Hello. Well, it's about my best friend being always better than me at all! In teaching, she is always considered better, although she is nothing who knows what, she is always more liked, always when I introduce her to my friends and they like her more ... What should I do?
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And I'm like that .. even at one time I didn't want to go anywhere with her, even for coffee ..
Emmy, accept it, that's life. And besides your good friends, you can also meet nice people, who knows ...
Find another girlfriend, since you are such an enviable creature ... Honestly, I can't understand you ... How do you choose and determine your best girlfriends? On what? is the attitude towards you or what is the attitude of the society towards "your best friend"?
Number 3, you're right, but put yourself in the girl's shoes. How would you feel if your closest person always displaces you in everything? Won't it be naughty? If it's someone you hate, it's one thing, but when it's someone you love, it's another.
Familiar feeling, but not bothered. Believe me, she's not better at everything than you, you just haven't discovered that yet. :-) Smile, be positive and kind. There's no way they'll like you less than her if you're a cool person, and I believe you are.
I used to be in your girlfriend's situation. So the girl who was in your place lost a very valuable and true friend and I am sure she will regret it for the rest of her life. Focus on your friendship with her, and there will be someone to appreciate you.
Some people deliberately find friends from whom they are better so that they can stand out in front of them and thus satisfy their ego. Two options - be ambitious and become better than her or find something from your rug :)
I'm number 3. I've never paid attention to who my friends like, what they're good at and what they're not. The important thing is to have a real friendship and I look at how they treat me and my friendship, not how society treats them!
And you call yourself a girlfriend? Dependent ****** ..
Nonsense! you are better than her ... in envy and malice at least ..; x
If she's a real friend to you, you should be glad that others like her as much as you do to be her friend. If you are really friends, you should not envy yourself, but enjoy your success, if not, then you are not friends. That's how I understand friendship. In school, you can catch up with learning, in society - with charm and ability to communicate, with knowledge. But the most important thing is that in order to be liked by a person, he tried to do it, and not because he is more beautiful or with some great qualities, he tried to improve his behavior in communication. You can observe it and find the differences, and then try to model your behavior. But don't be jealous, it's just a lesson that will be useful for you, first understand yourself.
Look darling. I know very well how you feel, because I am like that at times. You just have to like yourself the most and as I read from some comments, be glad that your girlfriends like her. If you like yourself, you don't pay attention to what others are saying.