Hello!!! I am an adult. Even much more than that. When I found out that my friend was looking at others and maybe he was cheating on me, I stopped sleeping with him and we broke up. And not just for that reason, but for many others. He just wasn't my true love, though I tried to keep everything. Then it so happened that I found my friend in life, but shortly after that I went to a gynecologist and found out that I had gonorrhea. It turned out to be from the former. He often peed, at one point he started to smell bad, I didn't want to get close to him. And I had no symptoms. I was cured, but I was so startled by this incident that my desire for sex disappeared a bit. After 2-3 months I had a runny nose and went to the gynecologist again. I had an inflammation. I guessed where he might be from. Not from my boyfriend, of course, he's a very supportive boy. I was healed again. No problems since then. But I was still scared about it. We started doing it only with a condom. Somehow I didn't feel like my friend was by my side during these difficult times. He was just saying you're fine, and that's it. Maybe that's why I stepped back a little. And now because he wants so much without a condom and I pleased him, I woke up yesterday with a burning sensation underneath. And when I pee. I wash with chamomile and then take another shower with another gel. It subsides, but I don't know if it will pass completely. And I'm afraid to go to the gynecologist again. Still, if it doesn't take 1-2 days, I'll go, because my health is the most important thing, but why it happens, maybe I still haven't figured out exactly how to take care of myself. We cannot be alone here. Neither do they. That's why every week or less, lately once a month a mutual friend invites us to visit. But after the act I don't take a shower. It's kind of awkward in someone else's home. And I think that's it. That I sleep there at night and then I leave, and this thing stays in me, unwashed. And that's where these infections come from. And when I tell my friend, he just says don't think about it now or that it would pass me by. And he seems to be looking for this conversation to pass faster. Everything between us is great, but I don't feel that he is worried, that he wants to protect me. Although I have to be careful, not someone else. After all, not to tell me that he wants without a condom as he knows ... Or at least as much as he wants us to have sex to provide me with conditions or I do not know, because after sex he will wash in the sink, what about me As with women, it's twice as scary down there. And I'm so scared that I don't even have sex anymore. And he told me last night, not knowing what's been in my head lately, of course, that I no longer push him as I used to and I don't want him so much, and that sometimes I even pull at him. Well, yes, but not because I don't like or love him, but because of the fear of these stories and because I associate this pleasure with these unpleasant experiences. Please someone give me advice and support me in some way, I apologize if I have spelling mistakes, I'm a little upset as I write this ...
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Hello! I also used to have money when urinating, I did tests and it turned out to be inflamed kidneys. I was prescribed some pills and these symptoms disappeared very quickly. Because it has happened to me twice, one time I was told it was an inflammation of the urinary tract and the other an inflamed kidney. I tend to believe more in the diagnosis of inflamed kidneys, because then they sent me for tests and I found out about the kidneys, and the first time my personal doctor diagnosed me without going for tests. So it doesn't have to be sex-related. Go to your GP and tell him you have money and he will tell you what it could be. But I think it's the ureters or the kidneys. This is caused by a cold. As for your friend, talk to him seriously, explain to him how you feel and ask him to understand you, and last but not least - relax during sex, do not think about these "events", although it is very unpleasant - it is normal to feel that way. By the way, now I remember something - boil your sumac and wash with it, it works very well and soothes. I hope I helped you. :) And to write how the conversation with your friend went and whether you went to the doctor. Good luck, all the best! ;) Sylvia, 20 years old.
Look ... you may have glued it to him then you have healed and he is gluing it to you again
This burning is not good ... There are private venereology offices, go and get examined!
One hundred% cystitis !!!!
Your friend with this "you have nothing", "you will pass", etc. It sounds very suspicious. Throughout the incident, only you did research, and you just say about him "he is very supportive" .... how do you know ... make him do research.
You are as honest with him as possible - you tell him the whole story of your sexually transmitted diseases and you go to the doctor - he to the urologist, you to the gynecologist! Write what happened.
Number 4, even 100% ... I also had cystitis, but the reasons can be any. To be aware, to "reset things" and start both clean, visit the specialists that number 6 is talking about. So, if you are cured of what you have there and you are healthy, you will be sure that everything appeared as a symptom from now on will be new. This will make it easier to limit the narrow range of possible causes for the new symptom. As for the fact that he is not interested in what is happening to you ... I don't know, maybe it's due to the fact that he doesn't realize the seriousness of things, because it doesn't happen to him. However, if he loves you or at least cares about you, he should try to put himself in your place. Would it be good for him if he came to you and frightened and worried told you "Darling ... I'm pissing fire. A lot of money and it hurts me. What does that mean ... I'm scared, "and you tell him," Hey, that's it, one burn. You have nothing. Don't think about it now, because I think we're having fun "and so you never pay attention to his problem. I'll just tell you that such things are solved only with a doctor, I know from my own experience, unfortunately ...
8. I agree with number 4 and I think it's cystitis and my symptoms were like that and when I went to the gynecologist it turned out to be cystitis
And I have money ... it hurts. I'm thinking of going to the doctor tomorrow, but it can still be dangerous. But I don't know what happened. I was very ill recently - I'm still a little, but five days without getting out of bed. Isn't that why?