Hello!! I need quick answers and opinions, for which I will be very grateful! ☺❤ (I'm a girl and I'm graduating from university this year.) I've been dating a boy for a while and in the beginning our relationship was great. I introduced him to my family and he introduced me to his. We lived together and made plans for our dream future together. But after a while, the day came when he showed his obsession with video games. Something I didn't suspect at all during our first months together. Suddenly he became stunned and began to irritate, discredit and fail me if I prevented him from playing games. I was crying devastated, and he was looking at me coldly.
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His initial interest in you has passed, now you are just a convenient source of sex for him, if you even have an intimate relationship. He can hold you and run his household. But it is by no means out of love and respect. It's time to go. Good luck.
What are you roaring at him like he doesn't care? You give an ultimatum and a full stop. Either he stops playing like a maniac, or you break up with Jen
I'm a gamer too. I play all the time. I play the most when my boyfriend teases me for attention or sex. This is an escape from you. You press him with your need for attention. I can always control myself and even in the hottest moment of the game I can close my laptop and go out for coffee. I'm sure he can too. But he doesn't want to. Imagine being bored and he locks himself in his room. For him, the game is a room in which he closes, a personal space. Don't be jealous of the game, but think of a way for him to look for you and make you prefer the game. The other way is for you to start playing, but I doubt you will. You want him to go around you and your egocentrism. I doubt you care at all what he plays and whether it's really fun. Otherwise, by now you would be sitting at the computer next to him, instead of complaining here.
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№3 you are absurd. If it's up to you, when will you pay attention to her? I'm a gamer too, but having a girlfriend doesn't make me feel interesting to spend time with. And you are one of the people who have a boyfriend, no matter how useless, to do their housework, and when that work makes them itch. Don't lie to the girl that you love her or yourself that you're the big deal.
No.5 you speak by heart. At home I cooked, I cleaned, I bought food. Mine knew manicures and fashion forums. He lay on the bed all day, just ticking his phone. She was spoiled to nowhere, ie. she is used to being noticed. Only her mother and father can give her one. Even they can't anymore because they're tired of it. This is because no one has taught the muffin to take responsibility in life and to have goals, dreams and ambitions. She didn't even know what to study. Nothing was interesting to her. It's good that I taught her to play, that her brain was busy with something else. For a while, though ... she was a potential whore. Come on out ... After me, hit him on men, all but fools. Change them for half a year 4ma. 2 years is enough for me to tolerate her.
I used to have a boyfriend. I loved him very much, it doesn't matter. He started tickling games. And the turning point was when he played all day. I stripped completely naked, he got up came, had sex with me and sat naked to play. I then decided to start playing this game. I made a hero, I became stronger than him ... During this time he obviously cheated on me with a girl who was also in the game, she started writing me what an idiot I am, how everything happened in front of my eyes ... I I just asked her if she was proud to be a whore and then I started beating her and my ex already. I broke them from a fight with my character and refused to play them. But now I'm a gamer myself hahaha. But man, ignore them for the sake of the game, get rid of him. My husband and I both click, but the game never stands between us and does not interfere with our love or our daily activities.
№6 you are the speaker by heart. Your story is completely different from that of the author. You put a hedgehog in your pants yourself, choosing a muffin. It seems to them from afar and it's not as if you didn't know in advance. Didn't you hope that you would still teach her to be human when you put up with her? You are neither her mother nor her father. Once it is raised naughty, it will remain so.
№6 ... Hello, I am the author. Thank you for the comments and I would like to clarify that I have been playing a video game for many years since I was very young, but I finished with that a long time ago. I just don't have time anymore and I realized that I was wasting moments with my loved ones and I was staring a lot while playing. I have no complexes, I look good and attractive enough to attract attention from all sides. He knows very well that he will not find another such girl by intellect. The problem is that he is beaten by the crazy and dumps everything and everyone just to play. And his friends removed. The case is very bad. I don't know what to do and how to help him.