Hi I'm a girl and my "problem" is that my best friend is dirty. I mean, her hygiene is very low. She doesn't have the slightest habit of washing her hands before eating, after touching her pets, after going to the toilet ... I'm sick of talking bad things about her, but that's the way it is. There is no problem with the above things, although I make a remark when we are in them, but when we are in them there is no way, but there are others that are disgusting ... I constantly lie to her that I am not hungry when we are in them because she puts her cats from this plate she ate .... I don't know if I eat or drink from a plate that even a cat hasn't sharpened its saliva inside .... disgusting .... once I told her and she replied "well, mom put it downstairs and what of that, then these dishes are washed ". I'm afraid for my health and for hers, after all, they are animals, they go everywhere, they eat beetles, mice and all sorts of such contagious reptiles, they wash their asses with their tongues and then with that same tongue they eat from the plate she eats from. .. it's dangerous isn't it ??? But she doesn't understand me, tell me how to explain it to her? !!
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No, once the dishes are washed there is no problem. The problem is that she doesn't wash her hands or take a shower. By the way, many people are so dirty your girlfriend is not the only one. In principle, it does not hurt, but if you do it will rarely hurt.
Well, you rub your ass, and after you wash, you eat with those same hands.
It is disgusting for a girl and a woman not to have basic hygiene habits. Say it delicately, if you think you will upset her, if you do not act directly - it will be naughty, but this is exactly the idea to affect and begin to maintain. If you are so different, dump her and you will find new friends, not only her. I don't know which man would tolerate such a woman next to him unless he is the same sloppy, then they will look like a resemblance! Say these things too, but don't expect a big change if she hasn't learned a lesson so far. For example, my grandmother is the same pile of unwashed dishes on the table, she washes the clothes by melting them in the basin and takes them out again for "dessert" in the house and there are fleas. Every time I go and visit I am always bitten. My father visited her last week and he came back cruelly eaten. We talked and to take action she starts to pretend to be crazy and claims that she is not and that she has cleared everything. The last time she called, I couldn't stand it and raised my voice and said: If you don't clean your house and call a company, I'll stop visiting you! She promised to clean up, and in two days she knew hers again. Well, the neighbor next to her also has animals, but she doesn't have fleas, because she washes and cleans and deworms most likely the dogs and cats, and she is 10 years older. If this friend of yours continues in the same spirit, like my grandmother, run away from her and that's it! J. 23 Well, the neighbor next to her also has animals, but she doesn't have fleas, because she washes and cleans and deworms most likely the dogs and cats, and she is 10 years older. If this friend of yours continues in the same spirit, like my grandmother, for example, run away from her and that's it! J. 23 Well, the neighbor next to her also has animals, but she doesn't have fleas, because she washes and cleans and deworms most likely the dogs and cats, and she is 10 years older. If this friend of yours continues in the same spirit, like my grandmother, run away from her and that's it! J. 23
And since her hygiene is "at such a low level", has she ever gotten sick and died accidentally? You seem to be overjoyed! You don't have to go through chlorinated lime to survive in this world ... Keep in mind that 2 billion people in the world don't have access to drinking water every day ... let alone wash, etc. A little more -Calm down! From a lot of "hygiene" and anti-bacterial soaps do you know what warts grow and all sorts of horrors. Teeth drill and fall out during daily brushing, rather than whitening. Let the fact that she comes to life, despite your persistent feeling that at any moment it will be a clear example to you that you (or rather your upbringing ..) overplay, and with a lot ...
I also feed my cats from my plate after I have finished eating and there is something left, but mine do not go outside, they are vaccinated and I bathe them every two weeks. Then boil water in a jug until it boils and pour over the plate. I only do this if there is food left and it will be harder for me to throw it somewhere, otherwise the cats have their bowls. I don't have anything yet. But, looking for a cat and eating the whole in your fur with your fingers sucks and even if the kitten is supposed to be clean, you never know where it has boiled. See, just explain that you can get sick if the cat is not vaccinated and examined. There are diseases that are dangerous for humans, but not for cats, hygiene should not be neglected lightly. If her cat goes outside, it's crazy to eat after touching her, it's like pouring food on the floor and eating from there.
4 I actually use plastic gloves and then sanitize my hands, even though there is no contact ....
The answers show that you are answered by the same scumbags as your girlfriend. And no, it's not normal for animals and humans to eat from the same plate, even if it's washed afterwards. Not to comment on other things. It is understandable for a person even with good hygiene to be disgusted by such things. the bad thing, though, is that if you've already told your girlfriend these things and she keeps doing them and doesn't see anything wrong, then she'll never change. You have to decide if you can tolerate it or give up your friendship. On the one hand, if she is a great person, someone will say, what so much, appreciate her for her other qualities, but my opinion is that what qualities can a person who does not have basic hygiene have. It and cats sometimes do not eat salami that a person has licked before.
You have to re-educate her or you have to become a mess to solve the problem. He and I love petting cats, but right after that I try to wash my hands before using them for anything else. Some people need basic hygiene habits. These things should be taught in school as a separate subject in life habits - how to wash hands, ears, nose, hair, teeth, eyes, ass, etc., as well as how and when to cut nails, how to wipe and washes after a small and big need and everything you need in the life and social life of a person. And not just theory, but visual practice to get in the habit.
I would not eat in such a bowl or plate, if it is in a dishwasher at 70 degrees. There are bowls for animals. It becomes misery.
It's good to rethink your way of speaking, people are different, whatever it is, it's good to be more measured in fairy tales, it will only benefit you.
This is how your friend was taught and brought up. Apparently her parents did not take care to create basic hygiene habits for her, and most likely they do not have them. If she saw it at home, so did she. You can keep telling her that she has to wash her hands and take care of her hygiene, but until she realizes it herself, nothing will happen. When he grows up a little more and sees what others are doing, he can feel it. Maybe if you like a boy, he will start paying more attention ... and the other option is to stay that way. There are an awful lot of immortal people who don't care if they are clean or not, don't bathe, don't wash their clothes and the like. This is very repulsive, but a fact.
Find other girlfriends, how can you even communicate with such a girl? 90% of men have better hygiene than hers
N. 3 you seem to be the same as the author's girlfriend. You probably don't use toilet paper when you go to the toilet when you need to. Yes, go on naturally. Author, no matter what you explain to her, she will not understand you. People like her and the like are human pigs. Can you tell a pig not to get in the mud and not to wallow in the mud? Impossible. I want to ask you why you can't find another girlfriend if that's possible! You're right that you don't eat in them, I would do the same, but I wouldn't let her be my friend. I can imagine what intimate hygiene she maintains after she doesn't notice what goes into her mouth. Just when I think about it, she repays me. Every time I go to the toilet, I go into the bathroom and wash the bottom with a shower. I advise you to find another friend (s) with whom to be in the same league by habits and prohibitions. I wish you luck.
I have often seen both men and women let dogs lick their mouths. I once watched an elderly woman lead a small dog down the street, and that dog smelled some sputum on the ground, bent down and came out, and the woman watched him as he came out. And this woman at home will probably kiss her dog. I was disgusted by the sight, I wanted to make a remark to her, but I kept quiet. Some people are worse than animals.
I have often seen both men and women let dogs lick their mouths. I once watched an elderly woman lead a small dog down the street, and that dog smelled some sputum on the ground, bent down and came out, and the woman watched him as he came out. And this woman at home will probably kiss her dog. I was disgusted by the sight, I wanted to make a remark to her, but I kept quiet. Some people are worse than animals.
I have often seen both men and women let dogs lick their mouths. I once watched an elderly woman lead a small dog down the street, and that dog smelled some sputum on the ground, bent down and came out, and the woman watched him as he came out. And this woman at home will probably kiss her dog. I was disgusted by the sight, I wanted to make a remark to her, but I kept quiet. Some people are worse than animals.
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