I need advice - my boyfriend wants us to have sex, and it's my first time. He does not want to use any protective equipment - condoms were not comfortable for him, and I do not take pills, because a gynecologist advised me not to take them when I do not have regular sex - unnecessarily overload the body with hormones. I'm afraid that my boyfriend has no experience with virgins and may release some semen in me ... What can I do - tell me !!! Otherwise he is a serious and responsible man and I love him very much! There is one more thing - does the man's sexual experience influence the first time with me to be as painless as possible, because I am dying of fear ........... Thanks in advance for the advice.
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Firm - with a condom. You should not take any risk. If he is experienced, it may not hurt much! There is always pain, but you have to go through it.
If the man next to you is really serious and responsible, he will protect you and take care of you. And since he doesn't have much experience, he decides that condoms are not comfortable for him.
Abe girl, being so very serious and responsible, your friend doesn't cost him anything, apologize for the expression, to come over and put on a condom ... so he protects you and himself ... Otherwise, calm down, things about the pain for the first time are so exaggerated that it is more likely that you don't really feel anything than that it hurts a lot, but don't wait for orgasms, it's possible, but it's unlikely ...
Since he is so serious and responsible, then what will it cost him to put on a condom, if he doesn't have any money, I will give it to him :) Even if he lets a little semen in you, there is a chance that he will become white ....
30 cents are the usual! I'm serious too, but without a condom I refused French love to my ex-boyfriend! I just didn't know her hygiene habits! So think from that point of view too!
Um, I'm also a virgin, but from the stories I heard the first time, it's better to have a condom because the 1st one hurt less and the 2nd one is not in danger of getting an infection and getting pregnant. So insist on a condom and tell him that if he really loves you and thinks about your health, he will put on a condom! In the end, nothing will happen to him!
GIRLS, KNOW FROM ME !!! SO THAT IT DOESN'T HURT A LOT, PICK YOUR FINGER FIRST. IT GETS BETTER NICE AND DOES NOT HURT. BELIEVE I KNOW FROM EXPERIENCE !!!
Hello ... I feel a little stupid, but I decided to share with people I don't know personally and ask for advice. I'm 15 and I've been having sex with my boyfriend very soon, and we've been dating for 9 months. I know that he loves me and I do not regret that I did it with him, but I have the feeling that I am very small ..: What do you think?
And I'm 15 and a few days ago I had sex for the first time. It hurt a lot and I could barely stand it. Could you tell me which is the most appropriate pose for the first time?
I'm also 15 and I did it soon, God, it's something human, what so ... and we also sewed it to the condom without the essence, I've never done sex with a condom: D
Male, you're crazy, and he's not comfortable, tell him you're not comfortable otherwise. He has to comply with you, at least because you're a girl, not to mention you're a child ... If he tells you he won't use it, it's very important, I don't think he's that serious. Do you know how many other things a condom protects, apart from getting pregnant, if he was at least seriously serious he wouldn't be blabbering on like this nonsense, like "they weren't comfortable" Gray
If he was serious, he wouldn't want it from you! ..
I'm 14 and I've already done it with a few boys. The first time I was 20 years old without a condom and he did great, predisposed me very well and almost did not hurt. It finally emptied on my chest. Without a condom it is better for both, but if he is not experienced it can become a shoot. The one I'm with now asks me about anal, but I'm not very sure isn't it a little early for that !?
A real man will, above all, put a woman's interest before his own. Tell him you want to be careful not to get pregnant. If he really cares for you, he will show understanding and protect you, if he still cares for his, then he does not care for you at all and is selfish who looks only at his own interest. I advise you to dump him and find another boy who will show more patience and understanding and will not press you for something and make you do things you do not want just to please yourself!