Hello! I want to ask you to publish my story because I really need help. I have a problem with my best friend, with whom I have known for a long time and she has always been good and kind to everyone, but lately she has been behaving horribly with me. I am jealous of my other friends, who are not many, because we live in a small town. If I put a picture with another girl, she sends it to me and shouts: "Well, go out with her and don't bother me anymore." Then I usually apologize, even though I didn't do anything. She gets angry for complete nonsense, such as if I'm online and haven't seen her message for 1 minute, or if she offers me to go somewhere and I refuse because I can't. She's angry about absolutely everything without exception and usually, and if it doesn't happen to her, she just starts filming, she even happened to block me. This is not only with me, but also with her other friends, but because I am the closest and she knows that I will always apologize, she allows herself the most with me. When I see that she wrote me something, I shudder for fear that she will be angry about something small. I just don't have the strength to stand up to her and show character. I already feel exhausted from all her changeable moods. I don't know if he does it on purpose or not, but it becomes unbearable. Please help me, because I'm tired of being childish, trampling on me and making fun of me, but at the same time I love her very much and I don't want to end our relationship. I just don't have the strength to stand up to her and show character. I already feel exhausted from all her changeable moods. I don't know if he does it on purpose or not, but it becomes unbearable. Please help me, because I'm tired of being childish, trampling on me and making fun of me, but at the same time I love her very much and I don't want to end our relationship. I just don't have the strength to stand up to her and show character. I already feel exhausted from all her changeable moods. I don't know if he does it on purpose or not, but it becomes unbearable. Please help me, because I'm tired of being childish, trampling on me and making fun of me, but at the same time I love her very much and I don't want to end our relationship.
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Leave her ... you will see how she will pray for you later ... there will be no one else, but it will be too late.
Beat and joke and that's it! Life is too short to poison your nerves with such people!
She is not your friend. He uses you to make fun of you and make fun of you. Stop talking to her. This is not a friendship, but a subtle way of harassment. Leave her, soon no one will communicate with her. Love yourself first and don't let anyone treat you like that.
Hi, I have exactly the same girlfriend and I am in the same situation. Girl, 12
Unfortunately, your girlfriend will not change. In the comments above, people are right - this is a form of harassment. I advise you to tactfully withdraw, because believe me, all your life you will give explanations that no one has the right to ask you. You don't have to explain why there are other people in the world and they are interesting to you, you don't have to read and see the messages all the time, you don't have to go out ... Don't let her bother you. Don't apologize for something you don't feel guilty about. Just step back this is my advice. _lo_
From the author: You're right! But she's just terribly close to me and I can't do that to her, "I'm kidding." Because I always apologize for everything, even if I'm not guilty of anything, she got on my head. When we fight again, and I'm sure she'll find something to be angry about, I'll leave her and I won't apologize, and I hope she understands that she's wrong and that I won't apologize every time. Thanks to everyone for the comments!
Just sit down and talk to her. Explain that you don't want to be friends with her if she does. Tell her you want your old girlfriend, that you don't like her obsessing over you like that. If she still doesn't understand you, make a joke of her.