Hello, I am 17 years old and my boyfriend and I have already done it several times, but for some time he has no desire and does not want to, even when he sees that I want him very much. I don't understand what the problem is, the previous times everything was fine and I didn't notice any problem. So far I have not heard of a man who refuses sex to his girlfriend. (It even sounds strange to me) Please advice. What to do?
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He has cheated on you and now his conscience is bothering him.
And it was strange to me, BOY to refuse sex .. there are several options. "He's cheating on you, he's happy, and that's why he doesn't want to." "He doesn't like having sex with you." "He's tired, or something's stopping him." - There is a problem with erection. There must be trust between you, try to understand what worries him, the person may have a problem. Be vigilant with him and you will understand everything. - And smart :)
Unfortunately, there is nothing strange, nowadays women are constantly neglected at the expense of porn, which men are used to and will never give up ...
There is nothing strange to you, now men refuse sex en masse. Is it because of some filth in the food in the shops, is it because of the stress or something else, but it is a fact. Many men refuse sex. Talk to him about the possible reasons for this and you will find out.
Just ask him why he doesn't want you? What's the problem ... and is there anything specific you'd like you to do for him ... to make him feel like it? The more devoted you are to the person next to you, the more he will be happy with you, appreciate you and want you. And, if he is the next one who has no feelings and only wants sex and then you break up ... he will learn in a more painful way what girl he lost and how much and what you did for him. Love, love and only love! But ... only to those who deserve it. :)