My story will be quite long, so I appreciate everyone who has read it to the end. In fact, this is 1 letter I haven't given yet and I want to share it here first so I know that at least someone knows my story and how I feel. Why are you torturing everyone? Why do you make them suffer? Maybe you want them to experience what you are experiencing or you are just trying to make someone more unhappy than you so that you know that you are not the most unhappy and pathetic person in the world. There is no way to get it! Think carefully about how far you must have come, how much damage you have done, how mean and evil you have been to read something like this written by your child. This is nowhere to be found! Apparently you are trying to kill complexes from the past and present yourself as someone dominant over the others, that you are the greatest and most knowledgeable of all. Why do you need this attitude towards us? How did we deserve it? By watching and feeding you for years or by trying to behave normally with you until you make it impossible? You must have already said or thought about your "millions" with whom you watched us, with the apartments you leave us, etc.
Good! You're right, but that's in the past. People do not live in the past, they do not eat in the past, they do not pay bills in the past, they live in the present, which is here and now. In your opinion, everything you did, the "thousands of money" you spent, was so much that now you have to have everything ready. Yes but no! Don't make excuses that you can't find a job, because it's not normal for a person not to be able to find a job for so many years, if he wants to. The thing is, you don't have one. All people are designed to be comfortable and it's obvious to you, so why would you want to go to work? We have a * (mom) who will go all day to clean. She will bring you cigarettes and alcohol every day, you will be able to eat and live well. Normal people, or rather normal parents, put their children first, but you look at cigarettes and alcohol first. For most of the time, you only think about whether you will have cigarettes today or why * (mom) didn't bring them to you. I don't know, maybe because she will think first about her children, whether they have something to eat today, whether they have something to go to school with. All you do is inflict mental harassment on all of us. You try to drive us crazy (and quite successfully), to always blame us, and you always do it. No, you're not! You're probably wondering why we treat you like that. How do you want us to behave when there is a scandal, shouting, insulting every day, you can even drive a person crazy and you do. Your slight hints that we are doing something wrong, your staring sly looks, your mean arrogant attitude and your infinitely pessimistic attitude ...
Why * (my sister) behaves like that with you? It is not normal for a father to tell his child how his mother will not go home, how she was the lowest whore and that she is to blame for everything and that the child stands and agrees with insults for someone who raised him with so much love. and care, always putting it first. How would you behave if your father said these things about your mother? If you don't know, you can ask (my sister) and leave me, because I'm smart enough not to get attached to you in abnormal scenes and psychic attacks, of which (my sister) is too young and does not know how to ignore. Why don't you think about what you did alone and not with the help of your parents? What did you do to be able to speak like a self-determined boss? Everything you have achieved is thanks to them. You managed to buy a house and sell it, you managed to buy a pub and sell it, you managed to buy thousands of things that I probably haven't even heard of, and you probably sold them too. Your great self-esteem is unfounded in vain. What gives you the right to mentally harass us all?
How did we deserve it, I ask again? Your own ideal and morality is so limited that you don't even have one. You are deprived of any missions or plans in life, no restraints or responsibilities. How do you expect someone to love, appreciate or even tolerate you when you don't deserve it. Have you ever wondered how long you expect this same story to continue? Is this story over and will it be tragic? If so, think about what the tragic end will be. Everyone aims to leave something behind after they die. What will you remember besides the material? I don't think anyone wants to die unloved, but apparently you went there. You are not holy water and you have no right to look for faults in others. One chooses what one wants to be and what others think of him as! One is responsible for one's own actions and must be prepared to bear the consequences. Only you are to blame for what you have become now - selfish, impudent, arrogant, conceited, unhappy, pessimistic alcoholic. Each of these words defines you, and even if you deny it, deep down you know it's true. Judge me for this, that I protect my mother and what I call family. I don't mind and anything you say against me won't change anything.
Don't make excuses that you can't show your love because you did it for me, but unfortunately (my sister) won't experience the same thing I once felt for you. I loved you, and what I feel now cannot be described in words. I don't know what has changed, but you are not the same person you used to be. Your countless attempts at change never run out and you always expect to be forgiven, but each time it gets harder and harder. I wish you to find the right path in life and not too late to realize your mistakes, because everyone will hate you and die in the most cruel way for a person - alone. Don't make excuses that you can't show your love because you did it for me, but unfortunately (my sister) won't experience the same thing I once felt for you. I loved you, and what I feel now cannot be described in words. I don't know what has changed, but you are not the same person you used to be. Your countless attempts at change never run out and you always expect to be forgiven, but each time it gets harder and harder. I wish you to find the right path in life and not too late to realize your mistakes, because everyone will hate you and die in the cruelest way for a person - alone.
Don't make excuses that you can't show your love because you did it for me, but unfortunately (my sister) won't experience the same thing I once felt for you. I loved you, and what I feel now cannot be described in words. I don't know what has changed, but you are not the same person you used to be. Your countless attempts at change never run out and you expect to always be forgiven, but each time it gets harder and harder. I wish you to find the right path in life and not too late to realize your mistakes, because everyone will hate you and die in the most cruel way for a person - alone. I don't know what has changed, but you are not the same person you used to be. Your countless attempts at change never run out and you always expect to be forgiven, but each time it gets harder and harder. I wish you to find the right path in life and not too late to realize your mistakes, because everyone will hate you and die in the most cruel way for a person - alone. I don't know what has changed, but you are not the same person you used to be. Your countless attempts at change never run out and you always expect to be forgiven, but each time it gets harder and harder. I wish you to find the right path in life and not be too late to realize your mistakes, because everyone will hate you and die in the most cruel way for a person - alone.
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And for me such is the life of the author. He is exactly the same parent as yours. This so-called parent of mine is vicious and greedy. He never cared if I had money. Even over the years, I gave of myself. I couldn't buy anything worthwhile in my life. And people talk as if something depends on me. Even if I'm guilty of all sorts of things made up by them. They are petty insensitive. I can not work. Maybe some of them envy me. Forget about it author. You and I should have had a happy childhood. It cannot just be taken by man. With such feelings, what kind of love is in question. For what unrealistic giving.
And do you tolerate the apartment because of it? Why don't you all just leave like that? If he knows he's keeping you in a "towel" with the damn home, he won't change. It is always better to have a terrible ending than a horror without an ending!
I am interested in how old are the Author and number 1? I can bet over 20. And what did you do to have the right to criticize your fathers? How many bills did you pay and how many homes will you leave to your children? It's just MASSIVE young men in our country, but ankle-deep from mother to hole and not accidentally 20% (every FIFTH WOMAN) of women are ready to give birth without a man - well, what is such a roaring baby for me. And instead of tightening up, taking the bread in your hands and living on your own, you roar like little babies, simply because the parental body has stopped feeding you at some point. It's time for someone to tell you - LIGLYOVTSI. There is real suffering, hunger, FIGHT and harassment outside, and our people are angry that their fathers have, but do not give them more than one "past" apartment .. CORRECT. They want YOU to do something with your life, as long as you're ready. In general, I even wonder why it is so easy for parents and apartments to leave such "children". After 18-19 years, everyone should know their way and in the old days you sell the apartments, pay the spectators and travel around the world. Everyone is so free - both the young to live their lives and the old to live their own, and such sons as the Author we will simply weed out women (natural selection), because they do not deserve and CANNOT be fathers, but started blaming their-
At 28, I'm number 3. I know what it's like to have no money over the years. You obviously don't know what that means. My so-called father knows how to take several loans. As I wrote, I can't work. I have disabilities. Are you happy. I don't feel like living every day. My mother came to a village from Blagoevgrad. And want an apartment. As with the author, my parent sold his apartment. But when you don't understand how things are, that's how it is. And what kind of person are you n 3.
Yes, in fact, who can handle 18, the one who is a computer scientist. Well, we're not all like that. I graduated and worked for 500 leva.
I fully support №3 and I want to tell №4 that she is not right to think that once she has a health problem, her parents are indebted to her for the rest of her life. Despite the health problem, you are an adult, if your body is sick, it seems your brain is fine and you can work with it. If everything in you was sick, you would not be able to write to us, and there are state homes for such people. Up to №5! in fact, everyone should be able to recover at the age of 18-19. Your parents have not received a salary of more than BGN 500 all their lives, even in most cases much less, and yet they have bought a home and raised children. Personally, I am over 10 years older than you and I can tell you that the last 5 years are the easiest to exist in Bulgaria compared to the last 35 years, I agree that it can be easier in Europe and maybe people their life is better, but in Bulgaria, this is the reality. Please indicate easier years if any. And I am a person with a relatively low education and a low salary for the country, that is, I do not have a university degree, I did not have the financial opportunity for a university degree, because when it was time to study, the crisis in the country was, I can not describe. I finished 1996, read for yourself about those years, there is information on the Internet, then I created a family of children, other responsibilities came, etc. And to your surprise, today I almost managed to buy an apartment, there is still a little to pay, I have children for them take care as much as I can, I hope they are not as dissatisfied as you. However, reading the author's outpouring, I wondered what this father had done wrong to deserve such a letter. And I answered, he was wrong in raising his children. He didn't wean them off in time, and they still want to "tickle ready" because life outside is hard. What insolence it is to say to your father these words, "By looking at you and feeding you for years," even if it is true, even if the father is ill and you have to spoon feed him, these words he again he does not deserve them, because he is in the first place a father who not only created you, but also remained and took care of you, and is still with you, unlike many other so-called fathers. It is normal in a person's life for a person to feel confused at some point, to say things that are incompatible with morality in his anger, but there is forgiveness for every mistake. And if your mother has decided to stay with her husband, who calls her that, it's her job, so she's appreciated it differently from you. And you author as an adult, your right path, no one can force you to stay in your father's house, as long as you are more moral, more industrious, easier to find a job, and I no longer know if you are the best, prove to your father that you are more worthy than him and achieve more of it in your life alone. Strive, buy a home, start a family, feed children and I wish you never receive such a letter from your grown son. In the end, reading the text, I again did not find precisely described offenses in the father, except that he is currently unemployed, like many Bulgarians, that he smokes, like many Bulgarians and that he insults his wife, which is typical of many Bulgarians. feed children and I wish you never receive such a letter from your grown son. In the end, reading the text, I again did not find precisely described offenses in the father, except that he is currently unemployed, like many Bulgarians, that he smokes, like many Bulgarians and that he insults his wife, which is typical of many Bulgarians. feed children and I wish you never receive such a letter from your grown son. In the end, reading the text, I again did not find precisely described offenses in the father, except that he is currently unemployed, like many Bulgarians, that he smokes, like many Bulgarians and that he insults his wife, which is typical of many Bulgarians.
It's me again n 1. I'll write you some more things n 3. Why don't you leave your children without an apartment. But you were a woman. At first I didn't pay attention to that. I don't like women like you. I am a woman too, but there is no reason for you to like such women. I've seen one like you. A 44-year-old woman and I listen to her talk about her parents being moms and dads. And don't think she's talking about her daughter, for example. But you can also be the girl of mom and dad, but otherwise you know a lot. Such are the moralists like you. One can claim more than life. What interests you. And a man I can want. And everything else. But if I had a husband, I would even let him cheat on me. I am liberal unlike you. Now you can get caught up in that too. Are you angry? Such moralists speak right behind my back and even in a person's face. I will write you the lyrics of a song. What I will write to you suits you very well. Give me insults black suits me. Every comment from you makes me happy. Everything you say speaks for you. To swallow it, drink some water from me. If you read my comment, I hope you still don't write to me. What do you care what I am or the author. I was beaten by my relative. And you write that I don't know what a fight is. The same thug I wrote about said that my fight was small. If you really want to watch seiri and love harassment, go to a disco, fight with a man and you will see a fight. But it will be a fight for you. Otherwise you watch your happiness and others suffer. If you read my comment, I hope you still don't write to me. What do you care what I am or the author. I was beaten by my relative. And you write that I don't know what a fight is. The same thug I wrote about said that my fight was small. If you really want to watch seiri and love harassment, go to a disco, fight with a man and you will see a fight. But it will be a fight for you. Otherwise you look at your happiness and others suffer. If you read my comment, I hope you still don't write to me. What do you care what I am or the author. I was beaten by my relative. And you write that I don't know what a fight is. The same thug I wrote about said that my fight was small. If you really want to watch seiri and love harassment, go to a disco, fight with a man and you will see a fight. But it will be a fight for you. Otherwise you look at your happiness and others suffer.
The author to number 3 - I'm 16, and if I were an adult I would have moved out a long time ago.
I had a wonderful father, his light finger! I owe to him everything I AM today, not what I HAVE today. I hope, author, that you understand the difference. In my opinion, the parent is obliged to: ensure a peaceful childhood for his child; to take care of his physical and mental development as he grows; to teach him the basic values of life; to maintain a healthy emotional environment at home; to support his education to the best of his ability and to provide him with moral support in his decisions. This exhausts his duties. After the son or daughter comes of age, the relationship with the parents is like between close adults - ie friendly, based on voluntary agreements, not obligations. The parent - again in my opinion - is NOT OBLIGED to: provide the future home of his adult child; to make educational choices instead, spouse and residence; to have any material responsibilities to his future family, including grandchildren; to engage in financial obligations of his or her adult child, such as loans and alimony; to sacrifice his personal time to solve personal problems that do not concern him directly. I think so.
I read the comments here, and I just can't believe it! A child pours out the sadness of his failed and unhappy childhood, and so pounce on him! What apartments, what infidelities! The boy is 16 and his sister is even younger. Their childhood was robbed by an alcoholic father who did not work, raised scandals every day and insulted their mother and them. Don't you think this is easily tolerated by children? There must be smiles, holidays, laughter, joy and happiness in a family for children to grow up peacefully. That's not it. There is no money for food, and the mother is forced to choose whether to buy food or cigarettes and alcohol. And H6 sees no guilt here at all. The father has mutilated his children spiritually, but as you can see, most of them were Bulgarians, so there was no problem. Disgrace! And stop repeating that the father was not obliged. On the contrary, he is obliged, and by law, to support his children until adulthood! To take care of them, to protect them, to observe good manners and morals! Where do you see morality in a man who calls a mother a whore in front of her children? This family is just sick, and since there is no chance of it getting better, I would just advise the author to somehow grit his teeth until adulthood, and then run away from them. He will somehow manage financially. The mother also does not have the resources to cope as a parent, because a good mother would not let anyone behave in this way with the child, or even their own father. But that's another matter. to somehow grit his teeth until adulthood, and then run away from them. He will somehow manage financially. The mother also does not have the resources to cope as a parent, because a good mother would not let anyone behave in this way with the child, or even their own father. But that's another matter. to somehow grit his teeth until adulthood, and then run away from them. He will somehow manage financially. The mother also does not have the resources to cope as a parent, because a good mother would not let anyone behave in this way with the child, or even their own father. But that's another matter.