Mother With 3 Children

   They may be small, but it is not impossible.

   For a relationship - if you have time for one at all - maybe, for cohabitation - no. It will be very difficult for him and for you, and unnecessary. I am alone with two children and I have already given up relationships and everything. Nobody wants us seriously. That's why I sit alone and look after my children. I don't care about anything else, because I'm completely disillusioned.

   It depends on whether you are beautiful and how old you are. There are people for everything. It also depends on whether you have claims. At first, you have to agree to sex that there are various pretensions - he almost does not want preliminary guarantees that they will get married.

   Depends on how you became a single mother?

   There are passengers for every train!

   I personally know one. So - yes, there are, but keep in mind that they are exceptions. I wish you strength, courage and happiness! F33

   Of course there is. Take, for example, the one about how many children and marriages he has sincerely and personally. The important thing is to look good, men are easily in love. When they fall in love, nothing matters but the woman. Pay attention to your appearance, laugh, communicate. Let your mother help you with watching.

   Read the topic from the site - "I am a widow with three children! Do I have a chance ...". To have a chance, if you don't force your children on the person next to you and don't tell him that they are in the first place, and he fucks himself. You took everything from you.

   Of course, if he is a single parent with 2 or more children. I recently read a gentleman with 2 children left a widower .. he is 35 years old .. He was looking for a similar .. Otherwise with another man..you have a chance ... if he is retired ..or there can be no children ... and you you are rich ...

   I'm a woman, but I won't lie to you. In your condition it will be very difficult for someone to accept you, it is one thing to be with one, a child but three? How did you get along with so many children? I hope you are not a girl of 20-26 years old, and still I wish you luck, I hope you find your place.

   in principle, anything is possible and there are probably such men, but it will be very, very difficult to find them, even if you like one and get married. Here I will not comment at all why you are a single mother with 3 children, whether they are from the same father or from different ones and how you raise them alone. Children require a huge resource - emotional, time, financial, etc., and 3 children - three times more. Sometimes mine come to me more, not to mention strangers. Therefore, few people would be burdened with such an obligation, since they are not obliged at all, and the children will not consider them as any. However, their age matters and if they are relatively large and independent, there is a greater chance.

   Hard work, but if they are daughters I would gladly take you.

   And I am a mother of 3 children. I can say that the number of children does not matter. Men who bond with women with children are a special breed of people, and I don't think it would be easier to find a partner if you were two. The most important thing is not to look desperate and not commit at any cost. Have the dignity and self-confidence of a valuable woman. Remember that we are not talking about someone "taking" you with the children, you accept him into an already existing family! If you take this as thinking, you will see that your environment will change radically and a person will appear who wants to be your partner both in good times and in caring for your children. The strength and self-confidence that a calm woman radiates is very attractive. I write everything from experience. Just calm down and accept, that in fact you are infinitely happy and complete with the children you have created and you are not looking for a partner at any cost. If you want to fall in love, it will happen, don't worry. Keep your head up!

   You line them up nicely and reassure her, but there are hardly any candidates waiting at her door. Neither her age, nor the children, nor where the father or fathers are are told. In my opinion, if you are prettier and more frivolous, at most someone will deceive you and you will get a fourth.

   Author, I will try to be as honest as possible. My goal is neither to reassure you nor to discourage you. I will not lie to you that children do not matter - they are a factor. But can you find a man? Of course you can. It depends on many factors. You don't say anything about your age or the age of the children. I have a girlfriend, 45, divorced with two children. He spent four years with his last friend. Supported lady, eats healthily, trains, has a good profession and is financially secure. But when they got together, the children were 14 and 17, that is, relatively independent, and they had time for each other with their boyfriend. They recently separated and she did not despair at all - she goes out on dates and has an interest in her. With bachelors up to 40 it will be harder for you. I am a bachelor at 33 and I will not lie to you - to start a woman with three children, I have to fall in love a lot. But it is not impossible. I had a relationship with a divorced child and we broke up for reasons unrelated to the child. Besides, a bachelor would want children if things get serious, and will you be ready to have a fourth? So, if you don't want more children, it's best to look for men who are divorced. I will allow myself to give you some advice: - Take time for yourself - sports, makeup, hobbies, friends. Maintain your body and mind. I guess it's very difficult for you over time, especially if your children are small. But try. At least if you take good care of yourself and they will get a good example from you. "You say you're desperate." Do not be! Being a single mother does not make you a second hand person! On the contrary, you have contributed a lot to Bulgaria in the conditions of a demographic catastrophe. And you have a mission in life. If you find a man - fine. If you don't find it - fine, it still makes sense of your existence, and a great one at that. You are valuable as a human being. "Don't get caught in the first mold just so you're not alone." And being alone is not scary. Only commit if you like it. - Show a man that in your heart you have a place for both your children and him. That you will not love him less. Success!

   Author tell a little more about your situation! How little information did you give at how old and how did you get here?

   Hi, I'm number 14. I wrote that I speak from experience. Seeing some negative comments and decided to tell more. The man next to me claims to have fallen in love with me when he first saw me in the park with my children. He says he watched me every Saturday laughing and playing with them, how I cared for them and how much I loved them. He decided that he wanted the man next to me and that I was no longer alone in the park with the children, but that we were two. And now there are two of us. I'm very happy.

   All of you will sooner or later not have candidates, no matter how beautiful you are, with or without children, if you want to be Aforditi and Apollonians. Nature has not spared anyone, so calm down - and your time of misery is coming. To the author. you got rid of it easily, you got rid of your children too. Get on your ass and live your life

   I do not think. Even if there are such men, they are very few and the chance to meet them is small, and if you meet them there will be almost no right to choose. That is, if someone hangs out with you, you have to accept it, because the one you want is unlikely to answer. If you are very beautiful, you can feed someone for a boyfriend at most, but nothing serious. Three children are many. I don't know how it got to be alone with three children, but whatever the reason, they have a lot of throats. And the man will want you to give birth to him probably .... there will be at least 4.

   I am 33 with a child, married, but even if I get divorced, I will never get into a serious relationship with a woman with children unless I am very much in love. And this given that I am neither the first handsome man, nor the most successful man. I just prefer to be alone than take responsibility for other people's children. Because I don't have the strength to invest so much for foreign children, for whom I am Mr. Nobody and nobody will say to me "thank you, my brother, you raised us". This is a very serious commitment - and financial, and emotional, and any, and ultimately for what and for whom? And all this would be largely at the expense of my own child. And at least it should be damaged. Why not spend this time with my child, why not give this money to my child - to study, to have a home, etc. I'm not materialistic, but how much money do I have to earn to feed my child, to provide him with an education, a home, to provide myself with a home (apart from my child and what my wife would take from me at the divorce), to feed myself , a second woman to feed, that all three and children to feed. So how much do I have to earn? And to deprive my own child of housing and education in order to look after other people's children, who one day later look at me, not her - is not for me. And what is the guarantee that their mother will be my great love, that I will do all this? Well, imagine that I wasted my youth and my relationship with mine and then she divorced me. And what was all this care, upbringing, wasted time with 3 extra children for? I have understood one thing - a foreign woman does not become a woman, foreign children do not become children and a foreign parent does not become a parent. I prefer to be alone, instead of engaging with foreign children. I do not have the strength and desire to do so. Knowing that my child is mine, I do it with desire and love and it doesn't weigh on me, but for other people's children it would weigh on me and I don't think it's worth it because of a woman who may not be in my life tomorrow. My youth, my efforts, my money, if you will, will be gone forever. I just expressed my personal opinion. But there are also men who would gladly have a serious relationship with her. I wholeheartedly wish the author to meet one and to be happy all her life. I have no bad feelings for anyone. if you will, they will be gone forever. I just expressed my personal opinion. But there are also men who would gladly have a serious relationship with her. I wholeheartedly wish the author to meet one and to be happy all her life. I have no bad feelings for anyone. if you will, they will be gone forever. I just expressed my personal opinion. But there are also men who would gladly have a serious relationship with her. I wholeheartedly wish the author to meet one and to be happy all her life. I have no bad feelings for anyone.

   From 21 - supplement. You don't say how old the children are, but that also matters a lot. It's one thing to be 10, it's another to be 20 and up. In the second case, in practice, they are independent and this radically changes things.

   №14 and №16 have written wonderful comments. Reality shows that a man to commit to a woman with more than one child is very, very difficult. You have to really like the mother as a person for this to happen. Just like at при14 it happened. But these are the exceptions.

   Yes, but hardly. Looking around, Bulgarian families have one child, only 1-2 of my acquaintances have 2. If people wanted to watch 3, it would be a mass phenomenon. And we are talking about our own, not another parent. I think the reasons are both financial and emotional.

   If you allow a woman to express an opinion, I would think very much about taking a man with three children. And it's not because I don't like children, it's not so much because of the amount of money that will go to them, although money is also a factor that should not be underestimated. It's just that these children know their mother, good or bad, she's their only mother. No matter what the children say, they do not accept anyone else to take the place of their parent. №21 is direct, but it's right about almost everything. My daughter was so unbearable when she was shaken by puberty that I felt like beating her at times. Quarrels broke out between the two of us. But we are a mother and a daughter, and we both passed quickly. I don't know what would have happened if it had been a adopted child. Author, I wish you luck to find a man for you, but lower your requirements - it will be enough to find a man, who just accepts your children and respects them - love for other people's children does not come just like that, especially if you have your own. Maybe in time, if he loves you, he will become attached to them.

   Look, it's not about being desperate, it's about being realistic. Find a man for a relationship, to see each other two or three times a week and that's it. To love you and your children are completely unrealistic requirements, I tell you this honestly and without wanting to be naughty. It's just nice to know what de facto things are. You look after your children, have a friend and that's it. Let me tell you, it's not small. The question remains where to find this man, but hardly anyone can know. There is no shop for suitable men, haha. It is often a matter of luck, of environment ... Besides, why does everyone think that everyone is destined to have / a man a woman? Some people are destined to be alone and this is a kind of karma. There is nothing wrong with me, especially when a person adequately perceives what life offers him. To be safe and sound...

   How is the issue with a woman at 38, with a child at 18?

   "I just prefer to be alone than to take responsibility for other people's children. "Personal choice. Do not impose it as a dogma. "Because I don't have the strength to invest so much in foreign children, for whom I am Mr. Nobody and nobody will say to me, 'Thank you, my brother, you raised us.' "There is a possibility that your blood children will spit on you, there are many such examples. And if you live for recognition - you misunderstand life. "This is a very serious commitment - financial, emotional, all kinds, and ultimately for what and for whom?" And the inability is visible. Life is like that, it's not unicorns and cotton candy. Everyone's personal choice is what beliefs to have, but do not impose them. There are people for whom there is no "own and foreign", I think these are more conscious people who are not limited to the blood relationship. We are one. If you have a heart, you will give love,

   27, do not stop, but move! Stagnation is harmful ...

   28, where exactly did you see me impose my opinion? Precisely because of people like you who like to put words in their mouths, I have explicitly emphasized that this is a personal opinion and I respect the understandings of others. As for my children - whether they spit on me or not, I will look after them because I do not see it as something that weighs on me. I just do it out of love, without expecting anything in return. But this is not the case with other people's children. And this is normal and has nothing to do with awareness. As you are very aware and did not have your own and other people's, why don't you feel one with the gypsies, who roar for help from the workers, and they themselves do not want to give anything to the society? Come on, support me and my children then, and I'll spend the whole day lying down - there's no one else's own. What is the problem? Money is a limited resource and as much as I want, I can't stand the whole world and anyway, since I only have to give them to a limited number of people, I prefer them to be my children, not strangers, don't you remember? The same goes for my time, my commitments, my work, etc. Shouldn't I feel guilty for being an alum and not supporting other people's children?

   I used quotes from you, but I did not address you personally, but to all those who think so.

   Hello! YES there are such men, and the fact that you have 3 children is hardly an obstacle. Yes, he will not be the father of your children / and he should not /, but if he manages to be their friend, then you will be the happiest person. Such men worry not about how you will accept it / you have already chosen it /, but how the children will accept it. And they are an incredible measure of a relationship. When something like this happens to you, don't force it on them, because you want it. Communicate as much as you need, you will know for yourself whether to move forward. YES there are still such men! I wish you success

   I am also a mother of three children, lately our marriage is not good at all, I am seriously thinking about divorce, but it does not occur to me that after that I will find a man who will accept me and my children. Author, it is very unlikely that you will find a person who is ready for anything for you, even if he accepts your children, when they grow up and become independent you will have a better chance. F32

   It will certainly be found, but I don't believe it will look the way you want it to. Either he will be too old, or with disabilities, or too poor, without any possibility to support you, you will rather support him. It will most likely be a combination of the three.

   I have a friend who was always single until he married a woman with three children. Her biggest was at 12 then, now at 18. They've already made two more of their own. They became 5. At least now he is 2 years old. the mother only looks at him, the others look at themselves. The father, of course, takes care of everyone. I personally couldn't be sure ... he and she are doing great. He has a business. They did not die hungry, even his business is quite innovative and prosperous. Seeing the whole company together is always fun with them and their family is the center of the company. Look, she is a great woman in the true sense of the word and we all like her a lot and have known her for years. So your question is not whether there is someone to take you, but whether you are a great woman, like her for example ... ...?

   Maybe a man who can't have children or a very old bachelor, over 50, who no longer has a great chance of having children, but still wants to.

   I am a man, divorced with one child and I can take a woman with three children without a problem, but alas, capitalism combined with feminism told me the game and I changed my mentality. I live somewhere in North America and I claim that things are changing very catastrophically for both women and men and the family. Now I have the resources to provide a woman even with children, but Western women will soon tell the Bulgarian game about money. That is why I am not inclined to get married, even if I live on a family basis. I chose to be MGTOW and not deal with women ...

   I would see myself for non-committal sex meetings several times a week and talk and communicate as much as we both can unload and have a good time if the woman is beautiful and I like her and she has a pleasant character. Nothing more than that, but that's my opinion.

   I would be happy to talk about the things in life and I would fuck a mother of 3 children, but as number 39 mentioned, only there. If a mother of 3 wants a man to take responsibility for all of them (ie the 4), to devote time, energy, resources, attention, to deprive himself of his freedom because of them, it is better to look for a father with 3 children (or at least one, enough to start somewhat equal). So far, no single mother with a child / children has explained: Why do they always want to push themselves to a bachelor and not to a similar father with a child / children !? From the very beginning, you are unfair to the man and demand that he make sacrifices for you, while it is cool for you that it is not you who will look after other people's children, but the man who will look after yours. Even if you don't expect him to look at them in the deepest sense, again, it takes effort of all kinds on the part of a man to choose a mother with children from another man instead of a single woman with whom to go for walks, a romantic acquaintance with much free time, and finally to create their own generation. Many women are hypocritical in this regard, as they want to, but are reluctant to give. No, they don't even want to start on an equal footing, they want to marry a free man, even though they themselves have failed a previous marriage or relationship with an already established generation of the foreign man.

   There are men in your position who would agree. Much also depends on the age of the children. I dream of one at the age of 8 and it seems to me a farted cause, but there are also women who succeed. Much depends on your inner attitude. Success!

   There are men who would take a mother with a child or children. As well as women who would take a man with a child or children. But the trivial "every train has passengers" does not apply. For yours it may not be. There are many circumstances here - let's start with what kind of person you are, what age you are, what you expect from your future partner and what you offer him; go through this the person you met to answer the same questions; we combine both things with the desires, moods and characters of the children; as well as side effects such as where you met, how you did it, what stages of your life you are in, etc. That is, you may meet a passenger for your train, but miss it because you are in a hurry to take the child from childhood - had a fever. You may meet him, but he is married and not looking for a new burn. Live, love yourself and your children. If you are wanted - look for love. But it is a matter of luck, coincidence and good circumstances.

   Look what, I'll be as direct as possible, without aiming to be rude to you or anything. First of all, I want to clarify that I consider the people of this world as pawns, as chess pieces, that is, I am almost not interested in their feelings and emotions, so I have no intention of upsetting anyone, let alone you. As for your question - it is not completely impossible, but it is brutally difficult. Women with 1 child struggle like sinful devils and in most cases fail, and you have 3! And here it doesn't matter if they are from one, two or three fathers, if this / these father / fathers is / are dead / dead, or how old the children are. The sheer number (yes, exactly, number) of children is dizzying, and keep in mind that every man's DNA is set to strive to have his own biological child, or in other words, if that man doesn't have a child, he will definitely want you to do. So 3 1 makes 4, in this financial age I don't know what income you will need to provide them with the minimum standard, let alone anything more. Without taking offense, I personally wouldn't take you for a wife if you wanted to have Einstein's intellect, model vision and nun modesty, just remembering that 3 children came out of your womb and I would be dumb, and besides, I will know that they will never perceive me as a real father, nor will I perceive them as my children, at most to achieve an illusory harmony like “Dad, I love you, but still give me 20  pocket money for today ... “. No thanks. And don't take offense, I'm just being honest. Without taking offense, I personally wouldn't take you for a wife if you wanted to have Einstein's intellect, model vision and nun modesty, just remembering that 3 children came out of your womb and I would be dumb, and besides, I will know that they will never perceive me as a real father, nor will I perceive them as my children, at most to achieve an illusory harmony like “Dad, I love you, but still give me 20 BGN pocket money for today ... “. No thanks. And don't take offense, I'm just being honest. Without taking offense, I personally wouldn't take you for a wife if you wanted to have Einstein's intellect, model vision and nun modesty, just remembering that 3 children came out of your womb and I would be dumb, and besides, I will know that they will never perceive me as a real father, nor will I perceive them as my children, at most to achieve an illusory harmony like “Dad, I love you, but still give me 20  pocket money for today ... “. No thanks. And don't take offense, I'm just being honest. at most to achieve an illusory harmony like "Dad, I love you, but still give me  20 pocket money for today ...". No thanks. And don't take offense, I'm just being honest. at most to achieve an illusory harmony like "Dad, I love you, but still give me  20 pocket money for today ...". No thanks. And don't take offense, I'm just being honest.