My biggest mistake in life. I lost the girl I was in three years ago and I'm still in love. I don't know how it happened, but her feelings for me just cooled. Maybe the excessive suffocation and trying to get her back then pushed her away even more. I tried to replace it, but it didn't work. I have the feeling that I confused this life the moment I lost it. For me, she is the woman of my life and there is not a day that I don't think about what it would be like if we were together. Maybe there is no evening in which I do not remember our moments together, the love that I gave her too. I know I'm a fool. I know and feel that every time I am born I will look for her. I strongly believe in my other life to meet her again, but under different circumstances ... I didn't believe in these things before, but now I know that true love meets once. And maybe this love has such power that it stays in your soul forever. I will always look for her, just her. Exactly that smile, eyes, voice. Maybe I'll fall in love again, someday, but I still can't wait to start all over again ... I feel guilty. I feel guilty for confusing everything, for distorting the line of my destiny. And now I'm paying for it. Now another lives my life. And I'm waiting ... For another chance ...
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This is very difficult. But there is usually no way back. There is a lot of love in life, but there is always someone unforgiving. It will warm your bed one day, but your heart will not warm. After all, you will meet some beautiful love and you will learn to live with it. Don't make the same mistakes. I also can't overcome an impossible love and I won't have enough for the rest of my life. I keep praying and I hope to meet him next time and this time there will be no obstacles. Be strong, be happy!
I think you need a psychiatrist. I'm not picky, it's just obvious that you need help. What is this mania for a woman? How old are you?
It seems so to you, it's in your head. You will meet someone else with whom you will fit. Don't be such a fatalist
I completely understand you, my friend. There is no such power in the world or advice to help you. The only option, no matter how banal it sounds, is to let time heal you. The most important thing is not to despair and keep moving forward in the hope that you will meet the girl for you again. It can be funny. but it may be right in front of your eyes. Just blinded by your old love, you can't see it. Give your life a second chance, and be healthy! :)
Look, I didn't understand from the whole thing why you lost her. Did she decide one day that she wanted to leave you, out of nowhere, or did you not appreciate her for a long time - did you prefer your friends or parents, did you cheat on her, or did you play games instead of her, etc.? Because if it's the first one, know that you're probably not guilty. In many cases, just love is not enough. If she left suddenly, the only thing I would justify this action is if she wanted to learn and develop in a field, and you wanted, for example, to be a general worker only, without a desire to grow in life in any way. way, or you stopped it from developing. If that's not the reason, it's not your fault. I will tell you an example of my life. In high school, I fell in love with a boy. In the beginning, he had feelings for me, but we didn't admit it, we were small and we just hung out like little children. It was obvious that we wanted each other, we were always together. Over the years, however, my feelings grew, his I saw were hesitant, I did not know what was happening, but we could not clarify. Something was happening and he was hesitant or things were failing. Gradually he began to ignore me, to behave hellishly dumb with me, and I finally realized that the whole thing was because he was ashamed of me in front of his friends. They didn't know me, but they didn't like me because they had heard nonsense about me and filled his head with the same. And I really, if he had shown me a little bit that he wanted to be with me, I would have been only with him, supporting him and being devoted to him. I waited for him for years, but he didn't come. I blamed myself, we tried to clarify, but it didn't work out. And one day I just met another person and now I understand that it wasn't my fault. Maybe he is not in it, he just is not mature enough for such feelings, as well as to overcome himself and his stupid environment. Now he is still alone. I have a great boy by my side. So, it's not always our fault, sometimes things just happen and love is not enough. I wish you peace and a new, healthy relationship! Love does not always have to hurt.
I'm going through the same friend ... as advice I can give you, never lose heart, look at your life and move on. With so much thinking, your head will burst, your self-confidence will collapse and you will not be able to find another love - and maybe it will be bigger! I do not want to give you empty hopes, but fate may meet you again, but then you must be prepared for it, to have climbed many steps. Do not give up! Push forward with all your might!
You overdo it with drama, "mistake in life", "woman of life", "lines of destiny" and others. lunch TV serial expressions. You sound like a doll on Facebook on a name day. Without seeing the young lady in question, I am sure that every day you see 5-6 better looking and more pleasantly behaving young ladies. Isn't your testosterone low?
Learn that the relationship is a choice between the two, not just you. You dig too deep and relate. They clung to illusions and dreams. Live your life. No one will tolerate you if you suffocate her.
It is not forgotten, but returned.
Don't play with substitutes. Look for her, make things right. There are no irreparable relationships, only those with increased complexity, which you need to approach with more attention and perseverance.
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I support t10tanahte men beter women. She sulks and leaves her husband with a big Ego. And what happens - you enter a maze and there is no way out of it with the self-accused. Whatever has happened between you and there are still terrible feelings is gone. If you have to, you take the initiative to clarify in private or a well-thought-out message and believe me, there is no way to be in a pure relationship. You also show courage in being responsible for the relationship. So who is not wrong? Problems are to be solved, not avoided. If they want two people to walk together in one direction. everything is achievable. ..