Is a normal difference of almost 4 years in favor of the girl normal? My friend looks great, but he is still a student - 22 years old, not independent, I am 26 years old, financially stable, with a prestigious profession. Every day I try to break up, our relationship is not serious, but when I see this sparkle in his eyes and the admiration with which he looks at me, I give up. Tell me - should I be alone and pseudo-moral or with him and hope for a serious common future for the two?
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There is nothing wrong with this. Enjoy your love, because to be loved and to love is a gift from God.
If you love him, stay with him. If not, break it. Are you really 26? If so, why do you ask such questions?
If you are really 26, you should answer this question yourself. There are no limits to love, if you love him, what does it matter that he is 22? If it's your next hobby, you better tell the boy the truth than to hurt him. and don't hurt him more than necessary, he is certainly in love with you.
The decision is really yours, but keep in mind that this gleam in your eyes is for a while, and then there must be respect between you, which is not necessarily related to sex. If you like him as a man, not only for sex, go on, but if you think that the relationship is based only on sex, drop this job. You're big enough to judge
My son is a 20-year-old student and for him you, who are 26 years old, are old. Count your friend until you come across something calmer.
I know a family where the woman is 8 years older and a family where she is 15 years older. They have 2 children and live wonderfully. So you don't care. There is nothing wrong with that and it is normal. And my grandmother was older than my grandfather, which was blasphemous in those days, but they lived well all their lives.
And I'm 10 years older than my husband, but that doesn't stop us, we're happy.
6 years difference is not much, in anyone's favor, not to mention 4. And now women are with younger men and obviously this model is successful. It all depends on how mature they are. Each case is individual. I am annoyed by women like number 5, to whom I can say that this woman who is older can be much more valuable than another, younger and it sucks to discriminate against others on the basis of age, provided that uncles in their 50s go out at the age of 25, that they get married. This is hypocrisy and a double standard.
I am 1 year old. bigger than my friend 19-18 and I was hellishly naughty I felt weird but I accepted it. My advice is to relax and be together so at least one day you will not regret that you did not continue but gave up.
This is not a worrying difference at all. Be together while you are well. And don't forget that such things no longer impress anyone except people with absolutely no work. The world is quite open and relations are freer than ever!