Hello ! Here's my problem: My boyfriend wants to have sex was a condom! I don't want to and he knows it very well but he keeps telling me to do it without ... what can I do !
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To abandon it, or to abandon your principles. Which do you choose ????
Drop it!
And I posted such a topic 2 months ago somewhere, tell him either with or without sex, this is you will not risk your health for one sex :)
Go with him to the clinic to do the tests to prove that he is healthy. I will never forget the story of a young woman intentionally infected by her "serious" friend with HIV. She trusted ... and that's the mistake. Now ... I don't want to say the same about your case, but who can guarantee that he is healthy? And he himself can't ... You're right. Until he proves to you that he's healthy, you're right.
Well, if you think he's serious and cares about you, he can. I have never worn a condom in my life and I have successfully looked after at least 50 women.
he wants without a condom, and does he want a baby?
Don't let him go for a month, let's see if he still insists :) You stand up for your Meg *
N8 Are you proud of that ??? For me personally, this is disrespect - first you don't care about yourself and then about your girlfriend. Let the quota happen - or it can't happen to me. Most unwanted children and abortions are just such "guardians" and " nepukists ", who finally ask the stupid question - But how in the possible? It is not possible for you to be pregnant or have contracted any disease from me
Aha, number 8, it's not just about "keeping" from getting pregnant, but also about not infecting or getting infected with something. Sexually transmitted diseases are a terrible thing, and if you're a little smarter, you're going to invest in prevention, not treatment. And I can advise the author to firmly uphold her principles, otherwise there is no sex. What's more, you're 100% teenagers and ... do you really want to risk something so serious?
And does it tell you why he wants without a condom?
meg how old are you
The condom is the weakest barrier against disease and the greatest against pleasure. Who is afraid of bears, do not go to the forest :)) №8
Number 14, does it matter how old I am ?! They are enough :) Meg *
Number 15, you obviously didn't go to school, so your self-esteem is inversely proportional to your knowledge! If you had walked, you would have known more about the world around you, in particular about diseases. Obviously experience will have to teach you if a condom is the weakest barrier against disease ?! ...
Go both to explore not only him !!!
13. Does he tell you why he wants without a condom? - it was more pleasant for him, and he is used to it from his previous girlfriend without ....
Egoist, to be pleased with him means, great, your opinion in your relationship and in the future will be so irrelevant ...
№ 19 and 20 and didn't you think that he feels hurt by the fact that she doesn't want without a condom and maybe he thinks that this way she doesn't love and respect him !!!
Well, as he is hurt to go to comfort herself, when she is ready she will do it without, if she does not want to, then she has judged why. She thanked the girl for not rushing to do it without protection. Congratulations from me. When she is sure of it, she can start without.
Yes, she's right, if she doesn't want to, then he should do it, but maybe she's not sure about it, but somewhere there are a lot of couples who do it without and the boy keeps it well and carefully.
Tell your friend that then he will look after the baby and hopefully then he will remember that sex is not only a pleasure but also a responsibility and what!
I am 22 and my ex-boyfriend and I have always had unprotected sex. I trusted him as much as he trusted me. My personal opinion is that if he believes in his friend there is no reason to ask for a condom! Yes, of course she has a chance to get pregnant, but she also has one if she has a condom. As for diseases. If you are faithful to each other and if you trust each other, you visit a gynecologist regularly and follow the necessary hygiene .... I do not see what the problem is!
Look now. It depends on how it is done. My friend and I do it without, but ... he has to sense the moment, act quickly, take it out and finish it himself in the last seconds. :) Not bad if you're shooting.