So some time ago my best friend fell in love with a boy and so gradually we gradually started to get together with him and his company. However, he constantly took me down how to say it, but I didn't even pay attention to him, because I know that she likes him and I didn't notice at all what he was saying to me, etc. But time has passed with him, that is, I, my girlfriend, and he continues to be good, Fr. , but I'm starting to like him, she tells me that she hasn't felt anything for him anymore, but it's obvious that she doesn't, and I understand him. At the moment, this boy has a girlfriend, but he continues to treat me as before and I still like him. He has already begun to understand this and is starting to behave even more strangely with me (he calls me, we're going out quite friendly, but ...). I am currently arguing with my friend, that I'm in love with another boy (a nice boy from the neighborhood), but inwardly, I like him. I do not hide anything from her. I always tell her when we go out, where we go, what we do, and in fact we don't do anything that is not normal, that is ... (you understood me;)). We both know and see how things stand. But in spite of everything, he is looking to turn the subject to his girlfriend, what happened last, what they quarreled about, how they broke up. But ... in fact, we both see that things are not like that and that they can't go on like this, that something has to be done, but we cover everything up, as if neither I know what it is about, nor he. we both behave the way we try to do things. I do not know what to do. Should I tell her (she's my best friend after all), whether to hide (everything can go wrong). Nz ... But I know one thing that confuses me a lot - all the boys are the same !!! I don't know if you understand me exactly, but I really need some comment or advice or just something on the subject.
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Hello lovely girl! As a kid, I was in a situation like yours many times, and I think you have to choose between your girlfriend and the boy you like. In no case do not share your feelings for 'her' person - if you do it you will become an enemy no matter how you say it or if he convinces you that there is no problem I guarantee you !! You won't be able to have both, because if you go with the boy, your girlfriend will feel betrayed (even if she doesn't show it). So you have to make a choice - to keep your friendship and end contact with the boy or go with him, but lose your girlfriend. The choice is yours! My advice is leave the gentleman in question to your girlfriend, there are a lot of guys, it's not worth losing her for someone you probably won't stay with for long.
I am 16 years old and I had such a case ... however, I decided to keep my friendship, because the most difficult thing in life is to build the trust of a friend ... and the boy is not the only one, there are better ones than him. with the neighborhood boy and stay friends with the girl. This is my advice: p
My advice is different. I think you should go with the boy. If she's a real friend, she'll stay that way. If he dumps you, you can always make new friends!
After all, what happened?
Emii .. it turns out that the boy really likes me .. but I guess I'm not the only one .. so I chose to keep my friendship ..
I like a girl who is very beautiful and with whom we have a lot in common. In one teacher we go to a teacher together and live in one block. However, she is 6th grade and I am 5. How can I tell her that I like her?
It's like telling my story. I recommend that you tell the boy your feelings for him and then judge. Nz and I exactly but I think this will be the right thing to do. Success!
I think it's better to tell the girl because love has no age. You have already decided whether to tell her
I also have a problem, I like a boy, but I'm afraid to tell him, because if he doesn't like me, he can tell the teacher and make fun of me, I'm 80% sure that he likes me, but I don't know how to tell him.
I really like a boy .... and he offered me to become boyfriends ... but I feel that I'm not ready for a relationship .... and I don't know what to do! I refused him, but I can't stand him !! I want to ask him if he still wants us to become boyfriends, but I'm ashamed! Please advise me what to do!
I like a boy but one day I fucked him with my best fr ........ eaminah ea a few days and she went with him ..... ae raebrah bareo news and called her ... she heartily tried to raem my head and began to justify himself .... ae and I said that everything is fine but in fact it hurt a lot ....... she said that I like it for 3 years and still fuck me in the back. ... she doesn't even like him but he slapped her hard .... sasa this girl we stayed fr but now ae and I don't trust ... she wants to flirt with the boy of my life in front of me ... not once I tried to make fun of this boy, but he still doesn't give up on her as much as he does ..... IF YOU CAN TELL ME WHAT TO DO, HELP ME, because he didn't have any sense in living.
I like a boy but one day I fucked him with my best fr ... eaminah ea a few days and she went with him ... ae raebrah bareo news and called her ... she heartily tried to raemati my head and started to justify myself .... ae and I said that everything is fine but in fact it hurt a lot ... she said that I like him for 3 years and still fuck me in the back .... she doesn't even like him but he's fine slapped on her .... sasa this girl we stayed fr but now ae and I do not trust ... she eebra to earibyava with the boy of my life in front of me ... not once I tried to vraeumya this boy but he still does not gets rid of her as ae from him ... IF YOU CAN TELL ME WHAT TO DO ME HELP eashtoto bee him ae I have no sense to live
I like a girl but I can't tell her in any way because when I look at her I can't say anything meaningful ... She is a year older than me and I don't know what to say to her face or stingy I would never but I don't know what to say to her tell me how to take the first step ... HELP
My situation is similar to that of the submitter. My best friend and I like a boy T. She is his boyfriend, but he doesn't look happy ... T. and I mostly wrote to each other on Skype and I'm not used to his voice, his eyes, or anything. We go table tennis together, and I stare at it. Talking nonsense. I don't know how to deal with him. He asks me if I still like him (he knew, he asks me on Skype) and I didn't know what to tell him. I replied to ask him why he asked me the question, since he knew ... He told me it was a secret. What to do in the following situation? How to deal with it? How can I make him ... I don't know if he's jealous? I need help! I'm from 6th grade!
I also like a boy, but I don't dare tell him, because I'm afraid of pushing him away. I have his number, I have his skype and we are constantly in touch. He says he has a girlfriend in Varna, but I don't believe him. I went to all sorts of sites to find out if I liked it. and the worst part is that my girlfriend is crazy about him too. I would be happy to share it, but I know that she will kill me a lot, and she won't want me as a friend anymore. I need help, an hour soon. Plus !!!
Hi, I'm a 7th grade girl .. me and my best fr like the same boy, but I've liked him for half a year, and she for 3 years. I used to go with this boy, but I could see that she didn't like it (even if she said so). I broke up with him then so as not to hurt my girlfriend. But I haven't stopped liking him since, but no one knows. Now he probably still likes me, but I don't know if it would be good to go with him again. Will I lose my girlfriend because of this ?? Some people tell me that if she is a real friend she will forgive me. Is that correct? Please help me.. ! Thanks in advance ....
I don't think you have to fight with your girlfriend because of a boy. Let the boy choose between you. And it will be even better for both of you to forget it. People have said, "The moment a girl falls in love is when she forgets that there are thousands of other boys in the world besides what she likes ...". It's completely true. There are many other boys / It will be difficult at first, but forget it. I think that would be best. I say it from personal experience.
I have the same problem. I am 13 years old and I like a boy who is as big as me. very cute. my best friend liked it too, but not anymore. she had even confessed to him, but he told her he didn't like her. we have known him since kindergarten, and she has known him for 1 year. we were best friends with him since childhood, but when she appeared in my life we became best friends with her, and he found a best friend, a boy, and so we remained just friends with him. we haven't seen him since he finished kindergarten, even though he lives next door to us and we're in the same school. ever since my friend told me she liked him, we started seeing each other at school and he always smiled at me. I like everything in it, even the way I dress. i've liked him for 3 months but i'm just ashamed to admit it to him. we have common interests in many things, but the problem is that I am 165 cm and he is 163 cm. I am 63 kg and he is 47 kg. but it doesn't look so weak. it is not thick, it is quite stiff. very cute. when I saw him, my heart beat. I told my friend and she advised me to admit it, but I can't. we are both popular in school. he is very kind to me. he always pays attention to me, comes and approaches me. we talk. when I'm sad and bored he cheers me up and makes me laugh. he's awesome! I trust him. can keep secrets. he finished it with us and he invited me. the best man in the world I know. but now we're in a fight and I just don't know how to get along. it all started with me. I joked with him on Facebook, but he didn't understand the joke and was angry with me. I do not know what to do. I'm thinking of a plan to buy a buggy and a helmet and pretend to be a boy, who knows me and gives advice to the boy I like to get along, but I don't think the idea is good. help me
I'm in your position too. Some time ago in a teacher we gathered 2 boys and 2 girls. Both boys were like brothers to me (and I know what it's like to have a brother), but I liked one and I was convinced that he liked me too. After a while, more people from the class joined this group, and one of the girls fell in love with my other "brother". He used me for a while to cut her off, and she (she was my NDP) was constantly angry with me. I didn't feel anything for him, but after 1-2 months my heart was pounding and I saw him ... So now I have to choose between "my brothers" and my NDP
Interesting story. I just don't know what to do like you. If I choose my NDP, I will always think about it again. but if I choose him, my NDP will be angry with me. if there could be any sign to tell me what to do .... maybe then I would make the right decision. if I had both it would be nice, but I wouldn't have time for both. I see her every day, but if I tell her, for example, that I'm going out with him and we want to be alone, she'll want to come. she gets a little annoyed because she boils everywhere and pampers herself a little, because if, for example, I tell her it's time to leave because I'm tired, she'll get angry and make faces. it's so "glued" to me that I have no freedom. I do not know what to do. help !!!!
I have such a problem too! I do not know what to do, but just better bring your girlfriend to clarify. : - / Better to talk about it than to be angry with each other!
I don't think this boy is for you, he likes your girlfriend, he has a boyfriend and he likes you, but you know him better, so you decide ... Good luck :-)
I think you should? you say. After all, that's what friends are for :)
I like a boy but NDP also likes him even when I talk to him on Skype she keeps calling him she is like a magnet is always glued so to speak about him. Please give me some advice on what to do. Please help me!
I think boys come and go, and friends stay forever. But I also need help, there is a boy that I like recently, but my girlfriend likes him too, they share everything with me and so do I, but I don't like that boy. I think if I tell her she will hate me or she will understand me.
Hello! I like a boy, but he is a boyfriend with a friend of mine (we are not bff but still) he told me that he liked me last year and I wonder if I should tell him how I feel, otherwise he will decide. Give advice!
I like a boy, he's as big as me. Sometimes I think he likes me, but other times he doesn't pay attention to me. We have known him since we were 3 years old. We are both in seventh grade, but in different classes. That's why we don't see each other very often. Some time ago, my "fr" shouted at him through the school windows that I liked him. After a while, he asked me if it was true that I liked him, and I denied it. So as not to spoil our friendship! Please help me!!! Give me advice on what to do! Did I do the right thing ??? :(
Hi, I'm in the same situation. So last year I went out in a company where I and my two NDPs were, they both started liking the same boy, but he only liked one, but he knew the other girl liked him after she told him, later we stopped going out with this company and 1 of the two liked it more. After 4 months, the girl and I started again, which he did not like, but he knew that she liked him to go out with them, once we played on challenges, because it was raining outside, we were in a shack and I had to kiss the same boy on the cheek as and the guy I liked before while I was in the company and it didn't end well, but the nasty thing is that now he started to hang out with me, but I'm sure it's nothing, I and the other girl like him plus I think I like him and a boy which is in my class and we used to be boyfriends. what to do?
Hello :)! I like the boyfriend of my best fr .. (I arranged them I don't know why I did it, but I imagined I didn't like him), but after they left I realized that I still have feelings for him, and they have been going for 1 month .. what to do??
to 37 Reconcile and do not interfere.
I can't help you, but I'm in a similar situation right now. But I know how you feel, and it feels really bad.