Hi, I know it seems super silly to be jealous of this but I go crazy and I don't know why. My girlfriend and I have been together for a long time and the problem dates back to the beginning. We love each other very much and she honestly forgave me a lot of things (I'm not talking about infidelity) that not everyone would forgive, which I understood that she really loves me, she is also ready to live together, which is a huge step. But the problem is this. I really hate social networks, I really hate them. But she can't do without them. I constantly see that he likes pictures of boys not one in particular but many very many. There is almost no boy friend on social media who has not liked at least a few photos. And he keeps doing it and it annoys me a lot, I don't know why. Sometimes when we are not together and we write to each other, it happens that he tells me "I don't have a battery, then I will write to you". But then he sits online and I see that he still likes various photos of someone. It is also strange to me that a few boys who have pictures with their boyfriends did not like them but like others as if she envies their boyfriends. I consider myself a complete idiot to get nervous about it. I didn't say anything to her, but why should I do it then she would stop doing it because I told her but internally she would still want to. Everyone is different but I think I like a picture of someone, be it a boy or a girl, I look at it very carefully and I really decide if I like it and in most cases before I left with my current girlfriend I liked pictures to the man who uploaded them noticed me and now I think she does too. In my opinion, it's the same as looking at a boy on the street, however, in public and with a story that she did it. It's called the eyes and the pattern. I want advice from men if you think it's normal and if you would react like me. And a question to women, when you do the following thing, do you always do it with some intention of being noticed or something like that.
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And what if she liked the photos in question? Doesn't she have the right to like something? Doesn't he have the right to have friends, social contacts, to go out, to have hobbies? Maybe you should lock her in a room and keep her there for the rest of her life without access to the outside world? The more topics I read, the more my conclusion is confirmed that most men are complexes and psychics. This is your behavior.
Absurd, very few people like pictures with design. Even less people who like all kinds of photos uploaded by different people, and not specifically the photos of one particular. He does not like photos with boyfriends, because there are many jealous and frightened girls who directly start writing personal insults and accept it as an unearthly sin. Your girlfriend is just active online. This is not one of the best things, but I do not believe he does it in search of a lover. After all this time, you should have accepted it together, instead of continuing to get angry about such trifles. If you think she'll stop liking everything after a conversation, tell her. At least he knows that these actions make you angry. Hardly like the photos quite consciously, it rather becomes a habit, so there will be no particular problem.
And I think that if the photos are not one or two definite, there is no problem, but I understand you (because I'm jealous too). Try to control yourself and don't pay so much attention to it. Just have a social life of some kind (as far as social networks are social is a moot point, but more or less you understand what I mean, I hope).
I agree with the above opinions. Really, if he liked pictures of one or two specifics, then it would be a problem. In this case, she obviously likes all kinds of photos that are uploaded from her contacts. I don't think you need to worry about that. There are people who are active online, there are others who are not at all excited about social networks. Apparently your girlfriend is one of the first, but according to what you described, I'm not impressed to write to one or two specific men, I just like the photos of everyone, which I say again - should not be a problem.
Agree with the opinion of number 3, as long as everyone likes you, you have nothing to worry about. Likeing photos is a kind of invitation to like her photos, there is hardly a person who does not want to be liked. It would be disturbing if he starts to like photos and posts of only one individual, especially if he is a pedestrian from the neighborhood and not a star from the screen. I will not argue with number 2 - we have heard such omniscient and generalizing people, we know who the complexes are at the moment, no one has said "Doesn't she have the right to like something? Doesn't she have the right to have friends, social contacts, to go out, to does she have hobbies? Maybe you should lock her in a room and keep her there for the rest of her life without access to the outside world? ". The author talks about liking photos, not "something", it's not about depriving friends, social contacts, going out, hobbies, nowhere does he mention locking in a room without access to the outside world, but some have become immersed in the image of "Slave Isaura" and spray malice even without touching them. In fact, they have confessed to a situation and are trying to cover up their guilty consciences with insults and generalizations such as "most men are complexes and psychics" - yes, miss, I don't know about the others, but I'm just like that, I sincerely hope so. it's your thinking to find one of the few decent (according to your views)!
Like pictures of girls and you, without choosing, maybe do it to make you jealous, let her see what it is.: D I'm a woman and I would also be jealous if my boyfriend likes pictures of others, to like 1, well, but every picture, it's a show of attention, I do not know, maybe we jealous think so, but I can not take it so normally.