Hello, I have been in a relationship for 4 years, he is 29, I am 23 years old, we are from different cities. From the beginning everything was great of course, he is very caring, kind, dedicated and very stubborn. I'm a very combative person, I manage everywhere on my own, but all I have to do is know that there is a person who would help me even if I don't have to, and I want when the person I don't like and I'm angry that the person next to me takes me seriously. , do not think that this is a whim. In the beginning it was like that when I didn't like something and it happens really rarely with me, it was words, promises of remorse and now the gentleman is right on all issues and almost has perfect behavior, moreover even when he is guilty of an act I have to apologize for raising the issue at all. It's been like this for a year and a half and it happened when I apologized for one of my outbursts and since then, even if he realizes that he is guilty, he is afraid to apologize so as not to lose his position, which I don't know what is perhaps a perfect gentleman. I could not live with such stubbornness, we were just going to live together, but now I am hellishly divided what kind of life awaits me with him, there are other shortcomings of course and they are not small, but in a long relationship there must be a lot compromises, but they have become too many and I do not care about such teenage games, my life is complete hell and without having to raise someone's ego. I want to ask people with experience do all men become like that and will this period not pass and more importantly, what should I do Thanks, I accept any comments. but now I'm hell-bent on what kind of life awaits me with him, there are other shortcomings of course and they are not small, but in a long relationship there must be a lot of compromises, but they have become too many and I do not care about such teenage games my life is complete hell and without having to lift anyone's ego. I want to ask people with experience do all men become like that and will this period not pass and more importantly, what should I do? Thanks, I accept any comments. but now I'm hell-bent on what kind of life awaits me with him, there are other shortcomings of course and they are not small, but in a long relationship there must be a lot of compromises, but they have become too many and I do not care about such teenage games my life is complete hell and without having to raise anyone's ego. I want to ask people with experience do all men become like that and will this period not pass and more importantly, what should I do? Thanks, I accept any comments. what to do? Thanks, I accept any comments. what to do? Thanks, I accept any comments.
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come on people, say something ...
You're just tired of each other already
And where exactly do you do it alone?
In the beginning, everyone is perfect. After a while, it becomes clear who is what.
I'm a 23 year old boy and I'll just tell you ... go straight there are 100 times cool guys.
I don't think there's any problem here between the two of you. When I look at him, he is a serious and valuable person and it is not worth looking for flaws in him. That's right, a lot of compromises have to be made in a relationship and you think that there are no sinless people. This is one option. The other is, if you think so much that his thinking of a person who has made a mistake and has not admitted his mistakes irritates you, it's just to break up with him. Sometimes people need such sections, they are called emotional, but think carefully about whether you love him and whether you will not suffer for him. My opinion is / this is how I see things from the side / not to break up, but to separate for a certain time / don't look for each other, don't see each other /, in order to understand what you mean for each other. I also want to tell you that as a man, we men fall in love and keep such a long relationship, that we definitely have strong feelings and hold on to the girl. Even if we break up, we will always be interested in it and we will miss it. Success!