will you buy a new dress, fix your hair and come out of you with a proud head held high and with the confidence that you are a woman? in the prime of your life ... you decide! I chose the latter and now I feel and look much better than a few years ago. My nerves relaxed, I sleep well again, my cycle is back to normal ... is it menopause? Nonsense! I have at least 10 years before I even start thinking about it!
I'm # 1. I have no side effects. In the beginning, they gave me injections every month. Then I took pills, now I'm on hormonal leaflets, they are put on the palate, they melt, the taste is mint. The doctor decides what hormones, what dosage and method of administration. I repeat, the specialist is a gynecologist-endocrinologist. I live in Sofia and found it in the Mother's Home. I went to Dr. Kolarov, Dr. Valentin Lachev. I am already 65 and I am normal in terms of weight, indicators, I have no damage from hormone therapy. I got increased facial hair before the operation, I removed it with a laser, now I am on a hair mask, there are almost no leftovers and they are white in 10 days. Greetings and good luck. Don't be afraid, go to the doctor.
Hi, I'm on hormones for polycystic ovaries. I drink contraceptives and I feel very well. Except that my chest hurt a little and for the first month I had bleeding that lasted 1 month. ~ Snow lady ~