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Monogamy Is A Lie

By xgiselletrannyx October 11, 2020 50 answers Last updated October 11, 2020

I've lived for a long time thinking that monogamy is the right thing to do. I had a 5 year old girlfriend and somehow in the first years I managed to lie that I didn't want sex with other girls. Over time, I admitted it and began to think about why I wanted something that society considered morally wrong - to have a boyfriend and have sex with others. Either I'm wrong or society. My argument is as follows. Love is love, fucking is fucking. If I have a chick, it doesn't mean I stop liking other chicks. And if I like them, then I want them, right. And if they want me too, why not do it Because society says no? Because it has taught people that infidelity is bad? Emmy, I don't think there's such a thing as infidelity! There is only if I cheat on myself - I do not give myself something I want. If I want to fuck a babe, I go fuck and so on. How does this hurt my girlfriend? a difficult question, isn't it, but the answer is no. I don't harm my girlfriend in any way if I have sex with another (of course, as long as I don't bring some disease into the house, or fucking with another makes me tired and I can't fuck my chick). We are animals, we humans, we have animal needs, which are to eat and have sex (in short). If you have sex, it will make you happy, why not do it? Because someone has decided that a man is for a woman? hmm .. Nature says another cell - over 93% of the animals are polygamous. Even those who live in pairs are polygamous - they have a common nest, but have sex with others (this is also the case with females and males). So in this situation, what is the probability that we are the other 7%? Maybe we should check if the monkeys are polygamous (like our closest relative). But to be more precise, we need to check whether our ancestors were polygamous (Australopithecus, Neanderthal ...). But even if they are not - there is still the desire to fuck other chicks! If you want to eat a waffle - what do you do? Do you comply with the cake at home? You want a waffle, it wants to be eaten ... it will make you happy, it will make her happy too, why don't you mess it up? Ok, we have some morals and reservations - but that doesn't mean they are right. It does not mean that by observing them you will be happier, happier, happier. You are happy if you take what you want instead of thinking 'this is wrong'. The wrong thing is that depriving ourselves of something we want will make us happy and will not harm anyone! I will take vegetarians for ridicule - it is complete nonsense not to eat meat - most do not eat meat not because they do not like it, but because they have decided so. However, their meat is delicious, their body needs the proteins of the meat, and nature has given us dog teeth to tear the meat !! We are destined to eat meat! To deprive ourselves for some reason of the kind of 'disapprove of killing cows' is a jerk (in my opinion). So in this line of thinking, we are also destined to fuck a lot of chicks! That's why we want it and we like it. Animal is yes, but why deprive ourselves? It is infidelity to enter into a more intimate mental contact with another chick, because we are a mental society, right? I mean, people with brains, with minds, with words and communication ... I can stretch more, but it seems like a hell of a long time already, greetings to all who have come this far, I would be happy to read your feedback. M 24g

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desiree_lust answered · October 11, 2020

   That goes for your boyfriend, doesn't it !?

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charlienash answered · October 11, 2020

   And do you agree that your chick thinks so too? To put your horns left and right? To hear from other men how good she is in bed? To see bruises on her neck that you didn't make? And how about being married and wondering what your children look like? Monogamy is respect for the partner. If there is no respect in a relationship, it cannot last long.

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cdmastersassy answered · October 11, 2020

   Well, if you consider yourself an animal, act like them. You can soon reach the plant level or even lower. I hope your chick thinks like you. In my opinion, disapproval of infidelity is not just because of illness. In this way you show the person next to you that it is not enough for you, and there is a high probability that you will hurt him. I don't know how you'd feel if your girlfriend fucked anyone she liked. I am almost certain that the trust and love between you will disappear, if they ever existed. Once again, I am convinced that men are at a much lower spiritual level. There are much more important things in life than fucking with chicks and one of them is having a real person next to you. The two are rarely compatible. You choose. I don't think you've ever really fallen in love. When you are in love, you will not have the desire to cheat.

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hornyfelllow answered · October 11, 2020

   Yes, I completely agree that if I drop yours, I will tear her ass M26

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MilionDreams answered · October 11, 2020

   You're right, dude, even though you think and stretch a lot. We are genetically set to want to have sex with as many women as possible. And man cannot escape from his nature. Infidelity is an innocent offense because we move more out of instinct than out of intent to harm our partner. And since he is innocent, then he is forgivable. Problem: you are having sex with a different woman. Solution: have sex with a different woman. Problem: remorse. Solution: neglect your conscience, you are not guilty of anything. Problem: caught in the act. Solution: justify that this is the nature of every man, therefore you are not worse than others. Problem: now we will be criticized, bitten and cursed. Solution: we don't care about that.

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HeyItsSindy answered · October 11, 2020

   Let me tell you, I don't agree with you at all! And without your stupid (apologetic) arguments, we all know that you men don't take sex with another chick for infidelity. But you can't understand that we women don't think like you! I don't know who, society or anyone else, invented infidelity as immoral and all the nonsense you describe, but I can tell you that every infidelity (physical or emotional) hurts us, the fairer sex. For vegetarians, I don't support you either, because I don't like meat myself. Yes, I eat sometimes, but I just don't like it and I don't prefer it. And what, am I already half human? In my opinion, you men are just looking for all sorts of excuses for your breakups, and you have described some of the most banal. I do not blame you, everyone has an opinion, this is yours, there is nothing wrong. Think so just don't expect your boyfriend to agree with your line of thought (unless he's a man). I'm sorry if I offended you with something, I just say my opinion, which is very different from yours;) F 18

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juandedios_p answered · October 11, 2020

   I don't know, I'm small, I don't have that much experience. But I think that if our partner gives us everything we need - sexually and emotionally, there is no need for infidelity. If the person next to you completely satisfies you, why look elsewhere for this - for variety or out of boredom? I probably think so because I haven't seen much yet, but that's my opinion. F 18

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yourfellowangel answered · October 11, 2020

   In order to continue your logic, when you decide to create a generation, with the competitive male you have to shake your gourds into each other, to see whose is healthier and the winner goes to mate with the female, LOL! So, that's how it is in nature :-) Abe, man, fuck yourself, if you want, it's your job, you don't need a whole philosophical system for that :-))))

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juliherzz answered · October 11, 2020

   Hello! Your story is great and the truth itself. Most here will say the exact opposite. But you defend your theory well enough and with incredible arguments. I am exactly in your opinion. Only a person cheats on himself ... Although I myself am quite a jealous person, I fully support them. Woman, 25 years old

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walterpayton answered · October 11, 2020

   You are a complex, so only a man full of complexes can think so.

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KissMeHot_ answered · October 11, 2020

   I compare my desire for sex with other waffle chicks. If you feel like eating a waffle - eat it, let the cake stay at home for the others, if you fuck another chick, fuck, let yours stay for the other men ..... and that's how the perfect family is obtained. Everyone does what he wants and where the urge pulls him. Once you have reached this conclusion and you are firmly convinced that you are right, keep it up, but do not call your chick "HIS" but COMMON, like the waffle, everyone can eat it .... and if you like it, keep going. Just write how far you have come.

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natasha_hank answered · October 11, 2020

   One of the 7 deadly sins is adultery ...: D: D: D Here is who invented this "nonsense": D: D: D People are not like animals, I liked this with meat, if you look like an animal can you do you cook for dinner? ;)

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abbeyphillips answered · October 11, 2020

   There is logic in your words, but when you love strongly and trust someone completely, their infidelity hurts deeply, contrary to all arguments and justifications. There is no way to explain to the heart that nature is to blame ... it does not care, it just bleeds. I do not wish anyone to be in love and betrayed. I have loved and been betrayed - it hurts. I did not love and I betrayed - I hurt. The connection between the two is that when a person loves, he wants to build and bring pleasure, not to hurt. Love and infidelity are two diverging paths. If a person steps on one, he cannot fall on the other. The choice of path is made with the heart :)

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swaggomatical answered · October 11, 2020

   You just don't love her :) Do it as much as you want and while you're happy, but at least tell her the truth and stop lying to her that you care about her. Now it's probably time to start spitting at men for what they are ... but I won't do it - men are men, and women who run after people like you are fools, so enjoy them - they won't feel: D XX 21

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karinella_x answered · October 12, 2020

   Completely FOR number 7 !!!!!!!

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radiodisney answered · October 12, 2020

   After the opinion of number 9, if I see again 'you men', 'spiritual' and similar things in one sentence - I will laugh a lot. How can you (you women) beat everyone under one denominator ... it's just that my mind doesn't fit. On the subject! (to the author) In some things I support you, in some I do not. What society thinks you really shouldn't care. However, infidelity is infidelity, as your girlfriend decides. not when you or I like it - that's life. So, as they said above, if they don't want to put horns on us, if we hold on to the girl - we keep the mouse in our pants and that's it. You say that it's a completely different matter if you commit mentally. Yes, that's right ... but when you flatter other women, doesn't the probability of this jumping in the WAY? There, somewhere inside, the jealousy of the other is calling, the one on whom it is poured, does not understand why so ..... and each time the script is similar - the characters are different. VB

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Comfiecozie answered · October 12, 2020

   Hey, I only have one question. How would you feel if you found me in your apartment eating your cake? Feel free to scold me if you want. Ralph

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Isabela4u answered · October 12, 2020

   A recent study found that men with lower levels of intelligence cheat. The idea is that the highly developed appreciate the SPIRITUAL connection with their partner. Of course, everything is done on a chemical and hormonal basis, but I still thought that this is what distinguishes us from animals, namely that we can control ourselves. Otherwise, as you say, we are animals, yes, but we pretend to be the highest ... I think we are rather the lowest. I don't mind a man knocking left and right, but at least be honest and stand behind your actions as a man and take the consequences. And if you want to fuck, what's your girlfriend at home for? If it's to serve you, there are staff you can pay for it, you do it anyway now, but in a different way ... Honey

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limbersweet answered · October 12, 2020

   The author: H1: This also applies to your boyfriend, right !? Yes. You may be even more surprised here, but I would like my chick only for me, only for selfish reasons. Why not have fun with someone else? (if it won't hurt me) H2: If there is no respect in a relationship .. Yes. H2: Monogamy is respect for the partner. No. Actually, if I want my chick to be monogamous, it doesn't mean I want her to respect me, it means I don't want to share her. This seemed to be called selfishness. H3: Men are at a much lower spiritual level. You insult too many people here because of my words. And this is a separate topic, but I completely disagree with you. H3: There are much more important things in life than fucking with chicks ... Controversial issue. You can insult me ​​with my animal comparisons as much as you want, but the fact is, our bodies are animals and have animal needs. This, that you believed in movies, books and the stereotype of 'two people' is your job, I think it's nonsense. From an early age we observe 'one father + one mother', everywhere in movies, commercials, books, neighbors, stories we observe two - 'one and one'. And it is more than normal for your heads to completely reject the idea of ​​polygamy. So was I. But let's remember that people used to burn at the stake because they claimed that the earth revolved around the sun. H4: Yes, I completely agree that if I lose yours, I will tear your ass too. H5 - I like how you think! H6: But you can't understand that we women don't think like you! On the contrary, what is happening is that you women cannot understand that we do not think like you, mostly because you do not have the same impulses as us. How many men do not need sex? Almost no one. How many women do not need sex? here the percentage is already high, you do not have this need, like us, and that is exactly where the problem is. For vegetarians: I said that if you don't like meat, it's okay not to eat it. My whole idea is to give of what you want and not give of what you don't want. But depriving oneself of meat for beliefs is foolish. H7: if our partner gives us everything we need - sexually and emotionally, there is no need for infidelity. You have chicken at home every night. What if you get sick of pork chops? You like chicken, and you like it the most, but you like pork. And again you will leave a place for chicken and salad. No, it's not because you're small, it's just that different people have different beliefs and views and understandings, and I'm obviously a pervert. Or rather those who saw :) H8: .. you have to shake your gourds into each other .. Hey, don't you see that to some extent in real life? But still - I don't feel like breaking my head in someone else's head, if I did - believe me, I would offer it too! H9: Thank you. You don't have to agree, you don't even have to understand. What I'm saying is that if you want something, give it to yourself to be happy, not to deprive yourself of it, to be unhappy, just to be able to please some norms. Norms were created by society because there was a need and after a generation people's views can be completely erased. The impulses were created by nature and in millennia they will still exist .... what I'm saying is that if you want something, give it to yourself to be happy, not to deprive yourself of it, to be unhappy, just to be able to please some norms. Norms were created by society because there was a need and after a generation people's views can be completely erased. The impulses were created by nature and in millennia they will still exist .... what I am saying is that if you want something, give it to yourself in order to be happy, not to deprive yourself of it in order to be unhappy, just so that you can please some norms. Norms were created by society because there was a need and after a generation people's views can be completely erased. The impulses were created by nature and in millennia they will still exist ....

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innovationstation answered · October 12, 2020

   E and women have a lot of sex haha-there are no men this, women that. BIGGER. I just advise all men and women to keep their zippers buttoned, but everyone knows .... Yes, the author is very right, but if he learns that his boyfriend and she do so-it will not be pleasant-easy is in words ... I have 1 acquaintance-an example of this-she will give you 10,000 supposedly logical arguments why she cheats ,,,, but if she finds out that her boyfriend and cheating will kill him ... although she does not admit it. ... and reminds the author a lot of logic, and she has already changed 2 lovers .. Because the conclusion is the following-if you are guys or babes on the spot-you tell him / her-EBY YOUR MOTHER-2 KEYS IN THE ASS AND THAT IS. ..And the author's boyfriend must be the biggest piece - my opinion

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Kateli answered · October 13, 2020

   Abe are enough, how narrow-minded you all are, his old mother! and duplicitous. we all know that monogamy is disappearing, a lost cause. people give themselves up and try to go against their laws and passions and close their legs or keep their pussies in their pants, contrary to their inner desires. just because it was bad and 'betrayal of the partner and lack of respect'. to-ra mi yanko! and at the same time they shave checks and scratches, thinking of someone else. which is better! sex is sex ,, deyba .. how annoyed. blaspheme others for being naughty and mean, for cheating, and while pretending to be very moral, your husband or wife will fuck with the neighbor during this time. hey the truth and accept it at last. people for 30 years are not what they used to be, and not only that. don't you know about debauchery in ancient greece for example? even if it wasn't just there then ?! what monogamy, what five levs ?? This is the ugly truth. and I'm not particularly happy about the fact, but it's a fact! in fact, infidelity is considered a big deal, in my opinion, mostly because your partner has chosen someone else over you and then the fear of losing security and the fear of it appear that there is someone more interesting or desirable than you at the moment and that than your man. but are there irreplaceable people? everyone is unique and interesting in their own way, by this logic how is it possible not to eat another unique and interesting person all your life, except the one you are with? who says it's not right? to tuck me in the back ... we'll do whatever we want. we live in a colorful world and we can choose, ACCEPT IT! what five levs ?? This is the ugly truth. and I'm not particularly happy about the fact, but it's a fact! in fact, infidelity is considered a big deal, in my opinion, mostly because your partner has chosen someone else over you and then the fear of losing security and the fear of it appear that there is someone more interesting or desirable than you at the moment and that than your man. but are there irreplaceable people? everyone is unique and interesting in their own way, by this logic how is it possible not to eat another unique and interesting person all your life, except the one you are with? who says it's not right? to tuck me in the back ... we'll do whatever we want. we live in a colorful world and we can choose, ACCEPT IT! what five levs ?? This is the ugly truth. and I'm not particularly happy about the fact, but it's a fact! in fact, infidelity is considered a big deal, in my opinion, mostly because your partner has chosen someone else over you and then the fear of losing security and the fear of it appear that there is someone more interesting or desirable than you at the moment and that than your man. but are there irreplaceable people? everyone is unique and interesting in their own way, by this logic how is it possible not to eat another unique and interesting person all your life, except the one you are with? who says it's not right? to tuck me in the back ... we'll do whatever we want. we live in a colorful world and we can choose, ACCEPT IT! because your partner has preferred someone else to you, and then the fear of losing security and the fear of having someone more interesting or desirable than you at that moment, and that of your man, appears. but are there irreplaceable people? everyone is unique and interesting in their own way, by this logic how is it possible not to eat another unique and interesting person all your life, except the one you are with? who says it's not right? to tuck me in the back ... we'll do whatever we want. we live in a colorful world and we can choose, ACCEPT IT! because your partner has preferred someone else to you, and then the fear of losing security and the fear of having someone more interesting or desirable than you at that moment, and that of your man, appears. but are there irreplaceable people? everyone is unique and interesting in their own way, by this logic how is it possible not to eat another unique and interesting person all your life, except the one you are with? who says it's not right? to tuck me in the back ... we'll do whatever we want. we live in a colorful world and we can choose, ACCEPT IT! except the one you're with? who says it's not right? to tuck me in the back ... we'll do whatever we want. we live in a colorful world and we can choose, ACCEPT IT! except the one you're with? who says it's not right? to tuck me in the back ... we'll do whatever we want. we live in a colorful world and we can choose, ACCEPT IT!

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joshiepoooo88 answered · October 13, 2020

   Uh, yes. For men, you're right, we're polygamous. Instincts tell us to scatter the seed in as many places as possible. The bad thing is that you've stopped thinking here. Now think about how a woman is structured - her instincts tell her: find an individual you can count on to raise your children. He looks at you and immediately realizes that you are unfit for this job (not for the one with the fucking, but for the more difficult one). So if you're with a woman for fucking only - ok, fuck. However, if you want something more serious, ask yourself what she wants. 1. He - to fuck a lot 2. She - To feel safe She will never feel safe if you are not just hers, that's why you give the gift of fidelity. Calm down, you haven't had a good time, she gives it back to you with interest, giving you and allowing you things that you won't even dream of with the random ones. You ask what you are doing to your partner and you are only thinking about the physical harm, it is a pity that you did not think that a person can be injured not only physically. Because boy, a woman is neither a waffle nor a cake, but a human being. Grandpa Torbalan

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gym4fitness.ig answered · October 13, 2020

   A few days ago, I came across an article that said that a group of experts from the College of Economics and Political Science in London had conducted a study and found that smarter men cheat on their spouses less often. And this was a step forward in evolutionary development. If that's true, then you're probably not very intelligent. Here's a great excuse for the women you're going to cheat on and they ask why he did it - "I'm dumb, that's why."

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spangle01 answered · October 13, 2020

   Mm delicate topic .. I don't know how many of you have ever fallen in love so that they really don't want another partner, even if they don't think about infidelity? another question is how long this feeling of love will last and whether it is a feeling we need to preserve and develop or say "next" ... I would not allow the person I am with to feel the desire for "other chicks, because he is in nature "and I am definitely a maximalist - if his urge is so strong, we end the relationship. "fucking is fucking" ?? darling, if you cheat on your girlfriend with the right lady, you'll need just that "fucking" to fall in love.

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Katasstik answered · October 13, 2020

   Author - you are a stupid person. Many women have written VERY BIG NONSENSE here. The first is that are we men ..... Abe, God forbid, there are no bigger crooks than women. Whores with whores. Number 9 and you are uniquely dumb when you think like the author !!

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draaaven answered · October 13, 2020

   If you only have girls as fucking chicks, don't talk to me about monogamy, you simple boy. You don't know what it's like to love, a girl, that's why only chicks and fucking are in your mind. Because of people like you, guys like me have a bad name. And number 9 is the stupid brainwashed girl !! She must be the star in the neighborhood.

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grandpabangs answered · October 14, 2020

   Me too. Everything is vanity. And the struggle for monogamy / monoandria / too. These socially and civilized orders are actually intended to channel natural behavior and reduce possible animal excesses, such as battles for leadership in the herd, or the elimination of the male after fertilization of the female. These are just examples. There are many positive effects from the implementation of this measure and therefore it has been introduced as an element of public education. But this does not replace the natural polygamy / polyandry / of man. The conflict is superficial. In fact, all individuals who are aware of their sexuality, be they men or women, maintain (of course more or less secretly from public order) sexual contacts with a sufficient number of persons of the opposite sex (and in some cases of the same sex). It's stupid to say men are insensitive, and women -sensitive. At least two people are involved in sex. Otherwise it's not sex, it's something else. Another issue is that sometimes the resemblance does not end with the donating of the couple's genitals, but turns out to be much more captivating and sensual. Then the other / main / monogamous connection is tested. But the topic is quite broad, and the audience is hardly looking for anything other than entertainment ... M45

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portolapaints answered · October 14, 2020

   Your whole thesis is built to convince yourself of it. You don't tell us anything new, but there are men who struggle with the primary - this is worthy of respect and imitation! Some people are trying to differentiate themselves from animals, and it is convenient for you to go against evolution ... However, I am convinced that you have not decided, you just want a lot. Now you are waiting for some people to support you, to sympathize with you, so that the green light comes on and you move forward. Not bad, but you don't show us courage in this way, on the contrary. There is a lot of insecurity in this apologetic article, it seems that your morale is more than you want. Why else would you bother to bother us with your instinct, you'll fuck so much ... People do it, the same should apply to your boyfriend, but you don't have the courage to offer it to her. Understandably, you will lose her. She is a woman and will have soooooo more pieces than you if you compete. Among them there will be those who fuck better, speak more gently, will make her feel like a woman, not "safe sex at home". Come read another story here and analyze, you can do it. Like nothing, while you are playing leagues abroad, your mother has decorated you with a pair of horns, which will suit you a lot. On the other hand, you can also write here how she "undeservedly" hurt you. The cliché is annoying, but there is nothing more correct than it - EVERYTHING COMES BACK, and it is sent to someone in advance. So it will be with you. The irony is that it will be caused to you by the one who will not even think of cheating on you. Chile and it is sent to someone in advance. So it will be with you. The irony is that it will be caused to you by the one who will not even think of cheating on you. Chile and it is sent to someone in advance. So it will be with you. The irony is that it will be caused to you by the one who will not even think of cheating on you. Chile

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pantera answered · October 14, 2020

   Up to №1 and №2. Your questions have nothing to do with the author's reasoning! Infidelity is a kind of theft of happiness. When I cheat on another married woman, I am the thief, when my wife cheats, they steal from me. He who steals is good, from whom they steal unpleasantly. Otherwise, when infidelity is done discreetly and you do not hurt the person next to you, it stimulates to work, to take care of the family and the satisfaction of your wife, it is something tonic and useful thing :)

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jkt48 answered · October 14, 2020

   Number 7: Being unfaithful doesn't make you perverted - you just have to find a girl with your views. I've also been wondering if I could have an open relationship, but I can't. I'm just like that, if I love one person there is no room for another. I don't know, I can't imagine having a future with a man who would cheat on me at every opportunity. It will also kill my sexual self-esteem - I will ask myself, what am I not giving him, that he is looking for him in another? I would also like to say that I do not put men under one denominator - there are men and men, in the same way with women. In my opinion, number 6 is not right - there are men injured by women. Why do you think that if a man is cheated on, he will accept it less painfully than us? I hate this competition between men and women - there are valuables for both sexes and not so much to say! A lot can be written on the topic, but I stop there only. F 18

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adidaslondon answered · October 14, 2020

   №23-Intelligent men cheated less than their wives ... It is true, as it is true that intelligent men suffer more from sexual disorders. They cannot fuck at home, let alone outside ... (45 years old engineer)

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yungandhung420 answered · October 14, 2020

   Because of people with your thinking, a lot of connections are fucked up!

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captaincontrat answered · October 15, 2020

   Of course, for some people the author is not and never will be right. They have the right to be opposed to his opinion, but unfortunately there is a lot of truth in his words. In ancient Greece, for example, there were areas where before marriage, every girl had to prostitute to collect a dowry. And this was a socially established norm. Many of today's people would not accept it in any way, but it is a fact. The island of Lesbos is also a fact. The right of the feudal lord in the Middle Ages on the first wedding night is also a fact. It is also a fact that most people (both men and women) cheat. I can go on with the examples, but I don't think it's necessary. Furthermore, there is still no precise wording of the term "infidelity", at least because it often overlaps with "betrayal", the meaning of which is quite different in most cases. Sex is a physiological necessity such as eating, quenching thirst, breathing, etc. It could be ignored for a while, but not for long, because it will have health consequences. In addition, diversity is essential for good health. Otherwise we would only eat one type of food. Or to wear only some clothes, to listen to only one music, to read only one book ... and so on. It all comes down to upbringing and norms. Here the author is right. He is also right that we are animals. Only that we are social animals. Therefore, we must comply with the imposed norms. Otherwise, we must create our own society with our own norms. And there it is (the swing community). Once something exists, it is quite foolish to deny it. The only rule in this case is not to irritate people who think differently. This is called TOLERANCE. Whatever we say, both sides will have their reasons and arguments. We do not have to accept them. However, it would be good to be tolerant of differences. So the problems will be less. wanderer

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tecalp_ski answered · October 15, 2020

   "Fucking is fucking" ?? darling, if you cheat on your girlfriend with the right lady, you'll need just that "fucking" to fall in love. 24, are you this lady: D

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fuckmaster95 answered · October 15, 2020

   Friend! If you think what you are writing, you should have finished the topic with an ad like: "I am looking for a girl / woman with similar understandings of cohabitation." Some time ago, in another place I did so and now I have a person with understandings like mine. Otherwise, all you do is irritate people who have other understandings and make them insult you, and those who think like you - to doubt the sincerity of your words. Good luck!

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pawbea83 answered · October 15, 2020

   To the author: I quote your words: "You don't need to agree, you don't even need to understand. What I'm saying is that if you want something, give it to yourself to be happy, not to deprive yourself of it. to make you unhappy, just to be able to please some norms. By your logic, it turns out that if someone wants to blow you up, he is justified in doing so to make them happy. Or to fuck you. In Iraq should we become? Or should this apply only to you? If so, read Nietzsche. He formulated it better than you. But keep in mind that he already had followers who tried to turn his ideas into deeds. A lot of blood has been shed, but history knows how they ended their earthly journey Reference: End of World War II - the fate of Germany and the leaders of the German National Socialist Party. You can always try;)

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irresistible_kisses_ answered · October 15, 2020

   From the author: read again what number 27 wrote.

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Morendey answered · October 15, 2020

   There are few men who, when a "chick" passes by, do not turn after her. And I think that she is a lamb, but at every opportunity she turns her head for other "chicks". we fight but ... men go through them ........ Although he has never cheated on me, I can't trust him. How can I love someone so much, for 3 years now and not I stop showing it to him, not to think about others ... and he only showed it to me the first year, and now it is blown away like the wind ... MEN !!! destiny ... I am completely against the author !!! Only a person who hasn't fallen in love can talk like that ... so excuse me :)

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boompow16 answered · October 15, 2020

   Infidelity is not a public stigma. It is a condition of the affected. . Knock, but do not associate with you a person who does not have the same views. Fucking is not love. If there is no love, there is no infidelity. The subject of infidelity is about individuals, not human beings.

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boytattooed answered · October 15, 2020

   From the author: In the end, it turns out exactly what I thought would happen: the few people who think like me give arguments that seem much more reasonable and true to me than the arguments that people who don't think like me. But I really do not believe that depriving myself of pleasure shows my beloved that I love her. If, for example, I get along very well with a chick, but we don't fuck, but we really like (given that I have a girlfriend) to spend time with her - it's more like infidelity ... Social norms are created for some purpose , several people wrote it above, but this does not mean that if we follow them we will be happier. The study may be true that the more intelligent cheat less, but more intelligent does not mean happier. And yet, if they are so much more intelligent, they must be a bit of a jerk and don't have time: ? And as H31 said, the more intelligent suffer from more sexual disorders, so maybe they want to, but ... And the stereotype about the sex secretary ... do the less intelligent men have secretaries? or more ?? Anyway. Just think about it. In our society, we have witnessed some things all our lives, and we have already accepted them as concrete. One of them is 'one man, one woman' and 'infidelity is wrong'. And how not? After all, most of us grew up in a family of 1 mother, 1 father, we had friends, most of whom had 1 mother and 1 father, we watched movies, almost everyone who talks about 1 main character and 1 chick and we are constantly forced that infidelity is bad! FROM 3rd grade children know that infidelity is a bad thing! How could a child who has not been cheated on, who has not cohabited with a loved one, who has not fallen in love, who has not had sex, has not kissed and knows nothing from personal experience, to know that infidelity is bad ?? haha, well, it's ingrained in him! as well as most of you. You took it for concrete and so much more! Emmy, I was thinking a lot about it and I got somewhere else. This does not mean that my truth is yours! I believe that there are people who have rethought everything I have rethought and have chosen to be monogamous! But it's just that it's super rare for someone to have chosen monogamy by personal choice, and not to have taken it for granted and to have believed blindly! 1 more example, at the risk of incurring even more insults. I'm not pious. For a long time, however, I was convinced that Mormons were crazy, Muslims were crazy, and Jews were crazy. Only Christians have the right views. Is it? Well, we grew up in a society, in which we are immersed in what you are, and they in a society in which they are implanted in what you are. And you think this is a stupid example! Emmy, let's think again. Mormon men have 5 wives and 20 children each. The women are happy to have 4 sisters, and for them life is great, check the internet, I've watched a show about them. Women believe in this and it makes them happy to have sisters to talk to and help, and so on. and they don't mind at all that their husband is fucking one of the other 4. Why? Well, because they grew up in a society where they had 1 father and a few mothers, and all their friends had 1 father and a few mothers. And for them this is normal. And the word normal is nothing more than average statistical (for this and many other cases). Muslims have also grown up in a society from an early age and do not question their beliefs at all (I hope you have understood by now that I do not mean only religion). So are we. All our lives they have shown us what you are and we have just accepted it as the original true! But, maybe not. Everyone has the right to vote and their own opinion. And I really liked H33 expressed completely, as I think - tolerance! If you were tolerant, you wouldn't insult me ​​for everything I wrote. Did I offend you? No, I did not come here to do your approval, I just wanted to share my views and see how much they think like me. And I totally expected such results. H26 - I'll only insult you - Sorry jerks like me ruin dudes like you, good name! She called H9 a brainwashed chick, but the truth is, she was where you were, when she was 15 (say) and now at 25 she decided something for herself, she got rid of what had brainwashed her. Brainwashed here you are, bye cock. I would love to read how you wait for me for what I said about societies :)

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jungraiclips4 answered · October 15, 2020

   Number 9: I knew this story would be 99% criticized. Now I really understand that people in Bulgaria are super blind. The author openly expresses his own desires. I'm sure everyone who commented here would also cheat on their halves. You say, "Men only think with their heads down." Come on, read most of the stories in the "Love and Infidelity" category. 90% of the stories are written by married women who have met the perfect man, turned him into their lover .... and what they do ... They start thinking about divorce. While for men the situation is quite different. They just look outside for what they lack in the family. But they rarely leave their wives. I can give many more examples to defend the author. Understand that the perfect couple does not exist. This does not mean that there is no love and affection. But when the heart and the body want something, tell me the point of not giving it to him. Of course, I am FOR the discretion of such connections. In this way, both the person who is cheating will be satisfied and he will not hurt his partner. The author has said very correctly: "Love is love, fucking is fucking." The important thing is that the two things are different. Everything must still be in moderation. Author, don't change just because of some "moral" comments here. Your theory is really true. Follow your instincts :) PS I consider myself a 100% woman. I have always done what my heart desires. And that doesn't make me a whore. For those who will convict me, I want to say that I am 25 years old. and I have been with very few men. But I have never refused sex with a man who attracts me. I have cheated and I will continue to do so. I can love and give everything to my partner, so that he is completely satisfied and never understands that there is another in my life. I don't think there are and there will be injured.

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rez1440 answered · October 16, 2020

   AWFUL - people like you are a disgrace to men. It is clear that you are not old enough, nor are your ideas about vegetarianism, which demonstrates an extremely low culture and knowledge. First I will tell you that if you eat meat you start to smell of dead flesh - this is what children know! and slows down the maturation of sperm; proteins .... well, where do animals get them from - from the plant world and the purer you eat, the better; obviously during the ice age you have not heard the influence on the skull and bone structure - you know so much you show - laughter for us :) Second - while you are still at the level of fucking love you will not feel (feel) these vibrations are too ethereal for a grave for animals that you become. Third - because "Nature says another cell - over 93% of animals are polygamous. Even those

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avalanche_of_love answered · October 16, 2020

   From the Author: H42, thank you for the insults, made me feel quite sophisticated. First of all, let me tell you that I read your post twice and it was not clear to me in many ways what you mean ... either it is from my cow's brain or you did not express yourself very clearly. So you say eating meat is bad, huh. hmmm, isn't it .. And I didn't understand how I turned into an animal grave .. And how come you're still monogamous here, and you want to fuck someone else's chick ?! And how does man not come from apes ?? And what is entropy (a term from physics and philosophy) in evolution? And is this in favor of evolution? Abe, you wasted your time with this post! and I with this ..

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fodolert answered · October 16, 2020

   From number 18 ... that's why I will never get married ... let everyone do what they want, but I refuse to be made a fool ... Honey

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becky_gold answered · October 16, 2020

   Let me start by saying that I am a man. Look now, what you're going to do is your job. But do not interfere with society. It's not your fault that you're a sex maniac and that you think like an animal. Coinnate with whomever you fall for, be "happy", but do not impose your primitive behavior on others, do not blame others that they are not at such a low evolutionary level as you obviously are. For some, life is not just sex, but much more than that. p.p. in general I do not write here, this is my first post, I only read from time to time. But your impudent post provoked me. You could just write what you wanted and not blame anyone, I even see you involving children in your lower passions. This is already disgusting.

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troydurden answered · October 16, 2020

   From the lower author: H45, I do not impose anything on anyone. Read again what I wrote, I did not say anywhere that my truth is yours, unlike you, I assume that there may be 2 opinions on the issue and I am tolerant. And I don't know what I said bad about the children? You deny that they know almost nothing from their experience? Or that we have imposed many things on them? (because they see him constantly in life) My thesis is the following: We want him because he is in our blood! It doesn't matter why we want it! We want it! And if we give it to ourselves, we will be better. There is no point in fighting against something we are! Which I am, come on, because I'm obviously some kind of animal in the zoo, and you're some creatures of the future where there are no dicks and fucking. Oops, I think I loved you. Well, come on 1 insult against 40 I think is fair!

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bigmeat11234 answered · October 16, 2020

   Congratulations 45, and to the author ..... I just want to say something to him, but I will refrain from commenting, because it is not worth going down to its low and primary level

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grace_sluty answered · October 16, 2020

   From the author: H9, I see things just like you! (H41)

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reibelletv answered · October 16, 2020

   I'm number 5, I followed the topic with great interest. So many comments for almost nothing. With a collective contribution, we have written an entire play here. Author, I'm basically with you, but I don't understand why you should be annoyed and replicate every comment you don't like. You can't fight windmills, and I don't think you're a descendant of Don Quixote. Live and let others live as they understand this life. It is clear to us that a real man will do whatever he wants. If others don't understand, the problem is not yours. In two words: fuck the chicks, drink your whiskey, earn your money with your own mind. Nobody can forbid you to do these things.

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nowbuzzoff answered · October 17, 2020

   I wrote under this topic, but my comment "missed" to appear. I have no desire to write everything down again. But. Author, why don't you try to cheat on your girlfriend / wife, then confess, and try to explain to her that this is not really cheating? Do you feel like doing it? But