I ask the admins to approve the topic because it is important to me and I need help! Hello, I am a girl of 19 and I have a friend of 21. He has been a virgin for a long time and I think that soon the work will be done. I'm sorry there are no commas. I wonder what I can do to make him feel good. It's not very annoying, it's not very big and it ends quickly. They only made him French love a long time ago. The girl who did it is an acquaintance of mine and she told me these details. I have a few questions: How should I approach him at the moment, should I be more impudent and sexy or be gentle and careful? how would you like it (question to men) Should I compliment him and say dirty things to him? Things like "very big" "very nice" "I want you" and so on. tn. Which poses are suitable for the first time? Let the men answer my questions and the women give me advice if they have been with a virgin boy, thank you in advance!
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Wow ... I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 21 and he was also a virgin, just like me, and I was just wondering if I should start the same topic ....: D So. I'll tell you how it turned out. When we felt we wanted to get there, we tried, but nothing worked because it belonged to him. We tried about 3 or 4 times on different days, still the same story .. It really liked him, because he could not hit the place where to put it, I know it sounds funny ..: D And in general out of concern on his part nothing it didn't work .. At one point I started to despair a little, because my past friend was also a virgin and the same thing happened to him - out of worry NOTHING can end ... And now that the story is repeated, I feel sick to emphasize that I predisposed them both when I felt that there was a need, nothing happened with the first one, whatever we tried, I told myself that in the end I was clearly not meant to be with him, we later broke up for other reasons. Now to the essential part, how the work turned out: I began to think that I should take the initiative and predispose him EVEN more, by attacking him a kind and telling him how much I want him. Suddenly, he didn't expect it at all, I rushed to kiss him very passionately and to behave more defiantly, to tell him how much I want him, how I want him to fuck me, to make sounds and to behave like a whore in general. I started to lick him, to rub in him and in general we got very hot ... again it took some time until the work was done, but FINALLY it happened ... Another question is that I didn't like it at all, ha ha, but it's clear that it will be so .. Well. My advice to you is to take the initiative, as I did, because this seems to me to be the most adequate solution in this situation. BUT a lot depends on what the boy likes .. for example ... I, as well as my friend, like more rude things, slapping me in the face, spitting at me, we also did these things, and I think they helped to relax enough to get it .. I GUARANTEE that if you start acting like a whore and a slut she will go crazy and will not resist. If it doesn't work ... well, I don't know. I don't know what kind of man this is. : D Also, it's important to relax. And it was not easy for me to take the initiative, because I am more anxious in principle and I do not like to be dominant, but at one point it just came from inside me and I said to myself, come on, that ...: D Very, very success, I hope I wish I was helpful! <3 And one more thing - you don't have to do all the things I've done, first you need to know what your partner likes, do ONLY what gives pleasure to both you and him. :) In my opinion, first find out what brings you pleasure and then move on to the real part, because after all, to drive him crazy, you need to know how ..
For the posture, let him be on top as a start and compliment him that he is good and so on and he will relax
Everything is individual, no two fingers are the same, and you think people are the same !? Strain was blown to him, so he felt what it was like to put it in holes. If your vagina is no different from your mouth, at least there are no teeth there, what do you care? If he sticks it, what's the problem with trampling it and that's it, there are no drums to beat !? And once you've developed it, everything is OK! The problem will be the rapid ejaculation, you women are insatiable, you want the man to be like a machine, to hold like a vibrator until you turn off the button, this is the problem of men, how will you work there, this is God's work !? And for the pretense of being big and beautiful, your tongue will not fall out, and your friend will be ready to hear such boasting. Rough women are disgusting, God has made them to be fine and humble! Good luck in mating!
You ask things that everyone likes differently ... I don't think that with the impudent behavior and talking about dirt is a good strategy. The woman should be kind, accepting, not to take away the man's seniority (at least in this respect) - this, in my opinion, would ignite the man's masculinity to the greatest extent. Do not lie! If you don't think he's very big, don't tell him "Ah, how big you are!" Rather, you can say, "He's cute! I really like him ...". In my opinion, the best position for the first time is missionary. There, the control is almost entirely in the man - he can stop, withdraw temporarily, if necessary. If you are not a virgin - there is no problem for you.
When I was in such a situation, I approached quite aggressively and the boy was startled, but he was more anxious in principle.
Don't overplay with compliments and don't lie. If you say something, let it be true. You can start with French. Try to be moist or get a lubricant. I would recommend the missionary pose or the woman on top. F31
Unlike number 1, who claims that if you pretend to be a whore he will like it, I as a man can say that such women who pretend to be very open in sex with repulsive. And your friend has nothing to think about, no drama. My first time I didn't even tell the girl I was a virgin. It was not understood. So act calmly. Push yourself and slowly start to touch it. The rest is biology. Try not to drink before, or if so - very little.
What makes it clear that a man is a virgin! For women, we know that they have a membrane called the hymen, which breaks when deflorated! And a man has only one penis! Something is wrong to find out! And for a woman to be a virgin - at one time this was judged on the authority of the woman regarding marriage! It doesn't matter to the man!
8 is right about the fact that some men are repulsed by whores and women who are constantly made on sex machines. He is also right that there is no drama, for my first time, my girlfriend also did not understand that I am a virgin. And she was 7 years older than me and I was fifth. But I was prepared, and quite arrogant. As funny as it sounds, I had watched a lot of porn before and it helped me a lot, to know where and how to touch and insert it. I had also read about female erogenous zones. In general, I performed great, and I was so worried ... I couldn't even finish because of anxiety, but it was quite hard for me, which was a big plus. She was quite jealous and when we were arguing she told me "who knows how many whores you slept with before me, when you look at who you are ..." haha, I never told her the truth.
I'll give you a simple rule so that he doesn't run into the problem described by number 1 - by not hitting it. At the decisive moment, reach out and point it in the right direction. The male penis is extremely sensitive, but does not give absolutely any tactile information, that is, it is not like the fingers, it does not inform you where it is. Don't be aggressive, be natural, feminine, aroused, caress him and that's it.