Does it annoy you when your husband / boyfriend / lover sometimes talks (usually in male company) about you as "mine" And in general, what is your opinion about this?
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My husband does not use such words for me (at least not in my presence), but I have always been impressed and uncomfortable when a man speaks like that about his girlfriend (wife). They hardly do it on purpose. Habit, maybe. I don't believe they have a sense of ownership or disrespect for their spouses. My father always says "the woman this, the woman that ..." It's also not pleasant, but once my mother is used to it and accepts it, there is no point in making dramas. If someone has claims for this, it is right to make them in the first such cases, before the habit is created.
What so much and I talk so about my beloved, I feel him as closer .. if you are annoyed tell him to stop: / the question is principled
... Sense of ownership ...: D
I DON'T BEAR HIM
No, not at all. I'm even pleased :) And I call him "mine" sometimes
Yes ... my friend also uses the term "mine" which irritates me to some extent because I'm not his property after all. But I try not to pay much attention to such things. Tanya ... 17
It's annoying, and it also annoys me how some women, not to say most call their men - men. address.
It hasn't happened to me, but when I hear other people say that, say "mine" or women call "mine" ... yes, it's very unpleasant
No, this strange sense of ownership is cute. (:
IT DEPENDS WHAT HE SAYS THERE ARE THINGS THAT I PERSONALLY WOULD LIKE TO REMAIN BETWEEN US OTHERWISE TO IRRITATE ME
This is an expression of contempt
Of course, this type of men I define as peasants. I hate such men and generally allow them to myself. I have to respect you ...
When I look only women write, and again we men are peasants and idiots ... yes, many people say so, but you have to understand that male nature is like that. we flaunt, prove ourselves constantly, and have to stand out from other males. this behavior is inherent in cavemen. we seem to live in a time of tolerance and understanding and acceptance of differences, and here the prejudices are there ... to be objective, I can look at it from another angle. the expression does indeed indicate to some degree disrespect and subjection of the subject to a kind of influence. but, 'mine' may not only mean that she is 'mine' (as possession) but as my friend. I want to tell you from a very personal experience that when a man starts to express himself correctly (I am referring to myself) people start looking at you strangely and slightly nodding ... you may reproach me that this is not the case.