Men, don't get attached to these rumors that someone has managed to catch a babe from an app. In recent months, I have had mutual sympathy with about 10 women, almost all of whom were about 30 years old (I am 32). Then the writing did not happen, on the other side a grave silence. I made different friends fight, to try, to dig a little and ... the same job with them. I met two women, aged 34 and 37. They turned out to be intelligent and we wrote a lot of fermans, but they didn't want live meetings with anyone, they wanted something real and pleasant. I just want to tell you that there is no ground for developing contact, do not waste your time and money. Others meet and don't like it at all. Silent, temerutki, frivolous women .. DON'T CAUSE IT. I have a friend with ten years of failures in virtual dumps !!! Ah, it's really super cool dude. His photos show that he is stable and even intelligent.
Athlete with a high and embossed body. It should be widely known that in Bulgaria you should not regret and give your money for them. They feed on your money. The salaries of various stupid programmers are accumulated by the service "pay to see who you like" or "buy credits to be popular and be seen by more women", that is. :)
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Ha good morning! If you want to "catch a babe", do not deal with applications, but start looking for her in real life.
I absolutely agree! These sites are a total, but really total, waste of time. It doesn't matter what you look like, what photos you put in, whether you look split, reliable, intelligent, or whatever. The end result is the same - a waste of time and frustration. I'm one of those people who likes to talk from personal experience, not by heart, so I've tried different options on such sites. The truth is that different strategies lead to different immediate results, but the end result is the same. I give an example: I put photos that are not something impressive, normal and the result is expected - almost nothing, little interest from women. Next strategy: I put more attractive photos, showing a better vision and a more interesting way of life. Here the temporary results are different - the interest is significantly higher, but there is almost never any meaningful communication, and even if there is - the woman in question at one point simply disappears like a ghost. From here we move on to the next theory - I'm bored and I can't keep their interest. Yes, it sounds logical. I have tried different communication strategies. I got to the point where they wrote to me that I was having a lot of fun and very shortly after that - surprise, they disappeared. I have come to the conclusion that women (at least in Sofia) are oversatisfied and people like me, whose lives put them in social isolation, are very fucked up. No woman is looking for anything online. It's all about caressing the ego, killing time, doing something there when there's nothing to do at all. Don't have an environment just doesn't work. And to have an environment is to have constant real contact with women. It's not easy again, but if you're stable it can really ignite something. When I had my environment, I didn't have one and now I stand alone like a dog. There are almost no real options because: 1) Social networks - no chance to get something. 2) Attempts to improvise live - that is, to try to meet someone somewhere. The women immediately erect a huge barricade and hit a solid beam. It is somewhat understandable - they are oversatisfied, they are constantly stuck to them and they accept everyone as a potential annoying bacillus. In conclusion - if you are not lucky enough to create a meaningful relationship in time, or you have mistaken your profession very well and you are left alone forever. 2) Attempts to improvise live - that is, to try to meet someone somewhere. The women immediately erect a huge barricade and hit a solid beam. It is somewhat understandable - they are oversatisfied, they are constantly stuck to them and they accept everyone as a potential annoying bacillus. In conclusion - if you are not lucky enough to create a meaningful relationship in time, or you have mistaken your profession very well and you are left alone forever. 2) Attempts to improvise live - that is, to try to meet someone somewhere. The women immediately erect a huge barricade and hit a solid beam. It is somewhat understandable - they are oversatisfied, they are constantly stuck to them and they accept everyone as a potential annoying bacillus. In conclusion - if you are not lucky enough to create a meaningful relationship in time, or you have mistaken your profession very well and you are left alone forever.
Dude, this is unimaginable nonsense. I had boyfriends from Tinder, Facebook, Instagram, Gepime, Flirtche, dir.bg and daji mirC 101 years ago. To a serious one. And to one interested. The fact that someone is dumb to gyon and can't offer more than his embossed body and limited mind ... is a separate issue. "I had mutual sympathy" is enough to see what kind of case you are and it becomes clear to me why your success is zero. And I will continue to "cause" it. Brother.
And I think dating should happen live. If I still happen to like someone on the net, I look to quickly arrange a meeting to find out if we will like each other live. The other is unnecessary procrastination, and I quickly lose interest without seeing the person.
Well, we understand, women are to blame again. Anything else?
There are only some economists with UNWE, NBU, ie. with Mickey Mouse diplomas.
Brothers, I see you signed under any topic, only as a person with high success I see you. It is an indisputable fact that these applications are a waste of time and have nothing to do with reality. If someone succeeds there, then he really falls into something like a modern stereotype. For example, I know a brutal jerk, he grabbed a few from there. I don't envy him at all, because I wouldn't want to be with his behavior. People like him usually only dig and stick a check on porn sites, but the catch in these applications is the same. To pretend from nothing to something. Some people sign up and get downright funny. You've been a companion five times and caught a boyfriend once and you know everything. Of our 20 people, I don't know if anyone has caught anything, and most of them will make you laugh, Brother.
You see things very one-sidedly - "they don't tie me, so they won't tie you, don't waste your time" .... I'm 50, normal looking, literate, intelligent and have lived in different parts of the world. Since I broke up with my wife (about 6 years already), I have "released the tentacles" in Gepime, Tinder, Elmaz, etc. and I have to admit that I'm shackled by sex. In my case, the opposite is true: most ladies want something serious, while I don't. I've gotten to the point where the more regular ones know they're not the only ones and I'm knocking others out. A kind of harem with a few permanent and a few more irregular ... The ladies are very different, both in age and social status. From gold diggers to very financially stable, from muffins with dreams for children and travel, through ladies with a solid profession and income to married women looking for the thrill of infidelity. In the last 6 years I have fucked more women than in all my previous life. So, don't summarize based on your experience, my experience is completely different. Greetings & good luck ...
As a woman, I also use dating apps. I'm very busy, I don't have much free time for discos and bars. So online dating is a convenient option for me. It is not true that women from Sofia are oversatisfied and do not look for anything online. On the contrary, we are looking for. Personally, as I have mutual sympathy, I write to the man opposite. I am personally annoyed by people who want a meeting in the third sentence and especially those who invite me to them. Even if I wrote to someone for a little longer and instead of seeing each other over coffee, for example, he called me to them, I just stopped talking to him and disappeared. Even for one sex, I'm still dumb to get used to them. Not only my personal experience, but also the experience of my acquaintances shows that men of this type of applications are only for the number. They don't even look for friendship with privileges. Someone in the above comments had said that dating should happen live. As I said, I don't have much time for going out, but my work is connected with constant live contact with people. I met a lot of men there. Many of them have not even heard of such applications and sites, but the situation is identical. The dirty conversations and the invitations to the homes start again. I don't think that women, but men, are oversatisfied these days. And not only those in Sofia. The market is crowded, starting at the age of 16, so there are women, and my mother's age is somewhere around 50. So the gentlemen, if they don't like it a little, if you do something wrong to them, take their "luggage" and go to the next one. I'm not even talking about the most advanced in terms of appearance, finances and social status, but the most ordinary average man. They pull,
Up to 5, objectively speaking are guilty, and? Women who soak in dating apps and sites for chat, because their imaginary ideas do not fit into the reality that they themselves do not understand, are deluded and very stupid. Fantastic men do not exist. Besides, if some manage to meet women there, they are hardly the smartest and most resourceful men. It turns out that we are 90 percent total damage jerks, and I do not believe it. :) in fact, zero success rate have at least 95 out of 100 with an account. Evalarka for temichka, is useful and opens the eyes of young boys.
Are you serious! I am a woman. Yes, I am not registered in these new applications, but I am in a diamond. Appearance matters, but more important is what's in the head. And Bratan is right. If you can't keep a woman or take her out of cyberspace, look for the problem in yourself!
Hello ! I am 23 years old. I used Tinder for 2 and a half years and during that time I went out with about 6-7 boys. I had a relationship with one of them for a year and a half, and with the other for 2 months. Many men and women are looking for serious relationships there. I have refused many who have written to me because they seem too aggressive, impudent and rude. From the first 15 minutes of chat, they invite you to their house or for coffee. Men are used to things happening fast, and women are not. And yes, many people are there just to caress their ego or want to be brave, but they do not hold. It all depends on luck and how much you can judge people.
Personally, I have no problem in communicating with women live, and in the applications nothing is understood and almost not written. Their assessment is super unrealistic and they bypass everyone, quite often. Many people fail in these applications. These are ineffective methods of finding women, ineffective for the mass of men. I even wonder why women hang out there. From stupidity and just write to each other.
Women hang out there to watch your fair and laugh at your stupid "strategies", haven't you figured it out yet?!? Hahaha
up to 14 Well, there aren't that many smart women there, believe me ...
Until 14 I have sex, let them think my name is Radostin from Plovdiv and write to me on the fake face, so let them laugh;)
And I agree with Bratan. I've also had a lot of relationships that started online and even more… let's call it flirting - with or without sex. Maybe there is a difference in age and how mature people are. I also agree with number 4. The meeting either happens quickly or does not happen at all - at least that is my experience. I see that number 9 - as a woman does not think so, but - this is my experience. The longer I write to someone, the greater the chances that she is on the site to scratch her ego and is most likely committed.
A quick meeting from social applications, possibly if the woman is on the lookout or you have directly agreed on the extras and tips. You have to be hyper charming and charming to show such extreme interest. Ah, the many meetings have nothing to comment on at all. It's a little "I've met bears in the woods many times." Live in real time, in real time. Pay for loans, see which one you like, find love - Let's lie to you! This is not serious at all.
I am a woman and I do not agree with you 17! I've come across enough freaks who at first looked normal and had an intelligent and pleasant conversation. I'm not in a hurry with meetings anymore. I give myself enough time to write on the site itself non-committal, then we switch to personal, either face or viber. Everything usually emerges there. If we succeed there only then meet :)
Well - this is my experience number 20. In these sites, the attention is held for a short time. Both men and women. You can't expect someone to communicate with you alone. Giving my Facebook profile to a dating site is absurd that I would never allow myself. The meeting is far less engaging. Number 17.
I am a woman. I had 4 connections. Serious, from a dating site when they were fashionable and a short one (we met in the "real world"). I have been with one of the three on the internet for 10 years now. We are married. I think your problem is elsewhere.
Ma, of course 22, how he is not ashamed that they are limited and do not write to him.
I will allow myself to paraphrase a thought of John Lennon's "Life is what happens as we make plans." Dating, liking and connections in the real world happen as you write, lengthen and offer it in various applications and sites. Everything that is valuable does not need to hang there once it receives enough attention in reality. I don't know if you really save some time, as one woman writes above, if instead of going out you dig through the net, you write with someone / and in the end you still go out again to see him / her live. And if it doesn't appeal to you, writing is a waste of time.
I'm a woman I think is not so hopeless in these applications and sites. As number 22 says, long married to a man on the net, I have friends who also met and are now engaged. I've been writing to a guy on the net for a while now. We send each other photos, we write to each other almost constantly, but it doesn't make me see each other. I also don't push myself, because it seems to me that the woman is desperate to strain ... What do you think, she fills her time with a chat with me and scratches her ego, or deliberately doesn't give a damn ... And from her writing it is obvious that he enjoys our conversations ... At the same time he is slightly distant. Tactics or lack of interest? I don't want to ask him directly, because he will consider me a well-filmed Evala for the topic :)
Two lines and hop on a date? : D OK, that's exactly what will happen. : D I like piss with "many" ties from Tinder. Every second man will confirm that if they match 20 times, they won't write you 5, and to see them is already Chimera Impossible, if you know her, She's a good woman.: D Seriously, someone gets the connection, but these are one of 10 and above, a complete delusion. "Chekidzhiya", and the boy had two girlfriends and a mistress of 40 and something, with two children and divorced for ten years. Well, is he a chekidzhiya? 40 !!! And they called me that, even the one who didn't want to let me go and postponed my meeting for three whole months, and she called me a tanned joker, and in the bed he howled like a serpent. And he told me, "exes don't know that, they were boring." Abe, women lose a lot from the stereotypes and prejudices they enslave. First meet, try one and then comment on who can do what! Only live can contact. I don't know what those are tied to them in tinder.
Brotherly joker, the big macho got out, your whole comment (as well as many others) stinks and stinks of complex misery .. And such downloaders (as you described) usually download women in the real world, not the virtual ... I personally every time I would choose face to face, because I can watch the women melt past me and their reactions are strange, no matter what I talk to them, it can not happen virtually, and it is not so interesting and fun .....
I don't mind Bratan, there are even cool comments, but there's really too much thrown out here to make it very busy. He had 1000 "serious" links from sites. If they were so serious, they wouldn't be so many, because the serious ones last for years. Unless he's 60. He listed 7 sites, if each had 1-2 "serious" connections, that's at least 10-20 years of uninterrupted connections in the worst case. And it is precisely from Tinder and Gepime that a serious relationship slightly doubts me. And in general, it is very difficult to find a connection on sites, let alone serious, let alone so many.
The most successful man with women I know is a representative of a large foreign company in Bulgaria, very intelligent, nice, always dressed elegantly, polite, gentleman, generous, women push him, there are no tinders, diamonds and I do not know what sites. So, work on yourself, educate yourself, build a stable career, gain knowledge, in general BE SOMEONE instead of wasting your time with various chats. Then the women will look for you on their own.
I feel sorry for the people who meet in this way ... So something very serious is lame in their lives.