Hello..! I am 15 and I have a best friend as a normal teenager! One week ago I discovered that my girlfriend was a lesbian. He invited me to sleep with them ... to come at 18:00. She lives in a 4-storey building with her parents and her younger sister. I went into her room and saw that she was watching lesbian porn. She was startled and immediately changed the channel, but I had seen ..! She said hello to me and I sat on the bed. I asked her what was going on and why she was watching lesbian porn ...! At first she told me that I had a vision, but after a while she admitted it! She even said that she was in love with me and that she called me tonight because she wanted us to have sex! We have known each other since we were 4 years old and I love her very much as a friend. I'm normal and I told her it wouldn't happen anyway! She was sad and tilted her head ... I had never seen her so sad. I didn't want to look at her like that and only for that I told her that I would allow her 1 kiss on the mouth to calm down a bit ..! She immediately lifted her spirits and kissed me passionately with her tongue. I didn't feel anything ... I didn't like it! After this kiss we continued the night with ordinary things - movies, popcorn! No offensive comments please! I want you to express your opinion to try to change it or leave it as it is ..! ;)
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Amy, you can't change her because it's not up to you or her. Tell her that the world is not over with you and she should remove you from the list of possible partners because your desires are different. Just stay friends.
You can't change it, even if you try! Don't give her kisses and don't accept more kisses from her .. Or find a lesbian; e For me personally, around a lesbian I will feel like I'm next to a boy with different attributes. Oh, for me personally, the opposite ones get on my nerves ..
Meersii :)
You were wrong with the kiss, it was the opposite of your words. You will lose her as a friend whether you sleep with her or not, but you better not. Let your friendship cool down and become a simple friendship, she will eventually find girlfriends with the same inclination, the connections between them are very strong, but full of chaotic feelings, you do not need.
On the contrary. I'm of the opinion that you don't even have to do anything other than be yourself. It will change without the need for anyone's intervention. These are hormones that rage in her. Just give her time. Be a real friend too. She will grow up alone and meet some nice boy ... :-)
I agree with number 5, it will change!