I don't know where it started, I'm desperate, to put it mildly. I really need your advice. I have the feeling that my life is like a vicious circle and everything revolves, repeats itself over and over again. I don't know if you guessed, but it's about a boy. I'm 20 and I like a boy who is a year younger than me, I don't think it's a problem, for me age doesn't matter, the person on the other side is important, next month will be 12th grade, he started a year more late, it's literally from my former school. The boy is wonderful, he looks really decent, he is not like most boys to smoke and drink, he only drinks beer and only goes out with friends. I remember that in the beginning of June I sent him an invitation, he accepted it and from there the chats started, it was about a movie from my story in Messenger, etc., we started writing to each other, he said, that he saw me at school and many times wanted to meet me, we started writing more and more often I felt more attached to him, I have a friend with privileges since April, he is literally my first and I accumulated a hell of a lot with him a lot of experience because we saw each other almost every other day, but when I started to get attached to the boy I'm talking about, I stopped seeing him, I just didn't feel okay that I liked one boy and at the same time I saw another and we are having fun. For the second month we have been writing hearts, kisses, talking to each other for hours every day, constantly making hints, just saying to each other that we love each other, compliments, etc., we send each other gifs with some kisses, even sexual ones, we talk often for sex, we call ourselves by nicknames "darling", "love", etc., but nothing happens. We haven't seen each other yet.
To put it mildly, I'm in love with him, if someone sees the way we talk and write, they'll really think of us as boyfriends. I started to imagine some things that we would be together soon, that I finally found the right boy and things would work out, but several times he told me that he felt like a sister and best friend and things like that and I the mood is getting worse. Even last week we started writing more about things like that and I thought he might soon even admit to me that he wanted to leave, etc., in our conversations talking about rougher sex I once told him, that I will tie him up and he calls me, and if you tie me up, aren't there any, that is, he makes hints to me that I don't understand. Yesterday he told me that he loves me a hell of a lot and he can't do without me and he started writing a hell of a lot and I shout to myself that now he will confess to me and he literally wrote " and my heart is broken. I'm crazy, I'm sick and I'm not in the mood. Every date with a boy ends this way - we remain friends or we totally forget, and I don't want that to be the case. I can't cause myself to suffer again this time, what can I do, tell me. Please approve my story, I will be very grateful to hear your advice and opinions.
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It's just that the boy is a boy, for a girl of 20 I don't know how you liked an immature paw, you need a man. What do you expect this boy to give you, so if he has sex with you, he will literally accept you as an experience and nothing more.
He, my dear, must be sweating his hands at the thought of melting the pepper. But he's already a little more complex when he's 19 and he's not like the "open" boys. One hundred about. Did you say "Let's go for coffee" once in all your time ... in the park or anywhere? And you both do it like that, as no one says anything, and you, if you are tormented even ... what are you waiting for? Shoot with the questions and that's it. If he wants you like that - extra, you will work on the agenda, if not you, again extra ... you will not waste time and you will move on. There is no way to know at the moment, but it is foolish to think that the 19-year-old virgin from the 125th High School will be the love of your life. ;) Brother.
The boy may be too shy to invite you to a real date. Take the initiative and it is unknown how things will develop. If he is a virgin and has no boyfriend, I am almost 100% sure that he wants you to have a relationship, but he does not know how to approach it and that is why he talks such nonsense about sisters and best friends. I have had experience with inexperienced people like him and it has been similar. Just take matters into your own hands and everything will be fine.
You don't film and glorify yourself so much as "the boy is wonderful". Everyone has a solid dose of shortcomings, not to mention that lately it has been filled with mom's sons and freaks. It should be at least a year or two before you can make such conclusions in front of you, otherwise you will still be disappointed. You can see with the naked eye that he is playing you, both talking to you about sex and explaining to you that you are like his sister. He probably doesn't want a serious relationship with you, just sex. Give him an ultimatum and lose him if he continues in the same way, otherwise nothing good will come of it. Anyone who wants to sleep with you will compliment you, so don't be so attached to him or exalt him. Not everyone is sincere. You need to respect yourself more.